May 20, 2020

4 EFFECTIVE HACKS TO STOP DOUBTING YOURSELF AGAIN

Are you always doubting yourself? Do you find yourself being scared of winning? it's ok, it's ok to become scared. It's part of who you are, it's part of being a normal person. Doubting yourself, thinking that you're not good enough was experienced by every great person in the world. You are not normal if you're not scared just for once.

HERE ARE THE FOUR MOST EFFECTIVE HACKS TO STOP DOUBTING YOURSELF AGAIN:

1. Don't think for a second and just do it.

Your mind is the number one source of your doubts, it is feeding you lies. The more you think, the more you worry. Stop overthinking and you will stop over worrying. Just do the work. The more you work hard, the more you will gain confidence. Just start, you will lose confidence if you will procrastinate and wait for the perfect timing, why? because there will be a lot of information that you will absorb as you wait. Other people will influence your mind, the pressure will become bigger, fear will start to take over. Because at the end of the day... you really want to do it, why not do it now? waiting will kill your self esteem, it will make you frustrated. Just don't think, be in the moment and do it now.

It is possible to just do it now, it's fun, you have to give it a try. Your worries and anxiety will instantly go away if you do it now. It's not hard, just be ready to adapt and accept anything that may happen. You may fail, you may look like a stupid fool but that's just the part of it. Remember, you are trying to kill your doubts, non of their comments doesn't matter at all.

2. Live with the results.

For as long as you work hard and giving your best, there is nothing else you can do about it anymore. Live with the results. If you fail you fail, if you win you win. Live with the results, have a mindset of having no regrets. If you screwed up everything, if you fail big time... so be it. Results should never make you feel bad at all. Live with it, you will never die if the result is not that nice. Results doesn't matter at all, what matters is you work hard and you did your best. Results is just an illusion, it's just another judgement from people. Because the truth is... you can still feel good even if you didn't win, and that is if you really believe in yourself and did it your way. So what if you lose? so what if you got rejected by a girl or got shouted by a coach? so what if your life is falling apart? you are still alive. Remember that every pain is molding you into a warrior, you are becoming a beast every time you feel bad because of losing. You are slowly going to the next level so don't be afraid to take risks because that is the key to riches and glory.

3. Never compare your skills, life, achievements with anyone. 

You have to appreciate everything that is happening in your life. Every time you compare yourself with others... you are disrespecting yourself. You know you can work hard, you know there are greater things waiting for you, comparing means you're insecure, you will doubt yourself even more every time you do that. Appreciate what you have, don't try to copy other people's path, be content of what you have and just try to make it grow, try to make it bigger bigger than what it was before. You are a unique individual, you don't need to compare what you have to what other people have. It's shame to look at other people's achievements and feel bad because you don't have the same type of victory. You need to understand that your path is different from theirs and that you need to focus on your life because success will come in your life too in just a matter of time, be patient and never feel bad if you're not winning now. Enjoy your life, enjoy the journey, so what if you're losing or struggling? that doesn't mean you can't win later.

4. Preparation kills doubts.

Get a lot of information, practice, get ahead by preparing to win. Prepare for the worst, prepare for any kind of situation. Preparation will make your mind tougher. If you prepare so hard and do the necessary work... you think you own the future. Just like a basketball player who practice 1 million shots before the game, that player's mind is unbeatable, he knew he can shoot anytime he wants, he knew he put in the hard work so nothing can stop him. His skills already evolved, his mind got stronger, he is so sharp, it's hard to destroy his confidence, because his mind was hardened and conditioned to succeed. If you can just be the hardest worker in your craft, if you can just focus on yourself then it will be very hard to put you down, you will never doubt yourself for a second, you just knew that you're going to win because you have the hardest preparation, you have what it takes to take over.

CONDITION YOUR MIND THE RIGHT WAY

Never think about frightening thoughts, never think about failing or not making it. You have to say to yourself a million times that you're a winner and can make it. Mind can be conditioned through constant repetition. Reshape your mind with powerful affirmations and visualizations. Think of what you want and see it happening in your life, if there is a negative thought that is sneaking through your brain... get rid of it immediately by thinking about the powerful thoughts again. Plant the most attractive images into your head, you have to reshape your mind if you want to gain confidence. It takes time but it will work 100 percent guaranteed. Be patient and fall in love with repetition, your mind will become unbeatable if you condition it the right way. 

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