Reinventing your life is possible, it's not that hard if you will make it simple. If you will just follow the tips below then you will be able to reinvent your life in just a matter of time, all it takes is patience and discipline. Keep going, keep persevering, you have to use your willpower, you have to focus on your goal and never let any distraction make you slower and frustrated.
1. Change the pattern.
Look at your behavior, it is all connected to a thought. You are doing something because a thought triggers it. If you want to reinvent your life then you need to be mindful of your thoughts. Your thoughts is the one in control of your life. Basically all of your actions was triggered by your subconscious mind. You're doing something because it was recorded in your brain. You're always in an auto pilot mode, that's why it'so hard to get rid of a bad habit, it's because you've been doing it for a very long time and it's already hardwired in your brain. Look at those drug addicts... Most of them want to change, they don't want to do drugs anymore but they feel that's it's impossible to change because they always feel weird and uncomfortable whenever they try stop taking drugs.
The pattern of your thoughts will only change if you're aware of your stupidity, you must feel everything. People who were stuck in a mud for a very long time can't feel anymore, they just go with the flow, they let their thoughts and addiction to delayed gratification control them. If you want to reinvent yourself you need to feel the pain, you need to realize that it's hard but you have to keep going, keep pushing until you finally control your thoughts and build the discipline you needed to become successful.
2. Leave some of the toxic people in your circle
There are some people in your circle who are contributing to your life getting rotten even more, you know them you just don't have the strength to leave them. I'm not saying that you have to ignore them and make them feel that you're no longer interested in hanging out with them, you can little by little get cold with them or you can reject them simultaneously by making excuses or dramas that they're also using on you before. It's time to leave the people who are not making you feel motivated, don't think about them, ignore their messages but don't be rude, just treat them cold and they will go away, they will feel it. And when they ask if there is something wrong just pretend that there is nothing, leave them thinking about what went wrong. And feel no guilt by doing it, remember that you are reinventing your life and part of the process is getting rid of people that are only making you feel weak and useless. You have a value, it's just that your value is getting smaller every time you hang out with people who are toxic, users and cry babies. They have no place in your life, they're only using you, its time to man up and pick the right people to your life. Take care of the people who are making you feel motivated, only hang out with people that really cares for you.
3. GO harder than yesterday.
You need to go hard, I mean really hard, not like a soft teddy bear that is so frail and useless. You have to make yourself stronger, more productive, you have to increase your value by not wasting time and focusing on things that are giving you some progress. Go hard even if results were not coming yet, go hard all the time, you can do it. Once you develop a habit of working hard all the time... it will be easier for you to conquer obstacles, you will no longer be afraid of any process, your endurance and focus will become much better. Start fast and go hard, never think, stop caring about how you feel, stop caring if you're badly exhausted... just keep moving forward all the time. Don't worry about resting because you can rest anytime you want to once you become successful. The rest is in the end and not in the middle.
4. Go for what you want relentlessly.
Go for it, attack it, have no conscience in getting it, do whatever it takes to make it yours. The reason why you can't reinvent your life is because you know what you want but you're not aiming for it. Don't be afraid to lose over and over again, you only need to win once but you have to try as many as you can. Trying is free, the number of trials you are allowed is unlimited so take advantage of that privilege. There is something you can do, there is an action waiting to get started, you have to keep pushing the pace, be a relentless lion that hunts for his prey all the time, it doesn't matter if you're not getting anything for now... just attack relentlessly and viciously.
5. Reinvent your thoughts
Give other meaning to different things, give it a better meaning. For example if today is not your day, think that tomorrow is going to be your lucky day. most people will lose hope when they fail today, reinvent your thoughts and always think that everything that is happening is giving you a favor. If you failed today, think that it's just a learning curve, think that it's purpose is to make you a better person. Your thoughts is what make you, your thoughts is the creator of your reality, you better think the right way, you better fill your mind with positive thoughts if you want to have a very good transformation. It's hard to think positive but if you can make it a habit to practice it everyday then those negative thoughts inside of your head will be replaced by the positive ones. Take time to practice, take time to know yourself , tame your mind and stop focusing on the things that you don't want to attract into your life, focus only on the thoughts that makes you feel better and motivated.
