If your confidence is very low it only means one thing... you're not taking enough actions, you're acting like a bum, your effort was very low and you don't have a discipline. If you didn't experience enough pain because you didn't face the challenges needed then your confidence will never soar, it will never improve. That's why pain, sacrifice and challenges is needed when you want to become a strong person. If you will never face the pressure, if will shy away from adversities then you will never grow, as simple as that. You need to embrace life, embrace the difficulties if you want to get better. Your confidence will grow if you're willing to do whatever it takes just to win or improve a little bit. If you're not afraid of defeats, if you're goin all in and making big time sacrifices then you will grow very fast as a person, you will reach your full potential. But the reason why you can't gain confidence is you're not allowing yourself to fail, you're not expressing yourself, you're not executing your ideas. You need to test yourself and see what you can become by trying and taking matters into your own hands.
WATCH YOURSELF EVERY SINGLE MINUTE
Watch your actions, watch your thoughts, watch your behavior. Every action should be coherent to greatness and improvement. You should feel disgusted of yourself if you're like a lazy clown who's not behaving properly. If you want to become a beast then do what beasts does, sacrifice like your life depends on your goal. Stop doing meaningless activities like scrolling on social media, liking, commenting, arguing, gossiping, watching stupid tik tok dances from outfluencers. You need to stop being weak, stop being soft, never let the media control your mind. Social media and other external things are making you weak, power comes from within. Never consume things that will make you weak, slow and dumb. You will never grow if you can't control yourself, there is no foundation without discipline, if you can easily get distracted by different topics or trends then you will get weaker and weaker. You need to go inside of you, ask yourself what do you really want? ask yourself if you're getting better by what you're doing now. Take a minute to reflect, take time to really think consciously and never let the old programming inside of your head control you. You need to control your mind, control your cravings and urges. An instant gratification is what makes you weak, you will never grow if you're always satisfying your urges. Stop punking yourself, stop sabotaging yourself, if you wanted to grow then make sacrifices that are unimaginable. Focus on getting better everyday. It's an endless process, you will only feel confident of yourself, if you're focus on improving and not on downgrading. Upgrade your skills, strengthen your discipline, increase your speed, sharpen your mind and improve your focus. That's all you need to do. Stop doing the things that will never give you anything in the future, it's like investing. Invest on the right actions and you will benefit from it in the future, as simple as that. Be patient, it will take time, it will take a lot of effort but the more you suffer the more you get stronger. You are weak, you have no confidence at all because you didn't make sacrifices, you didn't work for something for so long, you don't have a goal that you're chasing, you are not serious about your full potential. But if you will execute your ideas, if you will at least try and decide to never give up then your confidence will soar. Create your own philosophy, create your own belief and live and die with it.
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