DON'T TRY TO ESCAPE, JUST FEEL IT UNTIL IT DOESN'T HURT ANYMORE

If it is too painful, if you feel like you're almost going crazy because of it... just feel it. Feel it mentally, emotionally and physically and then watch it slowly fade away. Don't try to escape it, don't try to go somewhere else... you need to feel it and face it, that's how to beat it. It will not hurt anymore if you accept that it's all part of the process, it's all part of your body.

Don't panic, stay still and relaxed, be confident that soon it will go away. The reason why you can't get away with it is because you think you're suffering, you're making the pain a big deal. The truth is... pain will help you, it will make you stronger. Don't be afraid of pain, you have to study it, you have to know what is the reason behind it and that is to make your situation better... to make you tougher and more confident. If you've faced a lot of pain, nothing can faze you anymore. It's like a normal thing, you are still alive and you feel blessed with your life.

So forget about how you feel, forget about your emotions... you need to go back to your goals, go and find your strength, you know where it was kept. You know what to do, all you have to do is do it.

Feel the pain over and over again until you're no longer afraid of it. In our country, the traffic was so worse, you will spend hours in traffic just driving a few kilometers. One day my father ask me to drive him to the province, it took 8 hours to get there, I drove for 8 hours straight to go there and another 8 hours to go back home, take note there is only a few hours of interval between each eight hours of driving. That incident made me realize that it's not that bad, it's not that difficult, all you have to do is embrace the pain, embrace the stress and everything will be alright.

The problem with most people is they were too soft, they were always rushing to go back home, finish their task, achieve their goal, solve their problem, they don't know that the more they try to escape the pain the more it will become painful.

The technique here is just suck it up, just let in run in your system, just treat it as a game and you will never lose anymore, you will never panic and get worried. Pain is your friend, suffering is nothing, all you have to do is be in the moment, all you have to do is stay calm and create peace inside of your head.

Life will become so much easier if you will never make pain a big deal, just laugh at it, just process it and live your life. Never try to escape from it because it will always catch you, just ignore it and focus your attention to the things that really matters, believe in the power of now,

WHAT TO DO IF YOU'RE STUCK?

It's too easy... just move, do something. You need to force yourself or else you will die. Do you want to die? do you want to go crazy? do you want depression to eat you? just move, you can run, you can walk, you need to feel the pain. Because if you keep on finding reasons why you don't need to move then you will never move, you will become stuck in a mud forever, you will become a loser, do you like that?

You don't need to become great, you don't need to dominate right away. The secret is to keep moving forward and stop looking for perfection, stop looking for greatness, just feel happy that you're doing something and that's it.

Life is just like that, there will be hurdles, there will be quicksands that will stop you and drown you, the secret weapon is movement. Just do something everyday, force yourself even if you're not motivated, enjoy working hard even if you can't see any results.

Being stuck is all in your head, if you think that you're stuck then you are. If you think yo u are progressing then you are, whatever you put into your head will become a reality, be careful with the thoughts that you are entertaining... it will come true if you keep repeating it. Keep hammering it till the bitter ends, you will only be able to escape the rut that you are in if you will not try to escape it, face it like a real man, do what must be done in order to make some progress in your life.

Being stuck means you're lazy and unfocused, if you want to move then you can move, you don't even need to ask someone on what to do, just do it, just start it and never stop until you're done.

The key here is to feel free, if you don't feel free it means you're not doing anything, you will only feel free if you're taking actions and moving every now and then.

Take the first step, draw the first blood, that is what it's all about... moving and never stopping, depressions starts by being a primadona, by being a spoiled brat who doesn't want to move. Laziness is the next to ugliness, if you don't want your life to suck then you better be moving and doing something for your dreams.

Start now, stop thinking and start performing, if you want your fears to go away then you need to prepare, you need to take actions, you need to do something that will somehow make you feel better.

You still have a lot of time, you better be moving now, if you still have some respect in yourself then start, if you still have some pride and you don't want to be step upon then move and do something for your life. Time is running, never kill time because it will kill you, you need to be productive, you need to keep moving forward.

YOU'RE NOT ON THE MOON

You're not on the moon, the gravity here in earth is perfect yet why are you moving slow? why are you executing so slow? the gravity here is alright yet why you look so heavy? you're over thinking things, you don't have a plan, you're just following your feelings that are telling you that it's alright if you don't do it. The truth is... it will never be alright, your laziness and heaviness will kill you, it will never take you anywhere, you will remain at the bottom if you are slow.

You are faster than your normal speed, it's just that you are babying yourself too much, you feel like you're entitled to act like a spoiled diva that can cradle laziness every time you want to.

You're not on the moon, the gravity here is normal, don't act like you're on a slow motion, don't act like you're weak and soft. It's time to go hard, it's time to just do it and finish it and stop thinking about anything else. Your mind is so consumed with different things that will not even happen, you are over thinking and over analyzing that's why your body is paralyzing.

You are free, remember that the more you move the more you will feel powerful, you will feel joy, you will feel so alive. Look at those people who were stuck in an place that they don't like... they are not moving, they are simply letting things happen, they are not doing something about it. People who don't love their jobs but they keep doing it... they're also stuck, people who have dreams but they are not pursuing it, people who wants to make a change but they can't start... they feel so heavy, they feel so powerless.

