May 9, 2020

YOUR HATERS SHOULD PAY YOU

Your haters are your secret admirers, they're hating you but they are watching you. They should pay you every time you fail because it makes them happy. They're watching your journey, they know every second of your movement. They always get insecure when you're doing something new, they feel sick when you're succeeding a little bit. They know why you fail, they can't believe if you win, they gate it when you're improving or creating a buzz, they will give advises that are not sincere, they will back stab you but pretend that they care when you're around.

They were so happy when you're struggling, they feel successful when you fail even if they didn't get anything from it. They were so scared that you might become successful because they don't want you to rise. They feel insecure whenever you're working hard and giving your best because they can't even do that.

So don't feel pressure ever because your haters are watching, don't feel that you have something to prove. If you fail you made your haters happy, you made someone happy. It's a win win situation for you, your haters should pay you every time you fail because it made their day, it was one of the happiest moments of their lives.

THEY'RE ONLY HAPPY WHEN YOU'RE FAILING

What a sad life they have, they're only happy when you fail. They can't chase a goal on their own. Their happiness was based on your failure. They don't know how to start and build their own dreams. So don't get mad at them because they have a sad life. Never pressure yourself to win because you're giving them a favor if you lose, they were so happy when you lose, so just think that you are making someone happy every time you lose. They should even thank you but of course haters won't do that. You entertained them with your journey, whether you win or lose... they were surely entertained. But the funny thing is it didn't do anything good to their lives, they just wasted their time watching you because they didn't even grow from hating you. So just do your work, keep moving forward all the time. With or with haters, stay confident with yourself and never stop working.

GET USED TO IT

Some people will hate you, and you have to get used to it. If you're chasing something big, if you're dreaming... a lot of people will think you're weird, a lot of them will laugh at your work. You have to be ok with that, it's nothing, you can still work hard even if you have a lot of haters. Never let them distract you, don't let them get inside of your head. They were just a small part of your journey. Make them as a fuel to get you more motivated. If you have haters it means you're doing something right, it means you caught their attention because you're making an impact. Don't ever feel bad with your haters because it's only making you weak and slow, just keep moving forward and ignore all of them, it's possible to feel nothing towards them, just ignore them and never react to anything that they say. Just shut your mouth, do the work and silence them in the end with your success.

If you can just become comfortable with some people hating you then you're free, totally free, you will be able to express yourself more, you will no longer be afraid of getting criticized, you will do what you want to do regardless of the outcome.

HATERS WILL ALWAYS HATE

Once you spot a hater, be careful because that hater will do no good to you. No matter how much you try to please them, they will never top hating you, they were like that forever. So stop pleasing them because you're only giving them power, don't ever think that they will be kind to you once you become kind to them, they will never change, they hate you from the very beginning and they don't will never wish for your success, the will be like that forever. So whenever you have a hater in you circle or environment, the best way to treat them is to ignore them, don't give them any of your attention, just live your life and give your best, keep in mind that you can live without them. And never think that they will change one day, stop wishing for that because it will only disappoint you, just let them be and focus on your own life and work.

BE YOURSELF AND NEVER CHANGE

Never change because some people hates you, never change your belief, never change the process. Just keep moving forward and always give your very best every single day. Be yourself, you are who you are, you're enough, you don't need to please your haters and try to fit in, you don't need to please any people, you are doing what you're doing because you love it and you believe in it. Whether you become successful or not... be happy that you go all in and stretch your limits, be happy that you were able to do what great people do and that is to push yourself to the limits.

Q: HOW TO FEEL COMFORTABLE WITH HATERS SURROUNDING YOU?

A: You don't need to feel comfortable with them, just be yourself, embrace discomfort, live in the moment and always think that you are alright no matter what. They can hate anytime they want but you're still good, you're still living and happy with your own life. So never mind getting comfortable with haters, it is what it is, it will really become uncomfortable but you can survive it so don't be afraid of it, face it and just pretend that you didn't hear anything.

You can feel nothing about your haters, you can feel invincible and confident despite of their hatred. Who are they to make you feel something? they're nothing, they were just watchers wishing you to fail. 

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