May 26, 2018

STOP GIVING MEANING TO SOMETHING THAT YOU ARE NOT SURE

Expecting too much and worrying too much will give you a troubled life, it will destroy your peace of mind at the moment. Don't give meaning to something that you are not sure.

Your crush winks at you and you feel that she loves you too, stop thinking that way, it's not about being negative, it's destroying your expectations so you won't get hurt too bad in the future. What if she's just playing with you? what if she winks at another guy and you just thought that it's you? Stop giving meaning to it, stop detaching yourself to a certain situation because it will cause trouble in your emotions in the future. If she really winks at you so be it, feel nothing about it, don't get too excited... treat it as nothing, don't expect too much, never invest your emotions so you will never get hurt in the future.

You just saw a black cat during your job interview and you already think that it's a bad sign, you give it a meaning that it's a bad luck and you will never get hired, stop thinking that way, that is destroying your momentum and confidence. You are not sure that it's real, you must continue applying for a job and give your best until you get hired.

You give meaning to different things but you're not even a fortune teller, you're not nostradamus or something. Just keep it cool, stay relax and never expect best or worst, stay neutral.. this is the best way to avoid the pain that is about to come.

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