You have nothing to prove to anyone, who are they? what have they done? they will not pay your bills, they're not putting food on your table. If they don't like you so be it. They're so ordinary. Just be yourself and do your thing, if they don't like you then stop liking them too, you don't need to be nasty to them, just don't give them any attention. At the end of the day people will treat you by the way you treat them. If you are treating them too nice then they will abuse you, if you're too kind then then will become opportunistic. They will use you, they will play you and treat you like a weak person, do you want that? Stop being nice to all people, why are you pleasing them? are they going to give you some money? are they going to make your life better? definitely not so stop avoiding to look like a fool or bad, stop avoiding getting judge, it is what it is. If they like you they like you, if they don't then they don't, accept that some people will really hate you no matter how nice you are to them.
DON'T BE AFRAID TO LOOK LIKE A VILLAIN
Don't be afraid to look bad, if you're an asshole so be it but don't let other people abuse you or use you. Don't let them stop on you, man up and do something if you don't like the situation, it's either you leave or you forget them. You have nothing to lose if you look like a villain. It's not that you will punch them or something, it's just that you don't need to please them. At the end of the day they already judge you from the start. Don't be afraid to look like a villain because it's not helping you at all, it's only making you weak because you're not being yourself.
YOU WILL BECOME UNSTOPPABLE IF
You're not trying to prove anything to anyone, you will become powerful if you don't care about what people say. At the end of the day their words doesn't matter at all. Their words were just sound, it will become meaningless if you don't give it any meaning, it will become powerful if you will attach it with some emotion like anger and hate. Stop hearing them and just follow your heart. You don't need to please them, you don't need to look nice all the time. Just push yourself towards your goals, entertain yourself with your own ideas. The right people who really loves you will come or stay, focus on the right people who treats you right.
EMOTIONS ARE DANGEROUS
Stop being too emotional, stop being invested with feelings. Your feelings will make you crazy if you don't control it. You have to realize that it's just an emotion, it comes and it goes. You can change how the way you feel in an instant by altering your thoughts. Stop thinking about people or things that doesn't feel good to you.
STOP GETTING INTERESTED WITH OTHER PEOPLE
You are pleasing people because you like people. You want praises, you want likes. You're so interested with other people and that's they reason why you're so weak and depressed most of the time. Stop wanting everyone to like you and start focusing on yourself.
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