Failing is a bitter pill to swallow, everyone is afraid of failing, everyone is afraid of embarrassing himself. Me too, I am afraid of it but I found out that every time I fail it makes me closer and closer to success. It's reshaping my mind, it's giving me some kind of a hunger to keep going even if the process is so hard. I also found out that it's really not a big deal, it's making me stronger so why would I be afraid of it?
Failures means you are getting closer and closer to what you want. It's the right path to success. Don't be afraid of it because it's only making you better and better. Failure is part of the process, it's part of your journey, you will never succeed if you will refuse or avoid failing. It will only give you sadness, it will only make you a little bit sick, once you get over it... you are strong and hungry again, you are ready to try for one more time, but this time you're much better and wiser because you already gained some experience.
WHAT IS REALLY THE SOURCE OF YOUR FEAR?
The real source of your fear is not the failure itself, it's the people. You are afraid to fail because you're so afraid of what people might say. You're afraid of your coach spanking your ass when you miss the shot, you're afraid of your parents saying bad words to you if you fail the exam, you're afraid of critics if you don't hit the expectations.
You will become free if you don't care about what people say. You will become more creative, confident and aggressive. You will do everything you want. You will have that absolute freedom to express yourself and do it your way. If you will learn how to detach from what other people think then you will become more confident and fearless. You will do what your heart is telling you, you will act naturally and you will never be afraid to fail. If you will just stop looking at the people around you then you will become more artistic, you will be able to move freely, you will feel like a free bird that can soar to the highest sky. Your source of fear is not the failure itself, it's what people are going to say. Those people means nothing to your journey, they are just a small particle, they can say whatever they want but just keep going, keep pushing for your dream and do whatever it takes to win, it's up to you. Are you going to mind what they say and hold yourself back? r are you going to try with all your might and see what you can achieve by fully believing in yourself?
FAILURE OVER PERFECTION
Don't strive for perfection, just try. If you're not afraid to fail then you will be able to take massive actions. You will grow everyday, but if you will always strive for perfection then your actions will become conservative. The idea of being perfect will freeze you, it will immobilize you and make you worry all day long without even starting something. You have to fail over and over again in order to succeed. Perfection is just an illusion, nobody will achieve it. There will always be flaws, there will always be adversity, there will always be something wrong with your work. And even if you're almost close to perfection, you will still feel that you miss something, you will still feel that there is something wrong with. That's part of being a human, we never get satisfied, we always compare ourselves to others, we always criticize ourselves. What if you stop criticizing yourself and start believing in yourself? what if you just do it? what if you just work hard every single day and be happy with the results? I'm pretty sure you will be able to do more. The idea about being perfect is ok but don't let it consume your mind to the point where you can't take actions anymore.
FAILURE OVER RESULTS
You will not always get the results that you want. That's the reality, you will never get it on the first try. You have to focus on failing, keep failing again and again until you figure out what is working. You will discover the right process for you. Just do it, don't be afraid of what may happen. Focus on taking actions, focus on failing because you only get better every time you fail, you have nothing to lose here. And the truth is, you're really not failing every time you lose... you're just gathering details, you're just improving, you're already on a different level every time you fail so never get sick and tired of it. Because you will only get frustrated, you will lose your motivation, you will run out of patience every time you focus on the results. Results doesn't matter at all, it will come if it will come, what you need to focus on is giving full maximum effort, give everything you've got and never feel sorry for yourself if you can't make it. Your time will come, it may not happen now but who knows? maybe you're only one step away from winning.
STAY FOCUS, STAY SHARP, NEVER QUIT
Stay aggressive all the time, be happy if you're trying something new. Be appreciative that you can try for one more time. Never waste your time for useless activities, be aware that time is gold and that you need every second to become successful. Time is money, time is opportunity, time is your most valuable asset. So don't whine and cry like a little kid every time you fail, face it, endure it and try again. Never stop, never quit. Winners never quit and losers never try again. It's not how smooth or flawless your journey is... it's how you remain strong despite of adversity and you show up until the end, it's not how you start, it's how you finish. It's not how perfect you are, it's how dirty you are but you still keep pushing to get that victory.