Power will only be achieved if you will do something about your situation. If you are not happy in where you are then you need to do something about it, make a move, it can be a harsh or dangerous move but at least you are taking matters into your hands. You will feel weak if you are just watching, you will feel slow, your confidence will go down. Look at the bench players who were talented but were not used for a very long time... they become weak, they become unmotivated. It's also their fault, why will they stay in a team that will never use their skills?

Don't be slow, don't think too much, you are always in control if you will only allow yourself to take over and do something about your situation. The power is in your hands, you have to believe in yourself, believe in taking actions.

Don't be afraid of movement, it is your ally, it will save you from depression and insanity. Taking actions and simply moving forward will change your perspective, it will make your belief in yourself stronger than ever, it will give you good feelings.

You're not on the moon, if some people are fast then you can become fast too, it's just a matter of making yourself available and always be ready to start even if you don't feel like moving. Start now and dictate the tempo, keep the rhythm alive.

YOUR DESTINY WASN'T DEFINED YET

Your destiny wasn't defined yet. Just because you're a bum now doesn't mean you're going to become a bum forever. Your destiny was not defined by your errors, mistakes or shortcomings, neither it was defined by your stupid decisions and wrong way of living.

You can still change your life now if you wish to, just make sure you will take full responsibility of your life. Make sure you will take actions, force yourself to move, you need to be brutal here. If you want a change then you need to experience a lot of stress. Change is stressful, it has a lot of friction and resistance but it is very possible. It's all in your head, you have to play the right thoughts so you will be able to start.

Those who believe in destiny will never be able to change their bum lives. They will become scared forever, they will never take actions, their lives will be full of regrets.

Never believe in destiny, never believe that you can never make a progress anymore, never believe that it's all you can do, there are lot of things you can still do, all you have to do is do it and never stop until you make a significant progress in your life.

So keep trying because that's all you can do, keep pushing, stay focused and stay committed, if you are committed enough then you have a chance, you can make your life better.

You are the one who will create your destiny, not him, not your mother, not your friend, not your neighbor.... you are the only one who can do it. So start working now, start believing in yourself because you always have the power to change your life.

Hustle 24 hours a day and see what is possible for your life, never under estimate hard work, never under estimate the power of focus and grind. Imagine what you wanted to achieve and put all of your efforts there. Never stop grinding, be consistent, push yourself to the limits and see what will be attracted with your effort.

You are always in control, just stay positive and make a difference in your life. You have to fix your life first before trying to control other people's lives. The world will never wait for you, you have to start now and make things happen.

Just believe and work hard, the formula is very simple. Stop thinking about anything else, just believe and work hard and everything will be alright. You will become successful in just a matter of time, all you have to do is do it, time is fast when you're making a little progress everyday, time is fast if you're enjoying your work.

So fall in love with taking actions, don't be lazy, don't be picky, don't be a dramatic diva who feels like entitled of something. You have to earn it, you really have to deserve it. Life is unfair but you will get what you deserve.

TRY AND LEARN

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Don't watch and learn, it's just a waste of time because you will never learn anything from watching, you need to execute... so just try and learn. Take actions, you can watch all day long but if you will never try it then you still never learn anything. You will never make it right from the first try, you need to make mistakes and see what is not working.

You don't even need to watch, you can try it now you can start now. Stop waiting because it's just a waste of time, you can accomplish more if you will start now and do it your own way. Don't be afraid to make mistakes, it's normal to make mistakes, everybody makes mistakes.

Trying is fun, if you will only ignore all the failures that you can get and just keep moving forward then you will succeed in anything that you choose. Try and learn, don't be afraid t do it, it's cool, it's easy. The more you try... the more you will become confident and knowledgeable, you will discover the greatness inside of you. Sometimes you will even become surprise with yourself because you thought you can't do it but because you try... you were able to do it and become successful.

Trying is a lot of fun, if you can just pull the trigger every time you need to pull it then life will become easier. There is no harm in trying, you will not die if you try so hard, you will only grow, you will become a better person. If you will never try then you will never learn, you will become the same person as yesterday, you will become stuck in a mud.

Try it, manipulate it, tweak it, never stop trying until you become successful. That is what life is all about, it's about giving your best, it's about taking risks and living with the results.

Most people know a lot of things but they were not trying, they were not executing that't why they can't produce results. It's all about execution, if you will just think all day long and do nothing then your life will never improve.

If you want to try something try it, don't be afraid to try, don't be afraid to fail, you only have one life so roll the dice. Keep pushing, keep growing, never stop believing yourself, never stop doing something to make your life better. The play is very simple, just keep moving forward and see what is possible for your life.

Don't be afraid to try over and over again, it may look that you're on a rat race and you're getting the same thing but if you persevere enough and never give up you will become successful in the end. It's all about the repetition, the more you enjoy repetition the more you will become successful fast.

The play is very simple.... just don't give up and keep trying. It doesn't matter if you don't have money anymore, it doesn't matter if you're at the bottom... you still need to keep trying, you still need to keep going, you don't have any choice but to look for the little progress and improvement that you can get.

YOU WILL SAVE A LOT OF TIME IF YOU'RE NOT THINKING ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE SAY

Most of your time goes to thinking about what people are trying to say. You never notice that you're been wasting your precious time.

So what if they tell you that you're stupid? so what if they've been backstabbing you for a very longtime? you were so soft? you were too fragile that's why your time is always being wasted.

