Nov 8, 2018

SOMETIMES YOU DON'T NEED TO PUSH THAT HARD

Sometimes the more you push hard... the more nothing is happening, you keep on failing over and over again and wondering what are you doing wrong. It's ok to push hard but you still need to be mindful of what is going on around you, because sometimes pushing so hard is making the situation even more difficult.

Sometimes you just need to push a little and be patient, wait for a few seconds reassess and then push again. You can't be pushing all day long because it may affect everything around you. You will get so tired and you may not be able to push again. Sometime spacing is more important than pushing, you need to stay in the game. If you will push and use all of your energy then how will you be able to work until the end?

You need to know how hard can you push and know when yo rest a little bit. It's ok to push but if it's affecting the process then you should think twice. Sometimes it's better to let something flow, work normally and wait for the transition to happen.

You will know if you need to push or not, if there is no progress then you need to push but if you're already pushing hard and still no progress is happening then you need to step back a little bit.

Pushing is good but if you're pushing the wrong way then it is bad. You need to be smart while pushing or else it will take away all of your energy and lose badly.

Just do what you can do and push a little bit, don't push too hard, if nothing is working then don't push. But if you feel lazy then you need to push, that's it... if you don't feel good because of laziness, if you don't feel productive because the laziness in your body is taking over then you need to push.

It's simply a matter of knowing when to push and knowing when to pull. If you don't have enough energy to push then rest a little bit, learn to pace yourself, learn when is the right time for pausing. Pausing doesn't mean stopping, it's just gathering yourself and waiting for your energy to come back so you can push harder next time.

But if you're feeling soft and weak because of poor effort then you need to push yourself, you need to force yourself to take actions.

You should know if you're pushing on the wrong way, it's not all about pushing, it's knowing where direction you are headed to. If you're pushing on the wrong direction then it will be harder for you to make a come back.

Sometimes you are pushing because you are angry, you are pushing because you want to make a come back so fast. Just like in gambling... dumb gamblers will go all in even if they are not sure about the situation, they will push their luck even if they were really having a bad day that day.

Sometimes you need to step back and think, you need to call it a day and push again tomorrow. It's not all about being brave, sometimes you need to become practical to stay in the game, you need to think smarter and make decisions right so you can make adjustments tomorrow.

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