The pressure will go away if you're not trying to impress anyone, you will become yourself, you will feel loose and free, you will be able to do everything you want. How good was that? look at yourself, you are looking like a fool, you are acting so weak by trying to be liked by everyone, the question is... are they liking you? are they giving you the same energy? They will never like you no matter how hard you try to impress them, they already judged you from the very beginning. Stop thinking that you can change their minds, if they like you they like you, if they don't then there's nothing you can do to alter their feelings towards you.
STOP TRYING TO FIT IN
you are not here to fit in, you are here to become different, stop doing what they are doing, stop speaking the way they speak. Those fools are all the same, they don't want to get criticized by being different, they don't want to be called dumb and stupid. Don't be afraid of what they say, don't be afraid of what they think, they're just humans like you, they're nothing special, one day they're going to die too so stop respecting them too much. Who are they? they're not paying your bills, they're not putting food on your table, who are they to affect your decisions? SO what if you look weird, the more you give attention to what they say the weaker you become. The reason why you can't be yourself is because you're so afraid of getting criticized, you're so afraid of failing because you think they might judge you so badly.
DO IT NOW
Whatever you wanted to do, whatever you needed to do... do it now. Stop waiting for the right time, execute now. Never think that you can do it tomorrow, you have to do it now and make things happen. Create a momentum. Never care about what people might say, remember that your goal is to never impress anyone, the goal is to impress yourself and do it your way. You will feel much better if you have this kind of mentality.
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