Failures means you are getting closer and closer to what you want. It's the right path to success. Don't be afraid of it because it's only making you better and better. Failure is part of the process, it's part of your journey, you will never succeed if you will refuse or avoid failing. It will only give you sadness, it will only make you a little bit sick, once you get over it... you are strong and hungry again, you are ready to try for one more time, but this time you're much better and wiser because you already gained some experience.
WHAT IS REALLY THE SOURCE OF YOUR FEAR?
The real source of your fear is not the failure itself, it's the people. You are afraid to fail because you're so afraid of what people might say. You're afraid of your coach spanking your ass when you miss the shot, you're afraid of your parents saying bad words to you if you fail the exam, you're afraid of critics if you don't hit the expectations.
You will become free if you don't care about what people say. You will become more creative, confident and aggressive. You will do everything you want. You will have that absolute freedom to express yourself and do it your way. If you will learn how to detach from what other people think then you will become more confident and fearless. You will do what your heart is telling you, you will act naturally and you will never be afraid to fail. If you will just stop looking at the people around you then you will become more artistic, you will be able to move freely, you will feel like a free bird that can soar to the highest sky. Your source of fear is not the failure itself, it's what people are going to say. Those people means nothing to your journey, they are just a small particle, they can say whatever they want but just keep going, keep pushing for your dream and do whatever it takes to win, it's up to you. Are you going to mind what they say and hold yourself back? r are you going to try with all your might and see what you can achieve by fully believing in yourself?
FAILURE OVER PERFECTION
Don't strive for perfection, just try. If you're not afraid to fail then you will be able to take massive actions. You will grow everyday, but if you will always strive for perfection then your actions will become conservative. The idea of being perfect will freeze you, it will immobilize you and make you worry all day long without even starting something. You have to fail over and over again in order to succeed. Perfection is just an illusion, nobody will achieve it. There will always be flaws, there will always be adversity, there will always be something wrong with your work. And even if you're almost close to perfection, you will still feel that you miss something, you will still feel that there is something wrong with. That's part of being a human, we never get satisfied, we always compare ourselves to others, we always criticize ourselves. What if you stop criticizing yourself and start believing in yourself? what if you just do it? what if you just work hard every single day and be happy with the results? I'm pretty sure you will be able to do more. The idea about being perfect is ok but don't let it consume your mind to the point where you can't take actions anymore.
FAILURE OVER RESULTS
You will not always get the results that you want. That's the reality, you will never get it on the first try. You have to focus on failing, keep failing again and again until you figure out what is working. You will discover the right process for you. Just do it, don't be afraid of what may happen. Focus on taking actions, focus on failing because you only get better every time you fail, you have nothing to lose here. And the truth is, you're really not failing every time you lose... you're just gathering details, you're just improving, you're already on a different level every time you fail so never get sick and tired of it. Because you will only get frustrated, you will lose your motivation, you will run out of patience every time you focus on the results. Results doesn't matter at all, it will come if it will come, what you need to focus on is giving full maximum effort, give everything you've got and never feel sorry for yourself if you can't make it. Your time will come, it may not happen now but who knows? maybe you're only one step away from winning.
STAY FOCUS, STAY SHARP, NEVER QUIT
Stay aggressive all the time, be happy if you're trying something new. Be appreciative that you can try for one more time. Never waste your time for useless activities, be aware that time is gold and that you need every second to become successful. Time is money, time is opportunity, time is your most valuable asset. So don't whine and cry like a little kid every time you fail, face it, endure it and try again. Never stop, never quit. Winners never quit and losers never try again. It's not how smooth or flawless your journey is... it's how you remain strong despite of adversity and you show up until the end, it's not how you start, it's how you finish. It's not how perfect you are, it's how dirty you are but you still keep pushing to get that victory.
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