YOU'RE ONLY STRUGGLING IF YOU'RE NOT ENJOYING

Have fun with life, have fun with the struggle and you will never notice it. People struggle because they were focus on dramas, they were focused on the hardship of what they're doing, they're not focusing on what is fun during the process, they just wanted to finish it fast. You will not struggle if you're having fun, all you need to do is condition your mind and tell it that it is fun even though it's not, your mind will believe it. Just find a way how to have fun with it, don't curse your situation, stop cussing, stop making dramas. Just have fun with it and you will be fine, you can smile even if you're struggling, people who can love their struggle usually succeed because they can keep their focus alive and do what is needed. Find a way how to enjoy any activity in your life and you're free, you already won, struggle is only in the mind, it never exist, if it does... you can always find a way how to escape from it. Just appreciate your situation and you don't have to worry about anything else anymore, a lot of people were struggling badder than you but they still manage to smile and see positive things in life. Struggle is part of your life, you have to understand it and accept it. Even the rich people are struggling, even the most successful people are struggling. They may not struggle financially but they still struggle in some other things. Just relax, embrace the struggle because it will end in just a matter of time, the more you resist... the more you will suffer. 

All you have to do is enjoy what you're doing and that's it, you don't need to complain, you don't need to run away from your problems. If you can't see any positivity in your life... just simply enjoy breathing, enjoy the air coming inside of your lungs, just enjoy that you're still alive and all of your worries will go away. That's it... that's the thought that you must enjoy, if you're alive then you don't have to worry about anything else. You can survive, you can enjoy life, it is too easy. Just have a positive mindset, do what is needed, never make excuses, take it one step at a time and keep moving forward. Ending the struggle starts in your mind and then you have to pair it with actions... as simple as that. 

Enjoy it, enjoy every moment that you're living, enjoy every second that you're breathing. It's not that hard, you can still afford to become happy even if everything else is falling apart. There are no limitations for happiness, there are no rules to achieve it, just feel it and it will be yours. So stop complaining too much about life, it is easy if you will have a positive mindset, it's easy if you will decide that no matter what... you will enjoy it. Have fun!

KNOW WHEN TO BECOME ARROGANT OR HUMBLE

You should know your place, there is a time for being humble, there is a time for being arrogant. If you have something, if you're successful and have a lot of money... then you can become arrogant, you have the right to become proud. I am not saying that totally be a bad person and become cocky. You only have the right to become arrogant a little bit if you already proved yourself. If you already achieve some great success then you have the right to talk, if you haven't done anything good yet in your life then stop talking because you're only making yourself look like a fool. Just talk if you have track records that you have achievements so people will believe in you. Some people were so good in making hype up stories that are not real just to impress other people. They can even write a novel about how good they were and how great their stories are.

Be humble if you don't have money to show, be humble if you have nothing, if you're being arrogant and you don't have success in your bank account how will you be able to defend yourself? what's going to happen next? you will get bullied. It's always good to be humble even if you're already successful but what if your personality is really arrogant? what if you can't stop yourself from being cocky? what if you can't stop yourself from telling stories about your life? the good thing to do is just be arrogant if you really have something, if you really can prove yourself that you can do it. Stop being arrogant if you're just a clown bumming around and telling lies. Be humble if you're not successful yet, be humble if you're still small. Some people who already made it are not even being arrogant so who are you to act like a king if you're just a slave?

It's true that success may make you arrogant but some people were already arrogant even if they were not successful yet, it's funny because how were they able to do that? what more if they become successful? I'm sure they will act really wild, their cockiness will reach the highest level. I'm sure you will never control their mouths. They will keep on talking the whole night and will never care if you're already annoyed.

Kill your ego, if you don't have anything then just shut up, never try to impress people because you will only look like a fool in the end. If you can't do things and all you do is talk then nothing will happen with your life, you will remain the same bum forever. So open your mouth only when you have something that people will be interested, this will be a good motivation to work harder. If you want to impress people then impress them with what you can show, never try to impress them with your mouth because only pretenders and losers do that. If you want to impress them then be the real deal, never talk if you can't show something.

