May 19, 2018

HOPE IS A DANGEROUS THING

Beware of hoping too much because hope is a dangerous thing, it is making you not see the reality. You keep hoping but you're not doing anything, it is like hoping that your life will change but you're not taking actions. Hoping will make you stuck, it's so obvious that you're failing but you're still hoping that one day there will be a miracle.

You hope that your situation will change, you're not in control anymore, you are letting luck dictate the outcome of your life. You think about it everyday but you are not sure if it will happen, sometimes you're just making yourself believe that it will happen even if the odds were against your favor.

Focus on what you can control, if you can still do something about it then do it, if you're hoping then it means you're lazy, you don't want to face the reality, you are not owning your life, you're not doing something to make the situation better.

Hoping that your professor will pass you instead of studying hard, hoping that you will get rich one day instead of working hard, hoping that people will be kind to you instead of doing what is necessary to have a better life, hoping that there will be no traffic instead of waking up early to have more time for traveling, hoping that you have an increase in salary instead of finding a better opportunity that will pay you better. Hope is a weak feeling, it is stagnant, it is going nowhere.

You need to keep moving and keep something running, stop hoping everyday because it will never come especially if there is worry while hoping. Avoid it, just avoid it... take actions instead, there is always something you can do about it, execute it now while you still can, don't just rely on hope because it will never give you any favor.

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