When there is an opportunity... you have to take it, you have to grab it, when there is an opening... go for it without hesitation. You may succeed or you may fail but the important thing is you give yourself a chance to win, what matters is you put yourself on a best position to become a winner.
Losers keep losing not because they were not given an opportunity but because they can't see an opportunity, their minds were filled with excuses and fear, the opportunities were there but they don't want to take it, they don't want to shine, they feel that they will lose something if they take it.
You don't have anything to lose at all, keep that in your mind. Don't act as if you have a lot in your life. You don't have anything, when you were born you don't have anything, why act as if you will lose a lot in your life?
You can have a lot of things, a lot of success if your mindset is you have nothing to lose. Never protect your identity, don't get conservative.
When your long time high school crush is already available and she has no boyfriend anymore... go for it, ask her on a date, don't be shy or else that girl will be picked up by someone with bigger balls than you. Show your animus, show her that you want her bad enough and you are willing to sell your soul just to be with her.
Stop acting like a scared little boy, girls love confident men, you need to make her feel that you are willing to give everything you've got just to have her in your arms, make her feel that you are dying just to have a taste of her. Make her flattered, send her some flowers and dirty messages with double meaning, make her blush. Whatever you can do to make her feel something... do it, follow your instincts, don't be afraid to get rejected because that it is what it is all about... not being afraid to take the risk and give yourself a chance to become successful.
If you're a bench player in basketball and you see an open shot... take it, may it be a three point shot or a two point shot... take it if you are open. Even if it is a crucial possession you still need to take it, even if the star player is asking for the ball, don't give it to him, take it if you are wide open because you will regret that you didn't take it. Even if the whole team puts a blame on you because you miss, don't regret that you take the shot. Even if the coach was fueling with anger at you... never feel anything, don't feel bad that you gave yourself a chance to succeed. It is your right, it is your privilege to take an opening.
If there is an opening job you saw on the newspaper, go and go for it. Change your clothes with the best clothes that you have, shine your shoes, create a fake resume or something then pass an application, force an interview with the boss, take it. Never mind what people say, never mind if you feel lazy... you need to take that opening and own it.
Look at your life, look at your past, study it... you will see that there are plenty of opportunities that you let go, you will learn that you could have been happier now but you are not because you are so scared to get embarrass, you are so scared to get rejected.
Losers keep losing not because they were not given an opportunity but because they can't see an opportunity, their minds were filled with excuses and fear, the opportunities were there but they don't want to take it, they don't want to shine, they feel that they will lose something if they take it.
You don't have anything to lose at all, keep that in your mind. Don't act as if you have a lot in your life. You don't have anything, when you were born you don't have anything, why act as if you will lose a lot in your life?
You can have a lot of things, a lot of success if your mindset is you have nothing to lose. Never protect your identity, don't get conservative.
When your long time high school crush is already available and she has no boyfriend anymore... go for it, ask her on a date, don't be shy or else that girl will be picked up by someone with bigger balls than you. Show your animus, show her that you want her bad enough and you are willing to sell your soul just to be with her.
Stop acting like a scared little boy, girls love confident men, you need to make her feel that you are willing to give everything you've got just to have her in your arms, make her feel that you are dying just to have a taste of her. Make her flattered, send her some flowers and dirty messages with double meaning, make her blush. Whatever you can do to make her feel something... do it, follow your instincts, don't be afraid to get rejected because that it is what it is all about... not being afraid to take the risk and give yourself a chance to become successful.
If you're a bench player in basketball and you see an open shot... take it, may it be a three point shot or a two point shot... take it if you are open. Even if it is a crucial possession you still need to take it, even if the star player is asking for the ball, don't give it to him, take it if you are wide open because you will regret that you didn't take it. Even if the whole team puts a blame on you because you miss, don't regret that you take the shot. Even if the coach was fueling with anger at you... never feel anything, don't feel bad that you gave yourself a chance to succeed. It is your right, it is your privilege to take an opening.
If there is an opening job you saw on the newspaper, go and go for it. Change your clothes with the best clothes that you have, shine your shoes, create a fake resume or something then pass an application, force an interview with the boss, take it. Never mind what people say, never mind if you feel lazy... you need to take that opening and own it.
Look at your life, look at your past, study it... you will see that there are plenty of opportunities that you let go, you will learn that you could have been happier now but you are not because you are so scared to get embarrass, you are so scared to get rejected.
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