Jun 8, 2018

LOOKING FOR AN ADVICE OR LOOKING FOR AN EXCUSE NOT TO MOVE?

A lot of people were looking for an advice, they were looking for someone to teach them what to do, do they really need it or are they just making an excuse not to move?

All you have to do is take actions and that's it. Pull the trigger, the more you look for answers the more you will worry, you will become complacent and stagnant. If you will take actions now and feel lucky by simply moving then you will be able to come up with your own solutions that will work.

Looking for an advice will only make your mind worried, your mind will only become crowded especially if you're getting advice from different people that has on intention of helping you. You will become confused, you will become lost even more.

The best thing to do is just take an action. Give your best and see where will your action take you, see if your decision is right... that is the best thing to do. Because the time for calculating things, the time for worrying and overthinking could have been use to take an action and make significant progress. You are just wasting your time if you're not moving, the clue can only be seen from actions... it can't be found in advice.

Don't be afraid to make mistakes, just do it. Do it now, start now. If you made a mistake at least you know what are your wrongs, at least you will know what to do next time. Making mistakes and learning something is far far better than looking for an advice because looking fora n advice will only build fears, and even if you hear a good advice... will you believe it? are you going to do it? of course not, you will still entertain your worries, you will still overthink.

Looking for an advice is just a delaying tactic, it is a child's move, you're a grown man now, you better make decisions on your own because nobody will do it for you.

If you keep on listening to other people then you will become weak even more, what if problems like that keeps on appearing to your life and you can't see someone who can give you a good advice? what will your life be?

Just live your life and take one action at a time... that is the best thing to do, do it even if you don't know what will happen next.

Make a move and never have any regrets once you made that move, feel happy that you were able to make a decision on your own.

Because at the end of the day you will blame the person who gives you a wrong advice, the truth is... it maybe the right advice, it just doesn't work for you because you're different than him. The best advice is to move now and follow your heart, don't worry about what may future hold, just take it one step at a time because it's a process, life is a journey and making mistakes is part of your journey.

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