IF YOU WANT TO CHANGE THEN STOP YOUR URGE TO HAVE FUN

If you want to change your life, if you really want to have a different outcome... stop your urge to have fun. Changing is not fun, it is stressful, you need to face the pain if you want change. You will kill your ugly habits that produces no benefits, you will stop yourself from experiencing temporary high that leads to a miserable life.

Just like when your favorite TV show is about to air... that is an urge to have fun, most people will never think twice to watch their favorite tv show but if you really want to change then you have to become boring, you have to stop yourself from watching it because it's eating a lot of your time.

Change is very hard to achieve because you have to take away your bad habits one by one but let's face it... bad habits are really fun, you can't get rid of them because you are enjoying them too much. But if you really wanted to change then you have to choice... bad habits or success? you can never choose both, the other one has to go.

The urge to go to a party whenever your friend calls you, the urge to buy the stupid stuffs at the mall even if you don't need it, the urge to drink 2 liters of soda, the urge to sleep for 2 more hours even if you're already awaken... it is fun doing those habits but it will lead to nowhere.

Always be aware of the small decisions that you are constantly doing, those small decisions have large impact, it can destroy or build your momentum. If you want to change then stop the urge to have fun, do first what you needed to do, stop choosing the good emotions because most of them will be the cause of your failure.