It's better to be humble even though you're already successful, people will admire you even more.

YOU'RE NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO'S WRONG

Don't be afraid to make mistakes because you're not the only one who is wrong, some people are wrong too, even millionaires are wrong, they make mistakes, it is normal, never make it a big deal because it is only making you feel bad and weak. Still move forward even if you made a big mistake, it's nothing, people will forget it, it's nothing but a single scene. Even if you embarrassed yourself too much... just keep on moving on, there is nothing wrong with you. You need to keep moving forward or else you will become stuck in a mud. If you're so focused on your past and the wrong things that you did... you will become slow, you will get depressed, you will not be able to move. The best thing to do is to look for the next executable step and do it. Forget about the outcome, you must have freedom from outcome and just keep moving forward as much as you can. You're not the only one who is imperfect, all people in this world are imperfect, they have flaws, the are also some incidents that they look stupid. Sometimes it's better to just ignore your mistakes, flaws and weaknesses and just do your thing, it's better to do it because you will be able to focus more on the task ahead of you if you do it.

And even if you commit a terrible mistake... just laugh at it, it's nothing, what you need to do is to keep moving forward and welcome the better experiences in life, welcome the better opportunities to become happy and successful. There are even some people who are so confident that even if they made a mistake they were still able to get out of it, it seems like there is no bad thing that happened, they can simply ignore it and move on to the next sequence of their lives, they can forget it in just a matter of seconds. That is what you need to do... if you made a mistake, forget it fast and try to become better next time, try to do the right thing next time. It's always moving, improving and changing something... that is how your life should be.

If you're wrong now it doesn't mean that you're going to get wrong again next time, it doesn't mean that you can't correct it anymore, of course there are some adjustments that you can do and you have to focus on it instead of making dramas about mistakes and convincing people that you don't mean it. Of course you mean it, you did it, no on forces you to do it. If you're wrong you're wrong, as simple as that, don't cry and whine about it. Move on so fast and go to the next chapter of your life.

There are plenty of chances where you can redeem yourself, even if they got mad at you or hate you, what else can you do? it happens, your intention is right, it's not your fault if the result is not perfect.

DON'T FOLLOW SOMEBODY

If you want to become successful in life then don't follow somebody, yo should only follow yourself and the things that you're doing, you're following a lot of people a lot that's why your time has been wasted and you can't do some important things for your dreams. If you really wanted success then you should own your life, if you're following other people then it means you don't own your life they are owning it. Follow your dreams, follow your instincts, never follow other people's journey, forget about what a celebrity is doing now, forget about your favorite actor, you need to idolized yourself if you really want to become successful. Have no time for garbage, that is what it's all about. You should focus on making your life better and doing something for your future, not anything else that will only derail your progress. Even if your idol is popular and really good... stop following him because he is eating a lot of your time, your time is really precious and you shouldn't trade it for anything, you have it, be selfish with it. Your time is your only ticket to success, your time gives your freedom, it will enable you to become creative and expressive... why give it to somebody else that will not even do the same thing for you?

Follow your heart, follow your dreams, follow your instincts. There are lot of things that you are following, you don't even know how to follow what you really want. If you're dreaming about something then go all out, give everything you have for it, never give a half hearted effort, never give lesser than 100 percent because that will only assure you failure. Your life is yours, if you want to make it better then do the things that will put you on a better position, don't do something because it is fun and cool, do what is hard, do what will give you money or success... the real fun is there. Never die for a signature of a know personality, what is that? can it make your life better? are you going to land a job because of it? never wait in a line for so long just to have a picture with your favorite celebrity? that's the stupidest thing to do. Success people never do that because they know that it is useless and it's just a waste of time. Successful people value their time so much, they never waste it, they were selfish of it because they know that time is irreplaceable.

If you want to follow somebody then just follow yourself, look at yourself, what are you achieving? what is your journey? are you improving? are you making your life better than yesterday? follow your own path, love yourself and idolize yourself. That is the only way to make yourself successful... become fully committed with your own journey and treat yourself like a king... you make the rules, you decide where you are going to go and what are you going to do.