Forget about the critics, forget the haters, forget the envy people around you. The most important thing is how you perceive yourself, how do you think about yourself? do you feel bad if you hear the negative things about you? do you feel that your confidence is going down? how will you react from their comments?

You are wasting a lot of time if you're affected with what they say, it's because you can't take actions, you can't move forward. You are spending too much time thinking if they are right or wrong. The truth is... it doesn't matter if they are right or wrong, the only thing that matters is are you going to continue to give yourself a better life? their comments were useless, it should never make you feel bad.

Fall in love with your own work, appreciate it, never look for positive comments because it really doesn't matter at all. If you know who you are then their comments will not even matter, their words were meaningless.

The only comment that does matter is your comment about yourself, do you love yourself? are you proud of your work? can you do what you've been doing for a very long time?

You can become more productive if you will focus on your work and never mind what they are trying to say. Instead of being concern about their comments, why not work and give your best?

Time is fast so you should never waste it thinking about people's comments and feedback, they are useless, they were irrelevant. And besides, even if they say good things to you... are you going to maintain that level of hungriness? most people tend to relax once they see that most people like them.

Be like a bird, you will keep singing even if they got mad or appreciate you. The truth is... even if you;re the greatest, some people will still say nasty things about you, you can never please everyone, the more you become better... the more people will try to pull you down and that is the sad reality of life.

So just play it cool, every time you hear negative comments just keep going, pretend that you didn't hear anything. Never feel bad, use the reverse psychology... you become stronger the more they hate you.

Forget people, people are here to make things difficult for you. You know what to do and you're going to do it now. You will become free if you will forget the words that are coming out of their mouth, it's easy to hate, it's hard to love so don't get bothered by their negativity.

TURN OFF NOTIFICATIONS

If you are chasing success then every second is a must, every second is important. You need to turn off notifications especially the ones from social media. Notifications are just a waste of time, you think that it's just a matter of seconds or minutes but the truth is if you count all the time you are putting on those notifications then you will see that it's already countless hours, that notification is simple but it's deceitful, that will lead to gossips, looking at useless news or conversations.

If you want to win in life then you should focus on your work, stop reading emails that are not related to your work, always remember that you need to be productive here, never mind the things that are not giving you anything.

You need to be progressive all the time, you need those mini seconds to make your situation better than yesterday. Yes you will feel bad, you will feel uncomfortable but that is the meaning of success... facing discomfort and thriving off it.

It's hard in the beginning because everyone loves flash news, everyone loves funny and popular topics, everyone loves the trend. But if you really want to change your life then you need to become a weirdo, you need to think different from anyone else. It will be easy if you try. One work at a time, one step at a time, never stop until your work is finished. It is what it is, you will really feel bad and isolated, you will never know what is going on outside of your life but that is the life style of the most successful people in the world, they don't mind what is going on outside of them.

Check yourself if you've been distracted by those notifications that are useless, always remember that time is gold and you can never get back the time that has been wasted.

90 percent of notifications are not business related, they are time wasters, you need to be mindful of your time, be selfish with it because it's one of the most precious thing in this world.

Stop wasting it for people that are nonsense, stop wasting it for things that will never make you grow.

Your time is really precious, you don't know how much time you have left in this world so you better be careful, you better use it to make your life happier, healthier and wealthier than ever.

If you can't turn off notifications then simply ignore it, if you see that it's not useful then simply ignore it and never open it. Focus on your own work, focus on your own growth, if you don't want to have regrets in life the you should feel guilty if you're wasting a lot of your time.

If you want to become super productive then you should sacrifice those small things. Those small notifications are traitors, it is eating a lot of your time but you don't know it.

never take your eyes off your goal, always look forward, always remember your vision.

So what if you don't know the funniest dance? so what if you don't know the latest trend? it's ok, you don't need those information, what you need is to execute the most important things in your life to become successful.

If you can discipline yourself and be just ok with focusing on your goal then you will be surprised with how far you've accomplished.

HOW TO DEAL WITH ANY KIND OF FEELINGS

Don't run away, as simple as that. You have to face it, you have to feel it. A lot of people commits suicide because they want to escape that negative emotion, they think that it will not be over. The truth is... just sleep now and you will have a different mood tomorrow.

Deal with it, deal with depression, you can forget it in a while if you will do something positive. The best way to defeat depression is through exercise, you need to feel some physical pain. A physical pain that is positive will erase the mental pain. Run, make your lungs explode, get tired, you will feel better, you will feel that you have a purpose, you will be able to think clearly.

You can jog, you can walk, you can run fast, the best way is to run fast, as fast as you can. Never stop until you're tired. Do it again tomorrow, once you learn how to endure some kind of pain then depression will be easy to dealt with. Depression is the cause of inaction, you need to keep yourself busy, you need to free your mind from being stuck and negativity.

If you will just take action then depression is already defeated. Pursue a goal, even if it is impossible to achieve... pursue it, you have to entertain your mind, you have to have fun even if you have a big problem. You can do it, stop looking for a sympathy, stop looking for advises, all you have to do is do something positive and your feelings will change, it's all about entertaining yourself so you won't be able to think about bad things.

