Nov 9, 2018

YOU WILL SAVE A LOT OF TIME IF YOU'RE NOT THINKING ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE SAY

Most of your time goes to thinking about what people are trying to say. You never notice that you're been wasting your precious time.

So what if they tell you that you're stupid? so what if they've been backstabbing you for a very longtime? you were so soft? you were too fragile that's why your time is always being wasted.

Forget about the critics, forget the haters, forget the envy people around you. The most important thing is how you perceive yourself, how do you think about yourself? do you feel bad if you hear the negative things about you? do you feel that your confidence is going down? how will you react from their comments?

You are wasting a lot of time if you're affected with what they say, it's because you can't take actions, you can't move forward. You are spending too much time thinking if they are right or wrong. The truth is... it doesn't matter if they are right or wrong, the only thing that matters is are you going to continue to give yourself a better life? their comments were useless, it should never make you feel bad.

Fall in love with your own work, appreciate it, never look for positive comments because it really doesn't matter at all. If you know who you are then their comments will not even matter, their words were meaningless.

The only comment that does matter is your comment about yourself, do you love yourself? are you proud of your work? can you do what you've been doing for a very long time?

You can become more productive if you will focus on your work and never mind what they are trying to say. Instead of being concern about their comments, why not work and give your best?

Time is fast so you should never waste it thinking about people's comments and feedback, they are useless, they were irrelevant. And besides, even if they say good things to you... are you going to maintain that level of hungriness? most people tend to relax once they see that most people like them.

Be like a bird, you will keep singing even if they got mad or appreciate you. The truth is... even if you;re the greatest, some people will still say nasty things about you, you can never please everyone, the more you become better... the more people will try to pull you down and that is the sad reality of life.

So just play it cool, every time you hear negative comments just keep going, pretend that you didn't hear anything. Never feel bad, use the reverse psychology... you become stronger the more they hate you.

Forget people, people are here to make things difficult for you. You know what to do and you're going to do it now. You will become free if you will forget the words that are coming out of their mouth, it's easy to hate, it's hard to love so don't get bothered by their negativity.

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