If you can become an alpha male or female then you will become free, you will be in control, you will become happier than ever. CONFIDENCE is the key, you have to increase it every now and then, you have to become the most confident you and show the world that you mean business and you are not here to become a follower. It takes time to become an alpha male but it will happen, just keep practicing and you will have that confidence.
1. Do it your way. Doing it your way will make you confident, I mean very very confident. Do it according to your rules, be happy with the small progress that you are getting, always remember that life is a process, it's not a final destination, it's not a final result, for as long as your'e doing it your way then you will be alright. Do it your way will give you confidence because you will feel powerful, you will see that you can do it for as long as you believe in yourself.
2. Don't be afraid to get criticized. Just laugh at the critics because even if you're already the greatest... someone will still criticize you, it's not about being perfect, it's about being ready to take actions all the time and make more results than expected.
3. Fail a lot of times. Failing a lot of times will make you very confident, it's because you're no longer afraid of failing, it will never make you feel bad anymore. Making a lot of mistakes will give you a lot of knowledge and with enough knowledge comes more confidence, you will become an alpha male if you're willing to take the blame and make a lot of mistakes. Take full responsibility of your actions... Don't be afraid to fail, don't be afraid to go wrong.
4. Make taking actions as your default. If you will take massive actions then you will become confident even more. Inaction will build doubts and fears, actions will build strong belief in yourself. Keep moving forward even if you don't know what's going to happen next, keep moving forward while you still can, the right path will be discovered if you are relentless and dynamic. Don't rest, don't stop, never care if you're tired... just push yourself to the limits.
5. Fake the confidence. Think that you already have it even if you don't have it yet. Take risks, believe that you will win, believe that you can do it. Fake it till you make it, some successful people were not confident in the beginning but they manage to become confident because they have a plan and that plan is to keep moving forward all the time despite of being scared.
Always remember that fear will go away every time you take actions. Fear will never go away but if you can build a habit of just doing it and making decisions fast then fear will become weak, you will never even believe that it is there.
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