How to deal with anxiety? just deal with it, if you are anxious, if you are shy then just let go. Embarrass yourself, have fun humiliating yourself, destroy your identity. If you can think that you are nobody then you will be free, if you can make yourself believe that you are allowed to make mistakes and look bad then your fear from people's judgement will subside. Keep being anxious, don't be afraid of getting judged. Don't go to comfort room, don't go outside, stay on that place, keep feeling the sweaty in your arms, be ok with sweaty armpits. Don't be afraid to look stupid, don't be afraid to look like a bum, don't be afraid to suck, forget about your identity and just enjoy being anxious. be in the moment, always be in the moment, never try to fast forward the time, don't even try to go home fast, deal with that feeling and soon it will go away. It's like being ok facing the big stage, being ok facing the judgement from other people, pretend that your confident and your heart will start to beat slow. Never mind what people say, never mind their ideas and impression about you, enforce your will and never be on a flight mode, always be on a fight mode.

How to deal with fear? very simple, be scared, be scared but have a still mind. Face the fear, it's ok if you are nervous, it's ok if you don't have any idea what might happen... just face it and deal with it. Fear will become scared of you if you are willing to become scared and keep moving anyway, don't move backward... move forward.

HOW TO DISCOVER THE SECRET TO SUCCESS

Many gurus will seduce you to hire them and promise you the secrets to success. They were very good in creating the words that you wanted to hear. Success is free you don't need to pay for it, you just need to work for it and give a lot of time and energy.

Success is to be earned, there are no shortcuts for success, you don't need anybody to teach you. You just need to work hard as much as you can, create a lot of margin for errors and don't be afraid to make mistakes.

Make a lot of risks, make a lot of experimentation, don't be afraid to go hard because that is what it is all about. Anyone can become successful if he wishes to, you just need to become serious, you just need to have that focus, I mean super insane focus that will make you one of a kind. You need to become unbelievable.

It's a simple trial and error process, all you have to do is try and make it work. If it didn't work, keep trying again, tweak the process a little bit, try something new, add something you haven't done before. It is guaranteed that you will fail on your first try. Remember that you're not special, you're not the chosen one, all you can do is grind and hustle.

The secret to success can only be discovered through repeated failures. Don't be afraid to fail again and again because you will learn if you keep trying, you will become smarter, you will learn some new tricks and techniques, the challenges will become easier next time.

Build a mindset of a winner, a mindset of not giving up no matter what. Enjoy the tough times, tough times don't last only tough people do. If your mind is so tough then you will keep going even if your back is already burning, even if your ass is already bleeding.

The secret to success is to keep going no matter how far you are from the finish line, work fast, wake up early, discipline yourself to not ask for instant rewards, keep grinding until you have that wisdom and experience to build an empire, an empire that is yours and run by only you.

Be immune to failure, you can cry but don't ever quit, only losers quit, are you a loser or a winner? it's up to you if you want to become successful or not, it's up to you if you want to win. The power is in your hands, you can only discover the secrets to success if you keep persevering no matter what.

Dont waste a lot of time, waste only your time for family and real friends. Put work as your number on priority, only smart work, no stupid work.

Be the best that you can be, that's all you can do. Make sure your level is hard to reach, make sure you will reach your prime, make sure your value is too high so they will pay you high and respect you better.

YOUR ONLY CHOICE IS TO BECOME THE GREATEST

Let's face it... life is hard, chasing success is hard. No matter what journey you choose... may it be in sports, politics, engineering, science, business... if you want to become successful then you need to be the greatest. It will be super hard, time consuming and frustrating but there is no other way around, you have to choose greatness or else you will fail.

The surest path is the path of greatness, you have to do what not all people can do, you have to endure what not all people can endure. You have to be super extra ordinary, you have to let the universe feel that you mean business and you have no plan of quitting anytime soon.

Greatness is simply consistency, repetition and massive action. You will learn a lot if you work harder than anybody else. Focus, destroy the competition, make them look like kids. You have to endure the bitterness of hard work if you want to take your life to another level.

Because you will never succeed if you don't push yourself, if you don't try to achieve greatness.

Being the greatest means opportunities, it means money, it means options, it means fame. Greatness is for the chosen few who choose themselves to become great. It's your duty to become great, it's your duty to work hard everyday and become the best version of yourself.

So stop being lazy because laziness is not in your option. Erase the thought of laziness, you can't afford to become lazy nowadays or else you will live a poor life... a miserable life. Make hard work as your culture and try to outwork everyone else.

You can only achieve greatness through hard work so if you are allergic to work then stop dreaming about success, just dream about poverty and ugly life. It is what it is, the path of greatness is really hard but it's worth it. Suffer now and enjoy your life later.

Try so hard, it's ok if they call you a trying hard, there is nothing to be ashamed of. If you are serious about it the you should be proud of yourself.

Feel the pressure, enjoy the boredom of hard work, keep moving forward even if you don't know what to do. Be the greatest that you can be or else you will be left behind, you will never see your prime.

The time is now, the time to start is now. Be the greatest or be the weakest, being number 2 is not an option, being mediocre should not be on your list.

If you're the greatest then it will be easier for you to attract different levels of success. If you're the greatest then you will have a lot of options.

So trust hard work now and never doubt it for a second, never worry if you are getting tired. Always remember that hard work will never fail you, hard work is the right direction so keep trusting it. Be the greatest or be the weakest... the choice is yours.

YOUR MIND IS SUFFERING IF YOU'RE LAZY

Your mind is suffering if you're lazy. Even if you're not doing anything it feels weak right? you feel powerless if all you do is relax all day watching your tv or holding your cellphone. You feel sick and powerless right? that's what laziness does, it immobilized you, it makes your mind go blank, you will become dumb and useless.

