Your life is the result of your habits, if you're having a bad life now then it means you have a lot of bad habits going on. You are wasting a lot of your time for things and activities that will not even contribute to your development. If you want a better life then you better build the habits that will help you to make small progress every now and then, if a habit is not making you gain some improvements then it's time to get rid of it especially if it's wasting and eating a lot of your time.
1. BE A FAST STARTER AND STRONG FINISHER.
You can change your life that fast if you will just be a fast starter and strong finisher. Some people couldn't even get started for whatever reason, they feel like they will burn if they start, they feel like a gun is pointed to their heads and will go themselves killed if they start, while some people can start but can't finish strong, they quit when the going gets tough. If you want to change your life dramatically, start fast and finish strong, no matter what happens... aim to finish, have that killer instinct, go hard until the end. So never think twice if you're going to start or not, just start it and forget about what may happen in the future, just give your full maximum effort and dedication. Always remember that hard work pays off and you will be rewarded if you really bleed and out your heart and soul into something.
2. EMBRACE EVERYTHING INCLUDING THE MOST DIFFICULT SITUATIONS
Life will not always be easy, there will be times that are so rough. There will be times when you get so lost and you don't know what to do next. When it's difficult, you only have two choices, it's either you mope on the corner or you decide to take actions and force your fate to change. Having the ability to embrace everything will make you avoid procrastination. You can make progress if you can just accept what is happening and try to figure out what you can do to make the situation a little bit better. Any hard situation can get a little bit better gradually if you will just work and force yourself to take actions to get positive results.
3. NEVER FEEL SO LITTLE AGAIN
Be proud of yourself and everything you done. Be proud of your work, be proud that you're doing whatever it takes to become victorious in life. Never belittle yourself, always believe that you deserve something bigger than what you have. Learn to ask, learn to ask for a raise, learn to look for bigger opportunities. Take more risks, never play safe because you already knew what you're going to get if you do that. Go all in, go big, make yourself a rockstar by destroying all the boundaries that's stopping you from growing. Spread your wings and soar like an eagle, fly to the highest sky and never let clouds blind you, swim to the deepest ocean and don't be afraid of running out of breathe. You can always try again every time you fail, there is a time for winning, there is a time for losing, don't worry if you're losing now... you will get your rhythm and right timing as you keep on taking actions. So stop being so conservative and never play safe again, always shoot for the stars, place your bet on yourself and never doubt yourself again.
4. FOCUS ON ONE THING WERE YOU CAN BE GOOD AT
Never try to do everything because that will make you go crazy. Just do one thing at a time, focus on what you really want, focus on where you're passionate about and become really good at it. Mastery creates happiness, it creates confidence, it creates wealth. If you can master something and have full faith on it.. you are all set for the rest of your life. You have the right to become proud of yourself, you are free to think big. Dream about becoming successful and work as hard as you can to make your dreams come true. Never get satisfied, always look for improvement, make yourself so skilled so that people will get interested at you. Success will come easy if you're skilled and can offer a service that is hard to match.
5. BECOME BUSY BUILDING YOUR OWN BRAND.
It doesn't necessarily need to be a product like t-shirt, shoes, perfume or something. A simple product will do, you don't even need to sell something. Building your own brand means building your character, what is your brand? are you a brand of hard work or are you a brand of laziness? are you a brand or procrastination or perfection? the choice is yours. It's almost the same as identifying your self identity, what are you? what is your expertise? what are the good qualities that we can see on you? If your brand is about hard work then keep building it, keep working hard all the time, non-stop, feel relentless, have pride in your work. Every time you do this, you will feel more confident, you just knew that your brand is so serious and that it shouldn't be taken lightly, you just knew that you're one of a kind, something special, a professional and can get the job done anywhere anytime.
Q: WHY IS IT HARD TO MAINTAIN A HABIT?
A: It's because you're not doing it everyday. Just like in exercise, some people will work out for 2 hours today and will not follow through tomorrow, they will make excuses, they feel burned out already. It's better to be exercising for just 20 minutes everyday because it is realistic and sustainable. You can never maintain a habit that you're building if you will not do it everyday. You really need to force yourself, you really need to use your willpower and tenacity if you want a specific habit to survive. Do something for 4 weeks straight and it will become a habit already, your body will automatically do it. Even if you feel tired, even if you feel sick or uncomfortable... you will still find a little strength and willpower to do it. It's because it's already embedded in your system, your body is looking for it.