GO BACK TO WHAT MADE YOU SUCCESSFUL BEFORE

There are some process that made you successful before but because of greediness and impatience you become tempted with different things that you think will speed up the process of becoming successful. You get lost, you try some other things, you try taking shortcuts that leads to disappointments and failures. There is a technique, timing or simple process that made you successful before all you have to do is go back to it when you're failing now, you need to go back to the roots, go back to what made you reach the top... as simple as that. You need to trust again, be yourself again, be humble again, be simple again. There is a point in your life where you become successful, where you really feel confident and amazing, you need to go back to that time, you need to remember that feeling and be on top again. Go back to what made you successful and do the same routine again, do the same timing and habits. It's all about refreshing the ? memories and remembering what made you thrive. What is your attitude before? how is your timing? what is your work ethic? how are you performing? what is making you motivated? you need to remember it all do implement all the things that give you success.

Don't be afraid to go back, eat your pride, swallow your ego. There is nothing wrong in going back, if it what made you successful then why not do it again? be closer to what gives you success... that is what it is all about, be closer to it, do it again, use the energy that gives you a victory. It's all about repetition, if it is still working then why leave it? why use another process, there is nothing wrong in aiming to evolve and level up but if you fail with the new process then go back to the old process that gives you success... as simple as that.

Go back to what made you successful, never be afraid to go back. Sometimes it's not all about moving forward, sometimes you have to go back again and use what give you a lot of success before. There is nothing wrong with it, people can say whatever they want but if you're really serious with being successful then you will do whatever it takes to become successful. If you need to fry burgers again then do it, if you need to sell ballpens again then do it, whatever can give you any momentum... do it. You need to feel a little bit successful in order to become really successful. Doing where you are good at will give you the momentum that you needed. It will save you from being a failure forever.

Being too arrogant will lean you to nowhere, if you need to step on the mud again then do it, if you need to become simple again then do it. For as long as it is giving you something... do it.

ACCEPT THE DETERIORATION

You have to accept that your body is changing because you're just human, you will grow old, become weak and die. That's why you have to appreciate that you're still strong now and can make a lot of movement, work hard now while you still can work hard because time is fast and you will not be able to work hard anymore, what if you're already too old and you're still broke? What if nobody is there to support your needs and you're already a 70 year old guy? you're in big trouble my friend. If you're already in your mid 40s your body will start to deteriorate, you will feel that you're slowly getting weak. Even the body of the strongest body builder deteriorates, even the fittest person deteriorates. No one is immune from it, everyone will get weak. So you to always keep in mind that you need to appreciate every moment that you have, if you're still strong now... keep getting stronger, strive for greatness, reach your peak. Time is so fast and you will not be able to use your body anymore, it's scary but it's true. But even though your body is deteriorating, the good new is you can always reinvent, you can slow down the aging process, you can still find ways how to make yourself beautiful and stronger, you can cover up your flaws. For example, if your knees were weakening because of aging, you can build your chest muscles and make it grow, you can focus on other parts of your body that you can improve. It's all about reinventing yourself, if your hair is turning into white... color it, if your teeth were one by one detaching from gums... buy a false teeth, buy a gold teeth. Just like a car that is slowly getting older, if you want it to still look good... attached it with some accessories, change the rims, change the color, add some kits to make it better and nastier. Even the machines gets older, even the most high tech gadgets were being outdated... it's part of life.

So find ways how to reinvent yourself, find ways how to slow down the aging process. You can find a process that will make you stronger, happier and feel younger. You can try yoga, morning running, laugh therapy etc. It is better if you will use a natural process because it is more effective and safe. Because the truth is... not matter how many plastic surgeries you undergo.. you can never fight aging, everyone of us will come to that stage, you can never stop it.

Even though you are experiencing deterioration... you can still be happy with it, accept it, have peace with it. The only lesson is... while you're a little bit younger try to reach your peak, try to become the best version of yourself because time will come and you will not be able to see yourself beautiful anymore. Make your tummy smaller, make your teeth whiter, eat healthy foods, become smarter than yesterday. Enjoy it while you can still do it, evolve as much as you can.