Your mind will become rusty if you're lazy, you can't think, your mind can't operate. It's because the blood is no flowing well into your mind, if there is no movement then there is no flow. You have to keep your mind healthy if you want to live a more harmonious life.

Your mind will keep suffering if you will not move now. If there is something you need to do... do it, never procrastinate, never wait for the right timing or best feeling. You have to move now and take matters into your own hands. If you will not push forward then you will become a bum forever, do you like that?

Stop checking your stomach if it's getting smaller if you're not doing anything. Stop looking at the mirror if all you do is eat pizza and play mobile legends. It's only fun in the beginning but once you see your body and life falling apart then it's not fun anymore.

You need to move now, life is all about moving, you need to do something with your life. There should be a balance. Balance in your family, love life, work, business and anything that you are concern of. You need to do something with the things that matters to you the most. For example, if you want to maintain the closeness with your family then you should do something for them, you should give them time or else their feelings towards you will never be solid. If you are lazy to call them or give them attention then that relationship will fall.

Your mind will be filled with negative thoughts such as worries, fear, lack of confidence if you're not moving. It's because you don't know what is happening anymore, you will feel that you don't deserve it, you will feel that you don't belong.

So keep moving forward, keep doing your thing, keep doing something for your life, be the best person that you can be and stay humble. Just because you work hard today and achieve some kind of success doesn't mean you have the right to become arrogant and stop working tomorrow.

Greatness can only be achieved if you keep working hard everyday, you still need to work hard during holidays.

If you don't want your mind to suffer then always move, keep moving forward all the time. Taking actions should be your number one priority, you need to make the blood in your brain rotating, you can only do it by doing something positive.

Exercise, pursue your goals, clean your house, read something, make sure you are doing something that will make you a better person. Don't ever let laziness destroy your mind, free it from suffering by always taking actions.

IF YOU KNOW YOU CAN STILL MOVE THEN YOU HAVE THE CONTROL

Don't ever think that you're out of control, if you can still move, if you are still free, if you can still think and use your body then you're still in control. No matter how hard the situation is... always keep in mind that you're in control no matter what. Because you can still do something, you can leave if you need to, you can fight if you want to, you can move forward if you want to. The choice is always yours.

Even if you lose a lot of things and power... you are still in control, nobody can tell you what to do. Nobody can tell you when to stop. If you really possess your own life then you will only follow your heart.

So stop thinking about losing, stop thinking about quitting. You are still in control here no matter what. Just feel powerful, fake toughness if you need to, if they can't kill you nor jail you then you still hold the crown, you're still the king of your own life.

So stop worrying, stop thinking that you can't do anything anymore. You're still in control, it's your life, you can be super creative of it, you can feel loose, you can try a lot of things, you can experiment. And even if you fail... there is always a tomorrow, you can always try again next time.

Don't eb afraid to fail over and over again because the number of trials you have will never run out. You can try a zillion times and not be killed. The good thing is... you become so much better than yesterday everytime you try, you're not losing if you try, you're only gaining, you're only improving and becoming better.

Look at yourself... can you still move? if yes then be happy, don't wait for the right timing, don't wait for the right feeling... just move now and do something different than yesterday, you can have a lot of fun by simply moving, you can bet on yourself, if you really believe in yourself then you will risk it all, you will never be afraid to go to the extreme.

Moving is fun, even if you're suffering... just move and you will almost forget that you are suffering, the pain will go away, of course there is a chance that it may come back but if you keep moving forward then that pain will look weak, it will never make you feel miserable again.

You will feel like a winner if you're moving, you will feel like you are gaining something... how good was that?

Taking actions and trying again should be your number on priority, if your mindset is like that then you will regain your power back, you will always be in control, you will discover how strong you are. Not all people can move, most people are so lazy so if you can take massive actions then you already have an advantage.

You are building yourself by moving, you are creating your life by taking actions. So don't ever take your life for granted, never waste your time and simple keep moving forward. Your life will become easier if you will take it one step at a time. Know what you want,, know what you need and position yourself one step closer from it. It's ok to become slow, for as long as you are moving forward you will be alright.

YOU DON'T NEED AN ADVISE BECAUSE YOU ALWAYS KNEW WHAT TO DO

Stop pretending that you need an advise, stop pretending that you need a mentor. You have everything you need in your system, you always knew what to do, you just don't want to do it because you're a little bit lazy, you're too damn spoiled, you think you are rich and you don't need to suffer anymore.

Stop pretending that you don't have this nor have that that's why you can't take actions, stop pretending that you need to have something first before you get motivated to take actions. You can move even if you are aching, you can always move even if you feel so heavy. It's all up to you, it's all in your hands.

Start moving now, do something, stop sleeping for a very long time. It's time to wake up, it's time to do something about it. It's not going to become easy but trust me... if you push forward then it's all worth it.

If you want something you don't need to learn everything, just use what you have, use your own knowledge, it may or may not work but at the end of the day you will still learn something if you push hard enough, if you do whatever it takes to get it.

You don't need a coach, life coaches were just marketing scams, they will just take away your money, it's your life, you can do whatever you want with it.

Just work and you will know what to do next, just keep moving and you will see clues. Most of you are pretending to not know the next move but the truth is you always knew the next move, you're just acting like you don't know it because you're a pussy.

Advises are for scared people, if you're not afraid to make mistake and be responsible for all of your actions then you will never seek for an advise. This is a journey, it's your life, are you going to let someone direct your own life? are you going to let someone be a leader for your own life? life is yours live it your way.

