May 27, 2018

TRANSFORMING YOURSELF FROM BEING SCARED TO FEARLESS

Being fearless doesn't exist, everyone gets scared once in a while. Even the president got scared, even a champion fighter gets scared. Fear will always strike you, there is no such thing as a man without fear, if there is... that man is not normal, that man has some serious mental problems.

Don't wish to become fearless, wish to become a fear challenger. You will challenge fear every time you feel it, you will let in run into your system, you will feel every detail of it, you will face it and never run away from it. It's like being scared but taking actions anyway, it's being scared but willing to become scared even more.

Every time you stop yourself from taking actions... that is where fear grows even more, it will freeze you and just make you stay in one place without moving, it will manipulate your mind, you will entertain a lot of thoughts that will immobilize your body. You will be ok being controlled and dominated, you will never retaliate. It's because you keep on resisting fear, you hate it, and every time you wish for fear to go away... it will scare you even more.

The technique here is to feel it with all your heart, be near of danger, take the risks and accept the outcome.

Face the embarrassment, face the overwhelming feeling, face the laziness, face the critics, rejection and failure. Face these type of emotions and you will begin to learn how to manipulate fear. It's just a state of mind, it's not real. People don't care for you at all, they are not watching you, they may laugh at you at the moment but it will never stay in their minds forever. If you don't think about it then it will never affect you. When you're scared about something, just stay calm and face it. Express yourself and be ready to face the consequences. Good or bad outcome... suck it up.

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