Reacting to anything means you're sensitive, emotional and focusing on the things that doesn't matter at all. If you always react to something or someone then it means you don't love yourself, you're creating your own stress, you're wasting your time and energy. Stop being too emotional for something that will not even help you to become a better person. Conserve your energy and use it only to things that will make you inspired and motivated.
STOP REACTING TO PEOPLE THAT YOU DON'T LIKE
You're only wasting your time reacting to people that you don't like. Be like a stone when they're around, treat them cold, never give them any love or affection, never give them any signs that you're interested at them. Because every time they get your attention... they will become worse, they will mock you even more if you're showing them that you're affected with every actions that they are doing. Like a stone technique is so effective, don't move, don't think, don't breathe, don't shake your head, just stay calm and be yourself, show them that you're strong by giving no signs that you're feeling mad at them. A clown will stop dancing if nobody is watching him anymore, so if you will not give any attention to people who're making you feel bad... they will stop bugging you, they will be the ones who will feel bad because they will see that you don't care anymore. That's it, that's the word for the day... stop caring for them, never give them any signs that you're interested at their lives, live your own life, you will become happier twice or even thrice if you will focus on your own life.
STOP REACTING TO ANY SOCIAL MEDIA POST THAT IS AGAINST YOUR BELIEF
It's just a post from a random person, it's not worth it to fight someone who you don't even know. You are only ruining your day every time you fight for your belief. People have different opinions and beliefs, they can say whatever they want, you can never control their mouths and thoughts, just let them be because it is the best thing to do. Focus on your own belief and never get affected with other people's beliefs. And even if they look stupid, annoying or obvious to be incorrect... just let them be, you can never change their minds, they have their own minds, it's better to just shut up and focus on the more motivating and inspiring subjects rather than trying to change people's beliefs and proving that you're right. Nobody wins an argument so never enter a useless argument because you're only destroying your life by doing that. It's a waste of time and energy, you will never grow from it.
CONSERVE YOUR ENERGY, USE IT FOR A BETTER PURPOSE
Use your energy and time for making money or simply improving your skills. Sometimes you don't know that you're wasting a lot of energy for something because you're entertained by it, you feel mad and annoyed but you're amused. Even if you don't admit it, you're interested in that person, thing or argument because you want to prove your case, you want to show them that you're the one who's right. There is no need for that, no need to prove them that you're right. If you know that you're right and you really believe in yourself then there is nothing else to prove, you're just wasting your life trying to impress or please others, it's a punch in the moon to convince people to believe you. Because at the end of the day, everyone will not believe you even if you're really right, someone will contradict you, that's how life works, there will be a hater, there will be a nemesis. You just need to focus your energy on something else that is more important so that you won't feel bad, so that your life is headed on the right direction.
STOP BEING SENSITIVE AND JUST CREATE YOUR OWN KINGDOM
A person criticizes you, your neighbor disrespects you, a frenemy in facebook bashes you, the dog outside is barking too loud and shits on your grass, the neighbor is partying too loud at 3 am, your boss told you that you're stupid etc etc. Life is a little bit mean to be honest, you will only get crazy and stressed out if you will take everything personally. You're only making yourself sick if you will always get mad on anything that bothers you. Just focus on your goals, focus on problems that are more meaningful, focus on buying a house, creating small businesses, improving your skills, chasing your dreams. It all depends on you if you will focus on problems that are useless or problems that will give you something. Most people were focused on the wrong problems that's why they can't improve their lives. The only way to upgrade your life is to focus on things that are hard but will give you something in the future. Problems like neighbors, disrespectful people, contradicting beliefs will never give you anything, it's only playing you, it's only eating a lot of your time, it's making you think but you're not improving from it.
It's better to create your own kingdom, it's a problem but a problem that's worth it, it's a problem that will give you something in the future. Grow everyday, improve, make your life better, focus on small progress. It's stressful too but it's a healthy stress, it's a stress that will make you better.
LIFE WILL NEVER BE PERFECT
Even the richest, kindest, most successful people have their problems. The only difference is... they were focused on problems that are on a higher level. They never deal with lower level problems like noisy neighbors, street dogs, shit on the grass etc. They focus on problems that will give them riches and success. Life will never be perfect, even if you have all the money and power in the world... something will still annoy you and make you feel bad. It all depends on how you handle it, it's up to you if you will focus on it or ignore it and focus on the things that are more useful in life.