And even if someone is giving you an advise, I mean a really good advise... still don't follow it, if you know that there is something in your heart and you really think that it will click then follow your heart.

Never follow advise from popular or great people, if you feel that you are more right then follow yourself. The thing is... don't be afraid to make mistakes, you need to make mistakes or else you will never learn. All you need to do is adapt and improvise, you can adapt to any kind of situation so don't be afraid to fail. The more failures you get... the more you will become better and smarter.

You're smart, you're great you know what to do, trust your instincts and intuitions. You can always come up with something. You just need to trust yourself because if not then how come you will become successful? just focus, think about it, do something about it, focus all of your energies into it and it will be yours.

ENJOY THE RANDOMNESS OF LIFE BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT LIFE IS ALL ABOUT

Life is full of randomness, life is full of surprises, that is what life is all about. It is crazy, it is a roller coaster. Sometimes you're at the top, sometimes you're down.

You will get stunned, you will go crazy, your mind goes blank, you will feel that your life is meaningless at some point in your life. You will get lost, get beaten, get hurt but if you persevere and continue living your life... good things will happen.

Just deal with it, just deal with life. Don't worry if it's too damn hard, don't worry if you're suffering. Just remember to believe in yourself and have faith in yourself, just remember to smile when things are getting harder, just breathe because life is all about breathing, life is all about opening your eyes and talking to your loved ones. It's not about money, it's not about success nor dominating the people around you and looking good... it's about living it and experiencing more.

Live your life like it's your last, live your life to the fullest. Just go with the flow, never stop, never stop living your life. Enjoy it, enjoy whatever happens to it, enjoy ever struggle and pain because that's the beauty of life... overcoming the things that you thought you would never be able to overcome.

You may be rich by now and tomorrow you're going to become poor because of unexpected events, you may be poor by now but there is a chance that you can become rich tomorrow if you work hard and focus on your dreams. Go all out everyday, give everything you've got and never stop until you get what you want.

You don't know when your life is going to end, it can be tomorrow, it can be next 50 years, life is not assured, tomorrow is not guaranteed. All you can do is enjoy the moment and always take your chances.

Life is like a circus, life is a roller coaster so get used to it. Anything can happen, anything is possible so enjoy your life while you are still living. Forget about the petty things, forget about the small problems, just live your life and do what you are suppose to do.

Life is easy, you will just do what you need to do and that's it, forget about anything else, be happy that you are living, be happy that you are still in this world.

Life is unpredictable, it is full of surprises, all you can do is be ready even if you're not ready, don't be afraid to get hurt, don't be afraid to get uncomfortable. Life will become easier if you will embrace everything that will happen.

Appreciate life, appreciate that you're still alive. Forget all of your worries, never mind if you're not on a comfortable situation. It is what it is, sometimes it's comfortable and sometimes it is not, it's ok, it is always ok. Just live your life to the fullest and make the best out of your life everyday.

ENTERTAIN YOURSELF BY WORKING, NOT BY BEING LAZY

If you want to become successful then you need to entertain yourself purely by working, not by being lazy. All of us wants entertainment but only few were entertained the right way. Hardworking people were not really working hard at all, they don't feel that way.

Stop being lazy, just stop it... most people were entertained by TV, food, sleeping, playing video games... those lazy activities will never make you a successful person, you have to keep on moving, make taking actions as your culture, be the most dynamic person on earth.

Just be productive, if you want to earn more money then work as hard as you can to earn a lot, make it as your goal to earn more money than you normally do.

Broke people were entertained by laziness and successful people were entertained by hard work and perseverance. Just because it is boring and not fun doesn't mean it cannot entertain you. If you can enjoy boredom then you will become successful.

Studying is not fun, working hard is boring, being passionate is painful but if you want to become successful then you need to entertain yourself with hard work.

Laziness is next to ugliness, I know you want to do something but part of you wants to enjoy comfort even more. Comfort can never give you money, comfort can never make you improve, you have to deal with the discomfort and take massive actions in order to succeed in life. You must be comfortable being uncomfortable.

Hard work always pay off, you don't need to worry about anything else anymore if you work hard and give your very best, just work hard and never think about anything else anymore. Go for it, the real entertainment is when you're doing something and not being lazy.

If you are entertaining yourself through laziness then you are simply fooling yourself, you will go down fast, you will become depressed in the end. But if you are entertaining yourself through hard work then you will become happier even more, you will get rewards, you will get what you want.

Hard work is the answer, making sacrifices and disciplining yourself will set you free, the people around you will become happy, your life will be on the right path.

Entertain yourself not through drugs, food, wasting time nor procrastination, those are not true entertainment, those are fake entertainment because it will give you bad emotions in the end because of the consequences you have to face for being irresponsible.

Don't be too picky, don't be too soft. Don't do activities for the soft, these are activities that involves no effort at all. Entertainment that is fun such as watching TV the whole day, playing video games, eating junk food, gossiping all day long in facebook will never make you improve. Those activities will only destroy your life..

Just work, whatever work that will give you a progress... do it, it's your journey, focus on your own life, focus on becoming better little by little and you will be entertained the right way.

SOMETIMES ALL YOU NEED IS A BRIDGE

Sometimes you don't need help, all you need is a bridge, a bridge to go wherever you want to, a bridge to change your life and leave the position that you don't like. Look for that bridge, it can be something to put you on a better position. A bridge that will make you very close from what you need.

