What will happen will happen, no matter how hard you try you can never control the outcome. The outcome has something to do with luck, the universe will favor somebody. Not everybody will win but everyone can chase his own dream, that is what dream is all about... it's about the chase, it's about knowing if you can become great or not. Don't expect to win and just give your all, if you're too concerned about winning then you will never win because you will never take actions, you will never take the risk because you're so afraid to lose. But if you will just let go and do what you can do then everything else will become a lot easier. Focus on yourself, don't focus on the outside and just focus on the inside. Don't want it so bad because it will make you stiff, it will make you freeze. Just enjoy it even if you are scared, try to be present, don't think about what's going to happen next and just feel loose. Don't concern yourself too much with the external things, don't worry about what you can't do or get. Focus on taking it one step at a time and enjoy the journey, enjoy the process and don't expect to win all the time. Embrace everything, give your best but never let the idea of winning and becoming great consume you because it will create a lot of pressure. You're already great if you worked hard, you're already great if you take the risk, there is nothing else to worry about. Why will you be worried about the things that you can't control? that's stupidity at its finest. The only thing you can control is your actions and thoughts, focus on it. If you can't control your thoughts then focus on your game plan, focus on your philosophy, believe in your belief and never change it. Don't expect to win all the time, just do it. Just give yourself a chance and be satisfied with it. Give your all but don't put pressure on yourself to win, enjoy the game, enjoy life. It's like playing a video game, you just play, if it's game over then it is game over, as simple as that. There is nothing wrong by giving your all. There is nothing wrong with working so hard, it's your only chance so why not use it? Believe in yourself but always think that you already won because you try, most people would not even dare to try, they're so scared to fail, they're so scared to take the blame. You have to do whatever you can do and set yourself free. If you fail you fail so be it. Greatness simply means pushing forward, it's showing up every single day, it's doing your responsibility, it's focusing on the small gains. You have no reason to feel sorry for yourself if you already prepared so hard. There is always another chance, there is always a next try. You can try as much as you can, never give up when things are hard, just keep trying and see what you can get.
It's all in the mind, losing is all in the mind, if you don't make it a bid deal then it is not a big deal. Don't worry about what people say and just experience life. Life means taking the risk when it is there, life is fighting, life is experiencing triumph and falter. If you're afraid to fail then you're not living at all. Just do it, just start, never let your fear stop you, never worry about what people say because they will judge you no matter how good you are. Not all people will like you especially if you're trying to be yourself. Don't expect all people to like you, don't expect to win all the time. It is what it is, you need to give yourself a chance to win, you need to make yourself vulnerable to failure or else you will never make a breakthrough.
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