In order to do something easily and less stressful you need to have a good rhythm, you need to have a good timing. but what if you can't find it? what if nothing right is going on? what if you can't make a momentum, the answer is simple, use a rugged rhythm if you need to, use an ugly rhythm. It doesn't matter how perfect your work look like, you just need to do it, you just need to start. Even if you're making a lot of mistakes, even if you're struggling so bad... keep struggling and moving forward. It's only just a matter of time before something click. What you cannot do is be lazy and delay something, you need to do it now. Even if it is uncomfortable, even if your work is mediocre... just do it. Start now and never stop. Never put off things tomorrow because it will only make matters worse. Drag yourself if you need to, make your hands dirty and never stop pushing. It is what it is, if you're afraid of the hardest things then you will get scared forever, you will never accomplish anything. Feel everything, feel what is going on, embrace the difficulty and keep moving forward all the time.
STOP WASTING YOUR TIME THINKING ABOUT WHAT IS RIGHT OR WRONG
The right way to do a pull up, right way to run, right way to meditate, right way to study, right way to start a business. You're wasting a lot of your time and energy searching for the right way. There is no such thing as a perfect technique, there is no specific rule to do something. You can do it your way, if it is working a little bit then it is right, you just need to do more. Stop wasting your energy worrying if you are right or wrong, if you have the perfect tools or not, just do it, just start and never look back. Follow through, it doesn't matter if you're making fast progress or not, what matters is you are moving and you're allowing yourself to believe in yourself.
Don't look for an escape when it is hard. Don't look for shortcuts, don't look for pleasures, you have to deal with it, you have to go for it and embrace it. Embrace the struggle, embrace the resistance and stress because it is the only way to grow. You will never grow if you're always stopping and doing an easier activity every time you face a challenge. You have to face the challenge no matter what, never think about winning or losing, just face it and carry on. You never know what will happen next so just give yourself a chance to et closer to your goal a little bit. Step by step, inch by inch, this is not a race, this is a marathon. You will only be able to build a rhythm if you keep going and never stop. It doesn't matter if you look like a fool, just do what you need to do and forget what the world is saying. What they say is none of your business, you have to follow your vision, you have to keep pushing until something happen. Never look for approval, never look for validation, you have to be yourself and focus on getting better everyday. The time is now, keep pushing and grinding, do whatever it takes to get to the next level. You're a different beast and you have to remind yourself about it. Use a rugged rhythm if you need to, make your hands dirty and make a lot of mistakes. You only have one life why will you waste your energy thinking about what might went wrong. Life is a risk, this is a game, you need to play it right, adapt the right mindset and never give up, that's all you need to do and you will win.
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