You can find that bridge or you can build your own bridge, it's up to you. Don't ever feel bad if nobody is helping you, once you see that bridge... use it to your own advantage.

A bridge to become rich, a bridge to become successful, a bridge to become happier, a bridge to change your life. You don't need a strong bridge, you just need a bridge that will make you closer from what you want. That bridge will make you more confident and motivated, look for it now and use it now.

It can be a skill, develop a skill that will server as a bridge to make you successful, a skill that will change your life from being a loser to a winner. That skill will be your ticket to success, make that skill stronger and one of a kind, make sure your skill set is something they can never ignore.

That bridge is the missing piece in your life, it can also be an inspiration. An inspiration can become a bridge it can serve as your motivation to take actions. Anything can become a bridge for as long as it is making you motivated and hungry to win.A bridge can be your burning desire to win.

Look for that bridge, look for something that will give you an edge, look for something that will force you to take an action to make your life better.

It can also be a project or a business, make that project or business your bridge to success. Work on that project, work on that business, grind everyday. Make sure you are busting your ass, make sure you are doing whatever it takes to win. It's all about hard work and doing whatever it takes to win, sometimes you don't even need anything, all you need is a willpower and your life will change.

Even your problem can become a bridge, use that problem to make you angry to take actions and do the most impossible things to change your situation. That problem is no longer a problem if you will use it as a bridge. It may look scary in the beginning, it may look so hard, you will feel resistance but the situation will change if you are serious in using that bridge to improve your life.

Use it as an outlet, use it to entertain your mind and give yourself a hope that you too can become great, you too can become successful. Use that bridge for your own good.

Some people already have the bridge they needed in their lives but they can't see it, it's because they were not thinking positive. Positivity alone and being optimistic is already a bridge to change your life, you can use it as a direction to make something great in your life.

IT'S YOUR MONEY, DO WHATEVER YOU WANTED TO DO WITH IT

It's your money, you earn it, you have power over it, don't let anyone dictate you from doing something about it. You have total control of it, spend it, invest it or keep it... whatever you can do to it... do it now, don't waste it for nothing, spend it for happiness, spend it for what matters the most. You work hard for it, you put in the blood, sweat and tears so it only means you deserve to spend it, you deserve to do whatever you want with it.

If you want to spend it now then spend it now, never hold back, it's your money, you work hard for it and you didn't steal it, stop listening to what other people say that you should put it to this or put it to that. You can become very creative with it, don't be afraid to spend it or put it into some kind of business. Money will never run out, there is always a reserve money waiting for you.

Money is very easy to earn, all you have to do is apply the proper technique for acquiring it. You can copy their style, you can create your own style, whatever style works for you... do it, repeat it, master it.

If you don't want to lend it then just keep it, don't ever feel guilty if you didn't let someone borrow some money from you, it's not your obligation to become a super hero, you can do whatever you want with your money.

If you want to save money here are the things that you need to do:

1. Stop buying stupid coffee from a popular coffee shop, it's too expensive, you are just impressing other people and you are only fooling yourself, you can just buy a 3 in one coffee. The taste is the same but the prices are different.

2. Stop looking at the brand. Don't buy a shirt just because it is popular, never look for the brand because you are only feeding your ego by doing that, it means you are just buying it just to look rich, you are only impressing people. Remember... trying to impress people by trying to look rich is the number one habit of broke people.

3. Be ready to sacrifice. Sacrifice the things that you want to buy, forget those things because you don't need them. Be ready to get BORED because saving money will give you a boring life, you will never be able to party, you will never be able to look flashy, you will never be able to do the things that you normally do.

TAKE RISKS. If you want to become successful in business then take risk. Don't be afraid to lose some money, you can get it back once you learn the proper way that is paralleled to your personality. Money is nothing, make it your slave, make it easy to get. Don't be afraid to lose a lot of money because once you earn a specific amount... you can earn it over and over again. If you still have the fire to make money then you will make money, as simple as that.

Play with your money but play it the right way, make sure you are adding something to your net worth. You can spend big but don't ever get broke.

HARD WORK SHOULD BE YOUR CULTURE

Hard work should be your culture, if you're not accustomed with it then you will go down, you will fail... as simple as that. Hard work is the biggest key to success, you can fake anything but you can never fake hard work, the universe will see if you're really working hard or not. If hard work is your culture then everything in your life will become easier. Everything will become like a breeze, you will no longer be afraid of hard work. Every work will become an easy work... as simple as that. Stop chasing success because you will only get frustrated if you can't see it, chase hard work and success will come to you naturally, it will be attracted to you naturally. The moment you wake up to the moment you sleep... you should work hard, you should grind like nobody else can grind. Hard works is not hard to do, your perception about it makes it hard. Actually, all you have to do is keep working and look for something that makes results. If it is making results that you are satisfied with then keep doing it. Work then rest, work then rest... repeat this cycle over and over again until you become successful, it's too easy, it's that simple. You should enjoy hard work, you should enjoy every step and process, even if it's a complicated process... you still need to enjoy it and do it for so long. If there is no pain then there is no gain, as simple as that.