STOP REACTING TO PEOPLE THAT YOU DON'T LIKE
You're only wasting your time reacting to people that you don't like. Be like a stone when they're around, treat them cold, never give them any love or affection, never give them any signs that you're interested at them. Because every time they get your attention... they will become worse, they will mock you even more if you're showing them that you're affected with every actions that they are doing. Like a stone technique is so effective, don't move, don't think, don't breathe, don't shake your head, just stay calm and be yourself, show them that you're strong by giving no signs that you're feeling mad at them. A clown will stop dancing if nobody is watching him anymore, so if you will not give any attention to people who're making you feel bad... they will stop bugging you, they will be the ones who will feel bad because they will see that you don't care anymore. That's it, that's the word for the day... stop caring for them, never give them any signs that you're interested at their lives, live your own life, you will become happier twice or even thrice if you will focus on your own life.
STOP REACTING TO ANY SOCIAL MEDIA POST THAT IS AGAINST YOUR BELIEF
It's just a post from a random person, it's not worth it to fight someone who you don't even know. You are only ruining your day every time you fight for your belief. People have different opinions and beliefs, they can say whatever they want, you can never control their mouths and thoughts, just let them be because it is the best thing to do. Focus on your own belief and never get affected with other people's beliefs. And even if they look stupid, annoying or obvious to be incorrect... just let them be, you can never change their minds, they have their own minds, it's better to just shut up and focus on the more motivating and inspiring subjects rather than trying to change people's beliefs and proving that you're right. Nobody wins an argument so never enter a useless argument because you're only destroying your life by doing that. It's a waste of time and energy, you will never grow from it.
CONSERVE YOUR ENERGY, USE IT FOR A BETTER PURPOSE
Use your energy and time for making money or simply improving your skills. Sometimes you don't know that you're wasting a lot of energy for something because you're entertained by it, you feel mad and annoyed but you're amused. Even if you don't admit it, you're interested in that person, thing or argument because you want to prove your case, you want to show them that you're the one who's right. There is no need for that, no need to prove them that you're right. If you know that you're right and you really believe in yourself then there is nothing else to prove, you're just wasting your life trying to impress or please others, it's a punch in the moon to convince people to believe you. Because at the end of the day, everyone will not believe you even if you're really right, someone will contradict you, that's how life works, there will be a hater, there will be a nemesis. You just need to focus your energy on something else that is more important so that you won't feel bad, so that your life is headed on the right direction.
STOP BEING SENSITIVE AND JUST CREATE YOUR OWN KINGDOM
A person criticizes you, your neighbor disrespects you, a frenemy in facebook bashes you, the dog outside is barking too loud and shits on your grass, the neighbor is partying too loud at 3 am, your boss told you that you're stupid etc etc. Life is a little bit mean to be honest, you will only get crazy and stressed out if you will take everything personally. You're only making yourself sick if you will always get mad on anything that bothers you. Just focus on your goals, focus on problems that are more meaningful, focus on buying a house, creating small businesses, improving your skills, chasing your dreams. It all depends on you if you will focus on problems that are useless or problems that will give you something. Most people were focused on the wrong problems that's why they can't improve their lives. The only way to upgrade your life is to focus on things that are hard but will give you something in the future. Problems like neighbors, disrespectful people, contradicting beliefs will never give you anything, it's only playing you, it's only eating a lot of your time, it's making you think but you're not improving from it.
It's better to create your own kingdom, it's a problem but a problem that's worth it, it's a problem that will give you something in the future. Grow everyday, improve, make your life better, focus on small progress. It's stressful too but it's a healthy stress, it's a stress that will make you better.
LIFE WILL NEVER BE PERFECT
Even the richest, kindest, most successful people have their problems. The only difference is... they were focused on problems that are on a higher level. They never deal with lower level problems like noisy neighbors, street dogs, shit on the grass etc. They focus on problems that will give them riches and success. Life will never be perfect, even if you have all the money and power in the world... something will still annoy you and make you feel bad. It all depends on how you handle it, it's up to you if you will focus on it or ignore it and focus on the things that are more useful in life.
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