FAILING IS NOT SOMETHING SPECIAL, NEVER GIVE TIME FOR IT

Failing is not something special yet you give so much time for it, you make it a big deal, you think about it every now and then.

After losing what are you doing? you cry, you complain, you make excuses, you blame some innocent people, you are always going back to the past, you always think about what happened but you can't change it anymore. What is the point of thinking about losing all the time? it's not special, it will never help you at all, stop giving it any of your attention. You hate it but you treat it like something special because you give it too much time and energy.

Not thinking about failure but doing anything is also failing, you're also focusing on it. You might not know it yet because you're not aware of it, you are failing slowly, your life is going down gradually because of your laziness and inaction, wait for a few more months and you will see the effect in your life, your mind is not focused on failing but your action does.

If you will always think about why you fail then you will become weak, your mind will become wired to failure because it's your focus. Stop doing that thing, what is done is done, you can never go back and change it. Focus on taking actions and inventing solutions, better days are to come, stop wasting your life dwelling for something that cannot be altered anymore.