You need to push the envelop if you wanted to succeed, you need to work super hard and separate yourself from the pack, it is what it is... it is going to become hard, nothing will become easy. You need to do whatever it takes to become successful or else you will become a bum forever. If it is easy then everyone will do it. Attached hard work into your culture and you will never become weak again, you will never become lazy again. Money, fame, success, respect will become one with your life. Why most people were failures? because they were so afraid of hard work, once they hear that it's going to become a long work then they will not even try, they will not even begin. They will look for an easy way because they believe that there is always a shortcut. But there is none, there is no shortcuts here. If you want to become a winner then you need to act like a real winner, have that insane focus, have that insane work ethic and out work everyone. Become the number one.

Not a lazy culture, not an inconsistent culture will help you. You need to incorporate hard work into your system and make it as your number one priority, nothing is hard if you will condition your mind like a soldier, you need to keep firing, you need to stand up when it's time to stand up. Enough of so much sleeping and simply do the right thing, do the first step. Prioritize every important step in your process, never do something that will make you look like a bum, be the hardest worker in this world and you will be rewarded... as simple as that.

STOP THINKING ABOUT THE FUTURE AND YOU WILL BECOME FREE

The reason why you are jailed is because you're always thinking about the future. The future will always be there, you can never control it, no matter how much you prepare... the future will always become unpredictable, the best way to live your life is to embrace the moment. Live your life like your time is running out, you have to enjoy every second that you are living, forget about the money, forget about security because everyday your life is in danger. Don't worry about what will happen next, it will happen if it will happen, what matters is you are enjoying the moment and you are not wasting any of your time because of thinking too much about failures and embarrassments in the future. The real people will accept you for who you are, you don't need to impress them. You can't think properly because you're always thinking about what will happen next. You're thinking about pain, you're thinking about what people might say, you're thinking about suffering, you're thinking about what ifs. The truth is.. life is simply about living it, life is simply trying to survive the painful situations and make something out of nothing. You can even enjoy a single slice of cake, you can even enjoy having only two friends or even none. Life is very simple, stop thinking about what you want to have and what you want to happen, stop controlling every situation too much, smallest things doesn't matter... even the bigger things doesn't matter at all, the most precious thing about life is you enjoy what you have and you try to become a little bit happy despite of those problems. Problems only become bigger if you worry about it. Problem will dissolve naturally if you will live your life and be happy with what you have.

Just think about what you are doing now, just think about what you can do now and accomplish now... stop thinking about the future. If you are pursuing a goal then simply pursue it, stop thinking about how to get it, stop thinking about the problems that may arise, just do something for it and you will get it... as simple as that. If you only have two dollars in your pocket, don't worry... you will get more money tomorrow if you work hard. If everything is not going well now and a lot of stress and problems were coming into your life, again don't worry just keep plodding and all of those problems will evaporate, they will all be gone.

Future will come, there is also a big chance that you may get disappointed no matter how much you prepare for it. The future will be taken care of itself, learn to let go. But that doesn't mean that you can destroy your life and get out of control, I don't mean that way, what I mean is just live your life and stop hurting yourself by thinking about what could happen and what might not happen. What will happen will happen, all you can do is give your very best and be happy of what is going on with your life no matter how bad it was.

KNOW THE SIMPLEST THING THAT YOU NEED

You will find out that life is so easy if you will honestly look for the simplest thing that you need. Look at what you need, it's not that big right? it's not that huge right? the reason why people were so depressed is because they think that they need this or need that, they thought that they need a lot, but in the end when everything is said and done, they will find out that all they need is little. You don't need two houses or two cars, you don't even need those things, you don't need a lot of money, you keep on chasing for things that you really don't need. You don't need to look for validation, you don't need approval from other people, you don't even need their respect, all you need to do is set up the life that you really want and you will become really happy. What do you need at the moment to live? nothing right? you are breathing, you are alive, what else do you need to keep you alive? nothing right? even if you don't eat for 2 weeks you will not die. You can live without a house, some people doesn't even have a roof on their heads and yet they are still living.

Don't make your life complicated, don't compete too much, it's alright to look for greatness, it's ok to strive to become number one but don't ever get depressed if you can't win and have all those things that you are longing for. All you need is an air to breathe and that's it, you need to fill your lungs with air, fresh air or polluted air will work, all you need to do is keep your system alive to experience life even more. Life is simply an experience, it has nothing to do with those things, it has nothing to do with money nor fame, life is simply experiencing it the rest is just a bonus.. Whether it's a painful life or an enjoyable life doesn't really matter at all, what matters is you are living. Life is very simple, you don't need to complicate it. You don't need an enemy, you don't even need a friend. Real friends will come into your life naturally, don't get too attached with someone, leave a person if you need to, if something is not healthy anymore and you can no longer hold on to that pain then it's time to let go.

You need to know how much pain you can hold on to, if the pain is already unbearable then it's time to let it go. You don't even need some love, so what if nobody loves you? are you going to die? of course not. Again all you need is an air to breathe and that air is available anywhere, there is even an air in a depressed area. Love is just a feeling, it's all in your head, you think you need something to feel alive, you don't know that all you need is yourself and experience what is happening around you. All you need is the will to survive even if the problem is that big, the truth is... that problem will soon be gone even if you don't do anything about it.

Life is very simple, you don't need to complicate it, you don't even need to look for external things to make you happy, just live it, don't be afraid to fail, don't be afraid to trade your life for new experiences. It's all about facing what is in front of you and being in the moment, feel the fear, feel the excitement, enjoy your life. Enjoy the pain if you are feeling it, you need to go further as much as you can, you need to experience life even more.