May 24, 2020

THE CONSOLATION PRIZE FOR LOSING

Do you always feel bad every time you lose? Do you feel like the whole world turn its back against you and there is nothing left for you to work on? It's ok. That's part of the design. Don't be afraid to lose again and again, there is a little bit of wisdom you will get after losing so you really didn't lose, you just didn't get the prize. The prize is nothing, you can live without it, people were too much blinded by the prize, but the real prize here is the person that you become. You will become tougher and smarter by losing so much, it will turn your heart into metal, you will feel free because you already felt the pain a lot of times, it's nothing new to you anymore so you will be able to express yourself more and you're no longer afraid of losing again.

HARD WORK IS THE CONSOLATION PRIZE

Just work hard and that's the prize already, win or lose... you've got your prize. It's because hard work will mold you into a different animal. Hard work will teach you something, it will show you your power and capabilities, it will show you what is possible for your life. So don't be afraid of hard work, it will give you everything. It will give you good feelings, it will make you better than yesterday. It feels good to be working hard, it feels better if you're doing something that will contribute to your growth and evolution. So forget about the results, it's because you can never control it, you can only control your effort and thoughts. Entertain good thoughts while working hard, feel happy giving your all, feel proud of yourself because you're doing something right and not wasting your time for nonsense and invaluable activities. If you have the ability to enjoy hard work then you will become a big time winner one day, sky is the limit for you, you will reach heights that looks impossible to reach, you will become relentless and unstoppable, you will be able to find solutions to any problem.

So whenever you lose... ask yourself, did you work hard? have you ever wonder why are there some people who can manage to smile despite of losing? it's because they work hard and gave their all, they experienced what it feels like to become great. Because greatness is not only about winning... it's having the ability to push yourself to the limits and give your all, greatness is simply using all of your power and skills, you didn't get conservative... you go all out.

If you want to feel like a winner... work hard, never give an effort that is weak and lesser than your real capabilities, give an A+ effort and you will get an A+ results.

FOCUS ON YOUR WORK AND YOU WILL FORGET YOUR PROBLEMS

You feel that you have a lot of problems because you're not working, you're simply bumming around like time is not that important. If you're wasting a lot of time then you're wasting your life, as simple as that. Your work should be your source of happiness, you should be happy about it. Even if you're just a janitor or a street sweeper or a blood sucker... feel happy about it because it's the only way to see other better opportunities. You can only grow if you will learn how to appreciate what you have and take it to another level. Your work will entertain you, time will become faster if you're working, you will even forget that you're inside of a big challenge. Work and work and work, that's how to get the job done. Some people were buried with their problems and feels dead forever because they're not even trying, they were focused on what they can't control instead of focusing on what they can do. So every time you are depressed or frustrated... just do something positive, don't be afraid to start and get nothing, don't be afraid to lose, once you're doing something to make your life better... you will never feel like a loser again even if your'e not gaining anything.

DON'T BE AFRAID TO LOSE, JUST WORK HARD

Focus on working hard instead of focusing on losing. Hard work is fun if you will learn to enjoy it. Stop thinking that you will need a lot of time in order to finish something or succeed. Forget time, it will pass anyway. Just focus on taking it one step at a time and feel happy about it. Feel so good working hard because that is the key to work harder than yesterday. Your hard work should always be evolving. Just because you work hard today doesn't mean that's all you can do. Of course you can do more and be more. Because you can never escape the pain of losing, it will happen to you no matter how much you resist it, it's all part of the process. But if you're always focused on working hard then you will never even notice that you are losing. So every time you lose... go back to hard work again, it's a never ending process. Once you're focused on working hard hen winning will become much easier, you will even feel that you can get anything you want, that's what power of hard work can do to you... it will give you supreme confidence and belief in yourself.

It's not about the money, it's not about getting a little praise after losing... it's hard work and nothing else, did you try to outwork everyone? did you try to become the hardest worker in the world? if you can work hard and exhaust yourself, if you can destroy your boundaries and become something else... you will feel like a real winner. You will feel like a legend, because this is what real legends do... they push themselves and deplete their energy just to win, they never stop until they get what they want. 

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