1. BE A FAST STARTER AND STRONG FINISHER.
You can change your life that fast if you will just be a fast starter and strong finisher. Some people couldn't even get started for whatever reason, they feel like they will burn if they start, they feel like a gun is pointed to their heads and will go themselves killed if they start, while some people can start but can't finish strong, they quit when the going gets tough. If you want to change your life dramatically, start fast and finish strong, no matter what happens... aim to finish, have that killer instinct, go hard until the end. So never think twice if you're going to start or not, just start it and forget about what may happen in the future, just give your full maximum effort and dedication. Always remember that hard work pays off and you will be rewarded if you really bleed and out your heart and soul into something.
2. EMBRACE EVERYTHING INCLUDING THE MOST DIFFICULT SITUATIONS
Life will not always be easy, there will be times that are so rough. There will be times when you get so lost and you don't know what to do next. When it's difficult, you only have two choices, it's either you mope on the corner or you decide to take actions and force your fate to change. Having the ability to embrace everything will make you avoid procrastination. You can make progress if you can just accept what is happening and try to figure out what you can do to make the situation a little bit better. Any hard situation can get a little bit better gradually if you will just work and force yourself to take actions to get positive results.
3. NEVER FEEL SO LITTLE AGAIN
Be proud of yourself and everything you done. Be proud of your work, be proud that you're doing whatever it takes to become victorious in life. Never belittle yourself, always believe that you deserve something bigger than what you have. Learn to ask, learn to ask for a raise, learn to look for bigger opportunities. Take more risks, never play safe because you already knew what you're going to get if you do that. Go all in, go big, make yourself a rockstar by destroying all the boundaries that's stopping you from growing. Spread your wings and soar like an eagle, fly to the highest sky and never let clouds blind you, swim to the deepest ocean and don't be afraid of running out of breathe. You can always try again every time you fail, there is a time for winning, there is a time for losing, don't worry if you're losing now... you will get your rhythm and right timing as you keep on taking actions. So stop being so conservative and never play safe again, always shoot for the stars, place your bet on yourself and never doubt yourself again.
4. FOCUS ON ONE THING WERE YOU CAN BE GOOD AT
Never try to do everything because that will make you go crazy. Just do one thing at a time, focus on what you really want, focus on where you're passionate about and become really good at it. Mastery creates happiness, it creates confidence, it creates wealth. If you can master something and have full faith on it.. you are all set for the rest of your life. You have the right to become proud of yourself, you are free to think big. Dream about becoming successful and work as hard as you can to make your dreams come true. Never get satisfied, always look for improvement, make yourself so skilled so that people will get interested at you. Success will come easy if you're skilled and can offer a service that is hard to match.
5. BECOME BUSY BUILDING YOUR OWN BRAND.
It doesn't necessarily need to be a product like t-shirt, shoes, perfume or something. A simple product will do, you don't even need to sell something. Building your own brand means building your character, what is your brand? are you a brand of hard work or are you a brand of laziness? are you a brand or procrastination or perfection? the choice is yours. It's almost the same as identifying your self identity, what are you? what is your expertise? what are the good qualities that we can see on you? If your brand is about hard work then keep building it, keep working hard all the time, non-stop, feel relentless, have pride in your work. Every time you do this, you will feel more confident, you just knew that your brand is so serious and that it shouldn't be taken lightly, you just knew that you're one of a kind, something special, a professional and can get the job done anywhere anytime.
Q: WHY IS IT HARD TO MAINTAIN A HABIT?
A: It's because you're not doing it everyday. Just like in exercise, some people will work out for 2 hours today and will not follow through tomorrow, they will make excuses, they feel burned out already. It's better to be exercising for just 20 minutes everyday because it is realistic and sustainable. You can never maintain a habit that you're building if you will not do it everyday. You really need to force yourself, you really need to use your willpower and tenacity if you want a specific habit to survive. Do something for 4 weeks straight and it will become a habit already, your body will automatically do it. Even if you feel tired, even if you feel sick or uncomfortable... you will still find a little strength and willpower to do it. It's because it's already embedded in your system, your body is looking for it.
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