Have you ever wonder why your task is too simple, you know you can do it but you can't start it? you know what to do but you're not doing it, you know the first step but you can't pull the trigger. You know that getting rich is simply working hard but you can't believe in yourself, you know that getting fit is simply exercising and dieting but it feels like hell doing it, have you ever wonder why you are like that? the answer is very simple, it's because you didn't practice it. It takes 1 month to build a strong habit, only one month but you are not using your willpower to discipline yourself to do what you need to do. You are not watching yourself, you are not mindful, you simple put yourself on an auto pilot mode and you're not doing something about it. It's hard taking actions because it is not your habit. But if you will try to build a habit of doing whatever it is that you need to do then it will get easier. It will get easier and easier everyday, you don't even need a motivation to take action, you just need to start now. Force yourself to build the right habits now and then repeat it again tomorrow. It will never be hard again once you repeat it a lot of times, repetition is the key, stay focused on what you're trying to build and get rid of the useless steps that you've been taking everyday. It will take time to build a strong habit, it is stressful and boring, it feels heavy and tiring that's why you need to force yourself to like it, that's why you need to force yourself to just enjoy the process.
DON'T JUDGE YOURSELF, DON'T ASPIRE TO BE PERFECT
Stop looking for perfection, stop being a perfectionist because it will never happen. Just do what you can do, be fast, start now and never wait for Christmas before you take actions, stop being soft and go for the kill. Perfection is for losers, it's for underachievers because they couldn't move, they're always looking for what is wrong, they can't make a progress because they're too cautious of taking actions and that's why they're always left behind. Don't be afraid to fail and make mistakes, it's too normal, you're just a human being, allow yourself to fail so that you can take massive actions. Because the number one reason why you can't move is because you want to get it right on the first try, you are not giving yourself a room for improvement, you want to become good right away and that will never happen. Be patient and take your time, allow yourself to make a lot of mistakes and learn from it. Be fast and never think, you are here to move and not to worry about the things that are not happening yet. What will happen will happen but there is one thing for sure... you will lose if you don't move.
STOP GETTING INTERESTED WITH EVERYTHING
Your focus was scattered, you're too interested with everything that's why you can't start anything. You're too worried, you're too addicted to useless information. You want to know what other people are doing, you're so hungry of information about celebrities, influencers, politicians etc. but the truth is it's not helping you at all. Be mindful where your time goes, your time is your most valuable asset, you need to protect it and use it the right way. Let them do their thing and just do your own thing.
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