May 11, 2020

THE ART OF NOT CARING ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE ARE DOING

If you really love yourself then you will enjoy yourself, you will care more of what you are doing rather than caring about what other people are doing. You will love your work and ideas, you will have full support on your dreams, you will work hard because you believe in your own process. What other people are doing doesn't matter anymore, it's outside of your control, its not helping you because it's just eating a lot of your precious time. You will go deeper with your journey, you will go to the extreme, you will never hold yourself back like you always do in the past, you will become selfish of your time.

You don't mind if the other person is succeeding, you don't care if your enemy is failing, you just don't care because you knew it's a waste of time and energy giving them some of your attention. You're too focused on growing and evolving, you love every movement that you did. You only care about your own process and journey and nothing else. You are completely aware that you need every second of your life because you want to become successful and reach your full potential. You need every second of your life to change your life and get to that next level, the more you waste your time the more you are going down, if you want to become have a high performance results then be selfish with your time, never let a poor entertainment poison and distract your mind.

So focus on what you're doing, instead of watching other people getting successful why not watch your own journey and make yourself successful too. You can do it if you really want it, all it takes is discipline and effort. The more you concentrate on your work, the better you will become, you will be able to reach new heights, your skill level and value will go higher and higher. Never care about them and they will care for you, never mind if they are succeeding and you are not, you will have your own time, you will shine when your reign comes.

IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS TO KNOW WHAT THEY THINK OR DO

They can say whatever they want with you, they can criticize you or mock you, they can embarrass you, but it's who they are, let them be themselves. You caught their attention, it only means you're doing something right. So don't even bother bothering yourself with their hatred and jealousy, keep living your life and still give your very best because that's the only way to succeed. Time will come and you will be able to prove that you're right.

Don't even bother what they are doing too, if they succeed so what, don't get jealous and just be happy for them. Having this kind of approach only means you are confident that you will become successful too and that you don't need to complete against anybody. Your time is s valuable so stop using it for some other things that will not even help you to improve and develop, you need to be mindful where are you using your time because it is a crucial element to your success. Just try this for one month, try to minimize the way you waste your time and see how incredible results will be drawn into your life. If you can just stop caring about what other people are doing then you will have more time for yourself, you will be able to do more and make yourself closer and closer to success. The reason why you can't become successful is because you're too worried about what other people are doing and thinking, you're too sensitive, you don't want to get left behind, you don't want to get criticized. If you will just free yourself from any of their doings then you will become more productive, you will be able to create something special for yourself.

FOCUS ON YOUR OWN WORK AND YOU WILL BECOME HAPPIER

Never mind if they are disturbing you or irritating you, never mind if some people are a burden to your journey. Always remember that you can never control everything, if you will always react to anything that other people do then you will lose your focus and motivation, you will lose your edge, you will become slower, your mind will focus on them instead of focusing on success. Focus on your work to become happier, focus on your work to have a peace of mind, if you are simply happy doing your work then all of your problems were solved. The number one reason why you're not happy with your life is because you're always looking at other people's lives, you're studying them, hating them, idolizing them to the point where you don't have energy for yourself anymore. Take your time to improve, hone your skills, do the best you can to make your life better each day. Strive to reach the best version of yourself and you can only do that by giving more time for yourself, so won your time and never let anyone steal it from you.

Q: WHY AM I HAVING A HARD TIME FOCUSING?

A: Don't feel ashamed of yourself if you're having a hard time focusing, just keep trying, it's hard because you don't have a history in the past about focusing hard. You need to train your mind, you need to force yourself and discipline yourself. It's stressful because you are progressing, without stress then there is no growth so be happy if you're having a hard time because it means you're already there. If you find yourself getting bored with your task, just stop for a while and breathe, be aware of what is going on and try to slow down, pause for a few seconds but never change your task. Once you find yourself already calm then go back to your work right away. Don't look at your cellphone, don't do some other things... just focus on your work, if you're already too tired then rest a little bit but never open the television or your cellphone, you need to stay lock in even if you're resting. 

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