FALLING IN LOVE WITH SMALL ACTIONS

Those little actions will accumulate in the end, it will bring you success, it will bring your the results that you are looking for. The truth is... you can't do something great right away, you need to take it one step at a time. So if you can find a process to get there, I mean just a simple process that will make you one step closer to your goal, just a simple process that you can repeat over and over again that will give you small results... you're already successful. All you need to do is find a way how to speed up doing that process. If something is working... stick with it and find a way how to do it faster, never leave it, never look for another process that you think will give you success, stick with the process that is giving you small results and find a way how to level it up. Never underestimate the small actions, it can give you something big in the future. Those small actions give you momentum, don't stop doing it. Repetition is powerful, look if you can earn one dollars online every single day... all you have to do is find a way how to earn it over and over again, find a way how to make the process faster and you can earn more. Sometimes you just need to hire someone, sometimes you just need to find a better technique... you can always level it up.

Because if you will look at the bigger picture right away... you will only get overwhelmed, you will be scared because you will find out that there are millions of steps that needs to be executed. The best way to become successful is to divide all the works needed and focus on small actions and do it consistently. Take small actions every second or every minute, don't stop. Find the most effective step and repeat it a million times. Small actions are easy to do, you just need to concentrate and force yourself a little bit if you feel lazy. One action after the other will make you finish a task faster. Do a small action now and follow it up right away, never stop until you're super exhausted. Those little actions will train you to work harder, it will develop your work ethic, it will make your patience stronger than before. Just be in the moment and never try to fast forward your job, simply be happy moving every second, enjoy every thought that runs inside of your mind and enjoy every action that you can take, enjoy every air that you can breathe.

The truth is it is you can have a fun taking small actions even if the task is so boring. Just appreciate every movement of your body, appreciate the behavior of your thoughts, have fun watching your whole system move. Don't try to rush things, enjoy your own pace but never relax too much because it will build the habit if procrastination. Focus on one task at a time then go look for another one once you're done. Slowly but surely, make the process simple and fun, simplicity is the name of the game.

IT WILL PEAK

What you're doing will peak, it will peak in the right time. You will become the best in the right time if it is already your time but for now... you need to work, you need to work really hard because if not then you will never peak, you will never see your greatness, all you can do is work while waiting for your time. Again, you will never get it if you're not working so even if you're failing a lot of times and experiencing a lot of disappointments.... work, as simple as that. Just trust your work, believe in the process, it is really hard but what else can you do? quit? go back? No, you can't go back now, you can't stop now because you already exerted a lot of effort and put in a lot of work, you can't go back now and start again because you will go back from zero, you will start again and suffer again and maybe quit again, the process is the same so it's not a logical thing to go back now. Stay with it, stay with the process, push no matter what. It's all about believing and pushing. Believe, work, push then believe again, believe that it will work someday. Some people can't see their peak because they always stop, they always start something new that they will never work until the end, they were just good in starting and poor in committing. It will peak in the right time, trust me... you will get what you want.

So if you haven't peak yet... it means your work is not enough, it means there is missing in the process, it means you have to stick with it even if it gets messy or dirty, stick with it even if you fail everyday. Every successful man has reached his peak because he didn't quit, he keep facing the pain of working, he grind everyday and didn't stop until he win. That's what you need to do... don't stop, don't stop and you already won. Stopping is for losers, you can't be stopping and dreaming about winning, it will never happen. No miracles can save you, you must saver yourself and push yourself to the limits.

It's so fun to see yourself peaking, it's so fun seeing yourself winning repeatedly. You can only experience it if you  continue doing the process and become better each day. Just give your best every single day and that's it, you don't need to worry, you don't need to become scared, you will get results in just a matter of time, just be patient waiting for your peak. Every person can peak so even if you're not that talented nor skilled... you will still experience yourself peaking, just put in the right amount of hard work and never quit no mater how hard it is to get your dream.

Whatever you are doing now... it will peak, it will peak in the right time. Just keep working now and never stop because you have to do whatever it takes to win in life.

