THE BEST CONFIDENCE BOOSTER EVER

The best confidence booster ever is facing the pain, it's facing the discomfort. You need to face the rejection, face the embarrassment, face hard work and willing to feel uncomfortable all the time. Once you see the resistance and there is doubt in your mind.... you need to push, basically that should be your mindset.

Most people were not confident not because they inherit that trait from their parents but because they simply don't want to try, they don't want to ask, they don't want to give themselves a chance to challenge something and reap the rewards for at least trying.

Just try, just do it, don't be afraid to hear hurtful words from people, don't be afraid to make mistakes and do it again, don't be afraid at anything. If it can't kill you then you shouldn't be afraid of it.

Because if you will not try then you will think about what could have happen, you will have regrets, you will blame yourself that you didn't try just for once. You need to expand and get out of your comfort zone, keep embarrassing yourself through trying, keep feeling that pain until you were no longer afraid of it. Once you're not afraid of failing anymore... that's the time when your confidence will soar high to the highest level.

Take action now, what are you waiting for? stop waiting for Christmas, stop waiting for the right timing because it will never come. You're not something special so don't be afraid of humiliation, don't be afraid of not making it right instantly.

The more you keep trying and yet failing... the more your confidence will go up, actions will show you the way, it will make you a very strong person.

Pull the trigger, have no conscience in taking actions, be the man, take full responsibility of your life, never wait for a help or something... just start now, just do it.

If you keep on hesitating and holding yourself back then that will make you suffer, it will put your confidence down. Just like in school, most students were not doing what they need to do in school, after the class they will do something else, they will not prioritize their assignments, they will not study if they have a quiz. And when tomorrow comes, they were so scared of their professor, they were scared of what might happen because they didn't prepare, they will not even go to school sometimes. It's hard to study because it's boring but it will give you confidence because you are facing the pain.

Do your responsibility and you will become confident, just like in home, when you need to wash the dishes then do it right away, you might think that it has no impact in your personality but if you make taking actions right away as a habit then you will see in the long run that you are starting to become a better person, you will never be afraid of anything anymore. You will never be afraid to falling in life, waiting, doing work for a long time, sacrificing, taking risks an any uncomfortable situations, it's because you've been hardened, you already knew the game of life. You already knew that it's only about taking actions.

If you want to become super confident then make sure you will do what you need to do even if it is painful, even if you will become wrong, even if there are bad consequences after doing it.