HOW TO BE AN ALPHA

Everybody wants to become an alpha, everybody wants to become the man of the hour, they want the spotlight, they want dominance. But being alpha doesn't mean dominating the situation. It means being yourself and feeling powerful regardless if you look like an alpha or not. Being alpha doesn't have any specific trait, if you can carry yourself and do what you does best then you're an alpha.

Not all the time an alpha is an alpha, there will be times when he will look like just an ordinary follower. Alpha means adapting and not being ashamed of your weakness, you're an alpha if you will admit your weakness and still try to win despite of it. Never let other people control you if you know what is better for your life.

Being an alpha doesn't necessarily mean you are the most powerful in the group, it means you can use your power to the fullest when you needed it the most. Some alpha wannabe claimed that they an take over the situation but once the pressure is there... they were freaking out. Being alpha means not being afraid of the moment regardless of what skill set or gifts you have, you embrace any kind of situation even if it scares you to death.

If you wanna be an alpha then don't try to be one, just focus on yourself, focus on how you feel and try to be true to yourself for any kind of situation. You don't need to look like a savage to be an alpha, you don't need to impose your will... just be genuine and people will follow you. You don't need to command, you don't need to act like a high quality leader, just do what you know, never try to stand out because you don't need it, alpha never look like needy. Just handle your own business, handle yourself, handle your thoughts and emotions, try to stay calm as much as possible and you'r already an alpha.