NEVER APOLOGIZE FOR TAKING THE SHOT

Never apologize for taking the shot. If you're not a star player in your team and you take the last shot and miss it... never apologize to your team, never apologize for exercising your courage. You have the authority to take the shot, there is nothing wrong in exercising your courage and do what you think will make you a winner. You will only win if you keep on taking the shot. You must take your chances even if a lot of people will get mad at you. Because I know deep inside of you, you want to take the last shot, you're just too scared that your coach might get mad at you, what's the matter if you miss it? are you the only person who misses the last shot? keep taking and taking it, have no conscience in taking it because you're also a human, you also have the right to dream about something and go for it. A lot of people wants to become successful but they were so afraid to take chances, they were so afraid of taking a big opportunity that's why they always feel bad, they always feel like there is something missing in their lives.

If you're dreaming about great things then you should never hold yourself back, you must take it, own it and never be afraid to lose, be an aspiring hero, do some heroic acts and take full responsibility of the consequences if you fail. It's all in the mind, so what if you fail? so what if people get mad at you? at least you do something scary in your life. If you want a promotion then go ahead and ask your boss for a promotion, it's not bad. It doesn't matter if your co-employees raise their eyebrows at you, it doesn't matter if they think that you're dreaming and trying hard. You want it so go for it, ask your boss and never feel bad once you get rejected. Remember that your goal is to give your best and try everything you can try... as simple as that, winning is just a bonus, bagging it is just a compliment.

Always take the shots whenever you have the chance, those shots may not come back again, you may never see it again. Once there is an opportunity to shine... go and devour it, hug it, embrace it and never be afraid of the outcome. If you fail you fail, as simple as that. It's not the end of the world, you are still breathing and living, you still have a lit of chance to become happy, you can still make yourself a winner.

Stop thinking, just do it regardless of what may they say. Never mind what is going to happen next. Just take it, give yourself a chance to succeed and be happy with your life. You will become happier even more if you're doing something to get it, don't just stand there and look at it... get it with all your might, get it with all your power... never apologize for taking the shot.

WAITING IS DIFFERENT THAN BEING PATIENT

Waiting is different than being patient, if you're waiting then you're simply waiting without doing anything. Being patient means you're taking actions but you're not getting frustrated, you're taking actions while waiting for the results. Never play the waiting game because it's the game of the losers, it's the game of people who are making excuses. It will never give you anything, are you just going to wait for the blessing without working for it? you're simply wasting your life by doing that. Or are you going to wait for the result while doing something to force it to come? which path is the right path. Just like two aspiring overseas workers who wants to work on abroad, the both passed the applications and requirements needed, all they need is their working visa to be approved. The first one is waiting without doing anything, months have passed and his money already run out, he don't know what to do anymore, he is getting frustrated, all he does is blame the company and the agency because they cannot give him the job. The second one is different, he is patient, he find a work while waiting for the visa, he knew that worse things may happen so he find an alternative that will give him some money to support his family while he is waiting for his working visa. The one who is patient always wins because it doesn't mean you need to be patiently waiting, it means you still need to do something while waiting, it means you still need to work. Patience is a virtue, it really is, if you have a lot of it then there is a big chance that you will become successful in life.

Some people who are standing in the grocery line wait for their turn but they are not patient, they were talking a lot, nagging a lot, they were complaining about the slowness of the service, they wait because they don't have any options, they do it even if they don't like it. But some people are patient, they wait but they never complain, they knew that it is normal and it's nothing damaging or destructive. They knew that nothing will happen if they get mad so they just enjoy standing on the line and wait for their turn.

Being patient will give you happiness, waiting will only give you frustrations. Stop waiting and do something to at least entertain your mind and free it from frustrations. Do something that will make you hopeful again, something that will motivate you.

You need to be patient while doing something, you need to enjoy it or else you will fail. The key here is to always have fun doing the difficult things, it will make your patience grow, it will make your mental toughness really tough, you will be able to withstand any difficulty in life. Waiting will make you weak and rusty, you have to do something productive and be patient while waiting for something big.

