Don't look outside, look within, what's happening inside of you? what are you doing what are you thinking? that's all that matters. What's outside of you is a reflection on what's inside of you. If you are negative inside then you will become negative outside, as simple as that. So learn how to appreciate everything even if you don't like it. Just look within, study your thoughts and feelings, study how you view life. Study how you react, study why are you feeling that way. Stop letting everything get your attention, you need to be mindful of your thoughts and never let it be controlled by something that is not even worth it. What angers you controls you, where you focus is where you end up. The question is what are you focusing on? what is making you feel something? You have to change now, you have to create a new mentality, something that is stronger than what it use to be and it will only get stronger if you are focusing on yourself and not consuming a lot of information that are worthless and even harmful. Stop dwelling on things or problems that are making you feel bad and start focusing on better challenges that will make you grow.
REWARD YOURSELF WITH TIME
It's hard for you to get better because you don't have time for yourself. You have more time for others that's why you're not improving, that's why you're not happy. You're always looking at them, trying to know what they are up to, you're always updated of other people's lives, you're always look at the outside and and not on the inside. Reward yourself with time, use your time for your own growth. Develop yourself though focusing on getting better and being disciplined all the time. What the hell will you get for watching sports or news? what improvement will you get by scrolling on social media all day long? it's making you worse and it is corrupting your mind. Every time you find yourself itching to procrastinate and wanting to know what other people are doing... stop it. Focus on yourself, that's where the self development starts. Don't get too excited with what's going on with other people's lives and start getting excited on how to make your life better. Always remind yourself that you will never get anything from following celebrities or stupid influencers, it's only making your life worse, you will get stuck by having that kind of mentality. Follow yourself instead of following them, it is not about being narcissistic or something, you are just rewarding yourself with more time. You are just using your time wisely, you are not competing against them, you ae not hating them, you don't think that you are better than others, you're just trying to get better everyday. Get addicted to discipline, get addicted to self improvement and you will have a much better life, you will double or triple your productivity, you will go to another level. Focus on yourself and you will reach your full potential, look within and never look outside again. You will feel happier if you are taking care of your own life and not minding other people's business.
Use your time for yourself only, never give time for people and activities that are not making you better. Time is precious, time is gold, you need to take care of it. Taking care of your time and staying disciplined is what will make your life extraordinary, you just have to trust the process, you just have to believe that your commitment to improve is something else, not just a wannabe idea that will end for nothing. Believe that everything you do for yourself will give you a very good life in the future.
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