What does a victim do? he react violently or negatively, he makes dramas. He makes something to talk about, he is acting like a loser and powerless, he wants sympathy, he wants companion, he wants to look like a person who was treated so badly and unfairly. He simply wants to get love and attention from people. A victim is a loser, he is blaming other people for his stupid life, he doesn't want to fight back, he doesn't want to take matters into his own hands. And that's why he is very emotional, he let his emotions dictate his life. And if you're letting your emotions run you... you're on a downward spiral already, you need to check your emotions and stop feeling hurt. You need to learn how to fight and become the suspect, become a doer not a reactor. If something is disturbing you or abusing you, it's either you fight back or ignore it, either way will work, either way is going to make you feel better. You don't need to talk or whine about your problems, you need to face it, you need to embrace it and act like it is nothing. Never let a distraction or a toxic thing make you react negatively, never even make you lose sleep. You're better and stronger than that.
YOU WILL NEVER GET HURT
You are hurt because you're making dramas too much, you're making everything a big deal. You have to stop thinking about what's hurting you. Avoid being on a victim mode. Your thoughts creates emotions and your emotions creates reactions. You will never be affected again if you will proof your mind with positivity and trust in yourself. Believe that you are strong, believe that it's just a game. Your mind creates your reality, the way you think attracts different people and situations that are coherent with it. So the best way to stop being a victim is to just paly the game of life. Be the doer, be the suspect. Stop holding yourself back, stop dealing with nonsense things and simply focus on making a progress. Remember that what you think creates your reality. Just think about money or self improvement rather than thinking about being a victim, think about abundance, think about victories. You will never get hurt again if you're thinking the right way. Control your mind and you will control your life.
YOU GIVE POWER TO WHAT YOU ARE FOCUSING ON
your mind is the real enemy here, your mind creates your problems but the good thing is it can also create the solution. You give power to what you are focusing on, if you're focused on what irritates you then it will control you. If you focus on small problems then it will get bigger and bigger, it will show up everyday on different forms and colors. If you're focused on being a victim then you will become a victim everyday. If you're focused on your enemies then they will control your mind and emotions, they will play you, they will defeat you. The only way to become a winner is to focus on yourself, focus on your thoughts and just stay positive all the time. So look at yourself, where are you focusing on? are you focusing on useless subjects? are you interested with stupid issues? are you giving power to something that is not even worth it? if you keep on thinking about something then it becomes more and more powerful. So if you're thinking about the people that you don't like then they get more and more stronger than you. If you keep on thinking about what's missing in your life then you will never get what you are looking for.
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