CORNER YOUR DREAMS

Never let it go, corner it, never let it run, never let it out of your sight. Always look at it, think about it and do something for it. Your dreams is yours, it should never be touched by anyone. Corner it like a scared puppy on the street, catch it like a helpless butterfly. Chase it, I know it's elusive but you have to corner it and make no room space for it so it will submit itself to you. Your dream is your life so you should never let it go, it is the only thing that give your life a meaning, why let it go? Be strong because even if you think you almost have it... there are some instances where it will still escape from your hands for whatever reason. It can find a way to slip away from your hands even if you're holding it tight. But you have no choice but to chase it again, even if it runs so fast...  go after it, be faster than it, never let it escape, once it is very near from you... never let it go. Bear hug it if needed, chain it and punish it every time it tries to escape again.

Your dreams are elusive, I get it especially if it is too big. But all you can do is work for it and never give up. Whatever work you can work... work it. never stop until it's yours, that's the only way to make your dreams come true. If it gets harder and harder that's the time that you should push even stronger. Any kind of dream is hard to achieve if the focus is weak, if the actions are slow and belief is so low. You've got to turn yourself into something special if you want your dreams to come true. You must be someone who will do whatever it takes just to win in life, you must value every small action that you can do for your dream. It's like giving your life to it without any form of hesitation.

Every dream is possible, it can be done, all you need to do is execute and never stop. Take massive actions, take repetition to another level. There is always a next step for your dream all you have to do is do it, if you don't know what to do then just think for a few minutes and when something pops out from your brain... do it right away, never wait because that kind of mentality is the one that will destroy you, losers are good in waiting but very bad in executing. Look at yourself, if you're still waiting now then consider yourself as a loser. There is no more time to wait, you have to move now and do what is possible for your life. No dream is too big if you have the heart to corner it, just be closer to it every single day, dissect the steps, divide the tasks, have patient and move fast if you can. Never rush but move fast.

TREAT YOUR LIFE LIKE A PRISONER

You're lock in, what does a prisoner do? they can't do anything else other that what is assigned to them for that day. If they need to sweep the floor then they will sweep the floor, if they need to clean the toilet then they will clean the toilet, they can't go outside and have fun. That's what your lifestyle should be... if you want to become successful then you should treat you life like a prisoner. Some prisoner were just lifting weights everyday to entertain themselves because they don't have other things to do. That's what you should do... lock yourself up into something and never stop. If you're an aspiring writer then write everyday, never stop, focus on writing and never do other things other than that. It's hard, it's boring but what else can you do? what else do you think will make you closer to your dreams? All you can do is take actions non stop, you can never stop, you can never relax. Your focus should be beyond insanity, it should be one of a kind, a laser like. You should only go to party sometimes, not twice a week, not once a week... just sometimes. Stay lock in, stay committed, be a prisoner of your dreams, keep taking actions every now and then and never think about quitting or having fun for just a short period of time. Having fun will never get the job done, you should get bored, you should get frustrated. If having fun can make you successful then probably all people were successful now, but only few experience success because only few are willing to do whatever it takes to win.

Treat your life like a prisoner, only do few things, things that are related to your dreams, things that will make you closer to winning. Success will take away your freedom, it will take away your joy, you will become like a robot, a workaholic always pushing for something. It's all about conditioning your mind to always move and sacrifice for your dreams, you can't be always having fun rubbing elbows with your friends and drinking all day. You really need to feel the pain, you need to experience tremendous boredom and frustration because you need to make it work and you can't stop until it's done.

Stay lock in, stay dedicated. Never watch TV, never do other things that will not make you a better person, stay committed with the grind and make that your game, make that your past time. Stop treating your life like a diva who can afford to waste time every now and then. Your time is your most precious commodity for success. If you will waste a lot of it then you are setting yourself up for failure. You will be surprised at how far you've come if you're focused and dedicated to your dreams. Make the commitment, imprison yourself. Lock yourself at the gym, lock yourself in your won room studying what needs to be studied.

