A temptation is something that will eat your time, energy and money without getting something in return. It will make you weak, slow, dumb, fail and depressed. Avoid instant gratification, avoid wasting your time and you will become a better person. If you will just work instead of wasting your time for something that doesn't give you money then life gets better, you have a momentum, you have a foundation. Why in the hell will you spend hours and hours on facebook if you're not earning from it? why will you think about a person that doesn't love you back? it's a waste of energy. You better watch yourself carefully, watch what's going on with your life.
HAVE THE ABILITY TO NOT GET ATTACHED FROM ANYTHING
You're so attached with the past, people, what you did, mistakes, outcome, future, what people think and that's why you couldn't even move. But if you will make yourself vulnerable with failure, rejection, embarrassment and pain then you will become invincible, as simple as that. Never care about what may happen next. Forget the past, don't worry about the future. You need to build a new you now, you need to think differently if you WANT TO get away from the rut you are in. You are stuck right now aren't you? you need to move forward and do something about it. At the end of the day nothing should control you. A product should not control you, people should not control you, recession should never scare you, trends should not influence you. You should focus on what's really important and disregard what's not important at all. Discipline and consistency is the key to success and nothing else. You should be mindful of what you're doing and always believe that everyday is an opportunity for growth.
KILL YOUR URGES
This is you against you, you have to remember that. You are battling yourself, it's not about the circumstances, it's not about the problems... it's you, you need to control yourself and fight those temptations. Fight your urges, every time you want to spend for nothing, every time you want to get lazy, every time you want to procrastinate and choose fake comfort.... you need to kill your urges. Everything is trying to distract you and you're not aware of it. Kill the urge to eat junk food, kill the urge to stop, kill the urge to get comfortable, kill the urge to buy something, kill the urge to procrastinate, kill the urge to rest even if you're not tired. Your urges are the ones making your life miserable, you need to stop yourself from being in love with instant gratification. Just stop yourself, even if you already open the snack, even if you already started the TV show, even if you already open your cellphone, even if you're already having a lot of fun scrolling on instagram... stop it. Your mentality get stronger when you stop the fun that is going on. It's a strong discipline, it's a good start, the momentum was built, you're already progressing. Stop it when it already started. This is the only way to change your route, it's the best way to change your life, when it's really entertaining and you discipline yourself then you already reached a different level. Every time you fall, every time you made a mistake... go back to the plan and execute it again.
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