May 26, 2020

THE IMPORTANCE OF HAVING A PURPOSE IN LIFE

You only have one life, are you going to use it to make the people around you happy? or are you going to just waste it like everyone else does? Are you going to use it for a purpose and serve as an inspiration? The choice is yours, there is nothing wrong in having no purpose in life but for me it's just a waste of life, you didn't even go hard and test your limits, you didn't even reach your full potential. There is something you can achieve, there is a greatness hiding inside of your body, all you have to do is unleash it and make every second of your life useful.

CHASE A GOAL

You must have something to aim for. Having a goal will give you a direction. It will force you to do the right things. You will be able to create good habits that are very helpful for achieving the goal that you set. You will be obligated to take actions that will make you get your goal faster than expected. if you have a goal you will have the right mindset, you will have a very high emotional intelligence, you will be able to endure failures and heartaches, you will become a very strong person. Just chase it, whether it's a big or small goal... chase it, believe that you are deserving of any kind of goal, believe that you can get it in just a matter of time.

You will be forced to work hard if you have a goal, you will be able to get rid of your bad habits, you will have a clear direction in life, you will have more confidence in yourself.

HAVING A PURPOSE IN LIFE MEANS SERVING

It's whether you serve people or you serve yourself, or simply serving  a belief. It's up to you, having a purpose means giving your time and energy, you use your resources, you do whatever it takes to serve what you want to serve. It means you have a guidance, you know your path, you're on your journey and nothing is breaking your will to serve. It's a much better way of life than a life without a purpose. If you don't have a purpose you're completely lost, you don't know where to go, you do something you don't want, you let people kick you in the ass, you're like a trash getting kicked around or getting played around. You will become depressed, you will have a lot of regrets in the end, you will lose your power because you're just wandering every now and then trying to get lucky, you're simply dependent of something that makes you comfortable a little bit, your mind was poisoned by a wrong hope and information.

ANYTHING YOU ARE PASSIONATE ABOUT IS A PURPOSE

If you are passionate in painting, helping, building a business, loving your family, taking care of yourself, giving a little inspiration to people, inventing something then that's already a purpose. Stay committed, stay dedicated and do it for a long as you can. You don't need your purpose to become very flashy or popular, just simply loving your dog is a purpose already. You feed the dog, you take care of it, you clean it, you give time to it, you are passionate on loving it. It's already a purpose, it's already a goal. You can have any passion that you want, just make sure you take care of it, you give time for it and you don't take it for granted. Passion means commitment, it means giving time and love for something.

TOP 4 REASONS WHY MOST PEOPLE DON'T HAVE A PURPOSE IN LIFE?

1. The just go with the flow, they don't have a blue print or a philosophy in life. They just want to enjoy life, they want to have fun, they think it's cool. But later it will backfire on them. Life is not all about having fun, it's ok to have fun but there should be a balance. You should sacrifice too, it's not simply about going out and acting like "You Only Live once". There is a misconception about the word YOLO, it's not all about having fun. It's also pushing yourself and reaching your full potential, it's also about giving back to people that you love.

2. Their minds were easily manipulated by wrong information. Social media, news, what's hot today, what's trending today. People want to belong, they don't want to get left behind, they don't want to disobey the trend. The thing is this, if you're doing what other people are doing because it looks cool and trendy then it means you don't believe yourself, what if you don't like it? what if you are just forced to do it because people will think that you are a kill joy if you don't do it? you have to follow your heart, if you don't like it then don't do it. Don't believe in news, turn of your TV, you have to investigate if first if it's really right. Stop consuming a lot of information. Just use the information that serves you or make you grow.

3. They don't want to get criticized. They want to impress people, they want to follow the herd, they don't want to do it their way. And that makes them lose their own purpose in life. They don't want to try what their hearts are telling them. They simply want to play it safe because they think it's the most logical thing to do. They were s afraid of critics, harsh comments and raised eyebrows. They don't want to get embarrassed. The were faking themselves out just to get accepted by the society.

4. They don't want to experience some pain. If you have a purpose in life you will feel some pain. You will do something even if you feel lazy or sick because you are committed of doing it. You will sacrifice your time and happiness, you will push through even if it's difficult. Just like in taking care of your child, if you really love your child you will try to give him everything, and that is already a purpose. You will sacrifice your time and happiness, you will sacrifice your sleep. It's painful sometimes, there's a lot of aggraviation because you can't do what you normally do, but because you love your child... you will face the pain and do whatever it takes to give him a good future.

So of you are lost in life... find your purpose, find something where you can give your time, love and energy . Purpose means dedication and commitment, it means being serious, it means giving everything you have because you know it's the right thing to do. 

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