THE BEST TRAINING TO BECOME CONFIDENT

You're not confident not because you don't have the skill, you're not confident because you're always thinking about what people say, you're always expecting something about the future, you're predicting the worst instead of giving yourself a chance to succeed or at least even try. There is no harm in trying, failure is just an illusion, people will label you as a failure if you didn't manage to accomplish something but that's just a lie, that's just an illusion. You will never fail unless you think that you are a failure. Success doesn't come from people's judgement, it's your belief, you can become successful and really happy even if you don't have anything granted that you are really satisfied with what you have. You will only become a failure the moment you become afraid of what people say and that results to never trying, that is what a real failure is all about. Real success comes from being able to do what you are afraid of, not comparing yourself to others and imply taking the risks, that is what is success is all about. It is abut being free and not being afraid of what people say, it's not attaching yourself to their labels. It's about being focused on what you want and not doing what other people told you to do so. Success is being free, it is being yourself no matter what, it is not convincing them that you are right, not forcing them to believe in you. So if you are not confident right now... try embarrassing yourself, try doing what you are afraid of, try humiliating yourself in public, try failing in public... that is how to become really confident, because you will get use to it, you will no longer be afraid of what people say once you get use to failing in public. Because the idea here is you don't need to become perfect for them, you don't need to please them, you just need to please yourself by trying and facing your fears no matter what. This is not hard, this is not easy too, you just need to try and you will find out what you are made of. Ask a hot girl out on a date, ask a raise from your boss, look for a bigger contract, eat alone in public (this is so easy). Take the risk in sports that you are playing, fail a lot, miss a lot and you will find out that it's not a big deal to fail, you are succeeding when you are failing because you are learning something, you are becoming more confident, the more you feel negative the more you get stronger, as simple as that. Most people think that confidence comes from praises, winnings, success, money, allies, support, victories, followers or fame. This is a fake confidence, you don't need anything to feel confident, you just need to train yourself to get embarrassed infront of public and you will become confident, face your fears, make them hate you for no reason, just play the game of life, ask yourself what you are afraid of and why? was it really a big deal? you will become confident if you are detach from success, people's appreciation, judgement and outcome... that is how to become a beast. Just follow this advice and conquer those clowns who are no better than you. 

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