6. Be patient in learning the skills you needed.
There are some skills that you need in order to become a better person, and it's your duty to learn those skills. Don't rush, it will take time, enjoy the learning process. You don't need to learn everything in one day, be fast in moving but don't panic when you can't get the information you needed, you will learn it naturally if you will love the process. Don't be afraid to apply the skills you learned right away, don't just think about it... apply it, execute and don't be afraid if you can't get it right on the first try, you will learn even more every time you fail so don't be afraid to endure he bitterness of failure because you're headed to the right direction every time you take the risk.
7. Be a doer not a procrastinator.
As simple as it sounds, be a creator, be a doer, do something instead of watching other people succeed. Stop talking and just do something, this is not hard, all it takes is the discipline to stay committed. Watch yourself, are you a doer or a watcher? are you a commentator or an executor? Always guard what you are doing, always be aware if you're not doing something that will make you evolve. Doers evolve everyday and that is why they keep succeeding and growing and winning. While procrastinators simply watch other people perform and get jealous with it, they were more interested in talking about what other people are doing instead of focusing on their own lives and try to grow a little bit by taking actions and working hard. You can reinvent your life by simply being a doer, do something. It doesn't need to be fast, flashy or great... just do something and never stop, make it a habit to be the one performing and not watching. If you are a doer then you're in control, you can control the outcome of your life but if you're just a watcher then you're the one being controlled by the things that you are watching. You are hoping to see something differently but you can't because you're not part of the show, you're just an audience wishing to see the perfect ending of other people's stories.
8. Stop looking for a change.
Be the change, stop looking for improvement and just practice improving. You're always looking for an improvement in your life even if you haven't done anything massive yet, you're always checking for results even though you only give a little effort. Stop looking for a chance and just change everyday, be the change you want to happen. Focus on the process and not on the results. There is no such thing as a fast or big transformation, great things doesn't happen in just one night. You have to grind, stay committed and push as much as you can, there is no shortcuts to reinvent your life. You have to undergo every process, you have to take every step required to achieve the life that you want.
9. Work even if you don't need to.
Just because your papa gave you 500 gran doesn't mean you don't have to work anymore. Remember, if you're too comfortable with your life then your life will go down later. You have to keep working because you can only produce growth thorough working. If you want to reinvent yourself then make yourself uncomfortable even if you have the luxury to not work. Working will be your obligation if you want to have an evolution. Because grinding and forcing yourself is the only way to change your life or produce a different outcome, you will never be able to reinvent your life if you're chilling too much and not doing some hard things. Work even if you don't have to, work hard now because it is easier to work hard while you don't need to, it's harder to work hard if you are being forced to do so just to have some money. Work hard now and build your own empire, build a strong foundation now so you won't be forced to work hard in the future.
10. Learn to enjoy every moment of your life.
For you to get out of the rut you are in... you have to enjoy your life. Enjoy every second of it, enjoy the process, enjoy the struggle. Enjoy your stinky life, enjoy your boring and hard life... that's the only way to have a right state of mind. It's easy to evolve and improve if you're appreciative of what you have. Stop comparing what you have with what other people have, stop looking at other people's lives and getting jealous with them. Be happy with your own life and learn to enjoy every second of it. Having fun will make you do more, it will keep you motivated and aggressive. Enjoy every moment of your life even if you're on a bad situation.
11. Give nothing but your best
Stop exerting a mediocre effort because you are not stretching your skills by doing that, always give your best. You can do better than that, there is always a room for improvement, you can always give an extra effort, you can always work longer than you normally do. Show your best, chase greatness. How to know if you're giving your best? if you're making the process a little more difficult than what it used to. Make it a promise to give your best no matter what. Just give your best, don't look for perfection but always give your best, you know if you're pushing yourself or not, you know if you're exerting a poor effort.
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