PERSEVERANCE WILL REVEAL YOUR TRUE POWER

If you want to know how strong you are... persevere, do whatever it takes to take your life to another level, never quit, never look back... keep moving forward even if nothing is happening in your life. You have no choice but to persevere, you have no choice but to move fast and act now. Perseverance will reveal your true colors, it will make you know what kind of character do you have. Because you can only know how strong you are during stormy weather, during times of problems. You will never know your true power when everything is going well. What will you do if your business is going down? if you are sick? or if someone in your family is in big trouble? how will you react? what will be your facial expression? are you going to let fear and stress eat you? or are you going to bite every challenges that is in front of you? You can only test your true power during times of adversity, you will never know how powerful you are unless you face a different level of discomfort. Great people never quit, they push past pain, they never care if they die chasing their dreams.

You can never say that you're strong enough until a big problem shows on your way, and if it does... just deal with it, face it with all your might, survive and thrive, never stop until you're back on top again. Just keep moving even if you're like a zombie suffering too much, wounded or not... keep moving. Those who can move while the going gets tougher usually succeeds. So stop acting like a tough guy if you haven't face any strong storm in your life yet, one day a monster problem will visit you in your life and if you're not mentally ready... it will eat you. You will suffer like hell, you will be out of your mind. But don't worry, all you have to do is stay relax and grounded, NEVER stop and just go with the flow, make your own flow but don't resist any problem, deal with it, face it, eat it.

What can't kill you can only make you stronger. Don't be afraid of those storms, they will come to pass, they are not forever there. You should focus on moving forward and doing something to make your life better.

If the problem is not there yet and you want to test your will and power... go for an impossible goal, for sure it will give you problems and difficult challenges, it will make you go crazy but the good thing is it will make you mentally tougher, it will make you immune with traumas and surprises. You will welcome everything that comes to your life, you will become a master of your own destiny. Don't let depressions stops you, keep moving and all of your depression will go away. It's you ability to move despite of feeling bad that will solve all of your problems.

GENETICS IS NOT AN EXCUSE

If you really want to succeed... you will never use genetics as an excuse. Never blame nature, never blame the higher power. If you think that you're not enough then you are but if you think that you're capable of succeeding even if you're not genetically blessed then you will succeed. If you're thinking about becoming an NBA player but you're so afraid to try because you're only 5"7... be brave, there are even players who are only 5"3, 5"5 and 5"8 that become stars in the NBA, don't blame you genes, don't blame your short mother and father, it's still up to you. Of course your path will be a little bit harder because height is really a good weapon but it's still up to you. If you will work super hard and hone your craft then you will have a chance, there are even some 7 footers who can't make it to the big league because they were too weak. If you really want it then you will do everything to get it, as simple as that.

If you're ugly and you want to make it to hollywood, have some confidence, don't be afraid, there are lot of people who doesn't look good in camera but can nail some major roles, they make it in hollywood though sheer hard work and determination and of course confidence. It's not luck, it's not a serendepity or coincidence, it's confidence. Don't blame your not so good looking grand pa and grand ma, if it weren't of them... you are not here in this world. Genetics is an excuse, did you talk to several directors and producers? or did you talk to someone who has a connection in hollywood? did you make your acting job better by joining seminars or summer workshops? if you did everything you think you can possibly can and not make it then that's the time to complain but if you can still think of something to do and you're not doing it yet then the problem is in you.

Not athletic, not tall, not beautiful, not smart... these are all excuses. You can find a way if you really want it, the universe will hear you if your dream is screaming for success. You should do everything you can possibly can to ensure success and make the world see you. If you're too good then it will be very hard to ignore you even if you'r lacking something in your personality. Trust hard work because it will give you a chance, pair it with perseverance and you will be able to reach the finish line... as simple as that.

Work hard now and do something for your dream, do whatever it takes, commit and never look at your weakness, just try to become better each day, try to make your journey easier by not thinking about what is lacking in your life. Always remember that it is possible, you have the right to reach for your dreams no matter how big it is. You can always do something, stop stopping yourself.

UNKNOWN REJECTION

Rejection is one of the most painful event that may happen in your life, once you got rejected your confidence goes down easily, you will feel bad, you will cry to your mama, you will feel that the world is so unfair to you. You don't need to feel bad if you got rejected because it's all part of life, you will experience it no matter what. No matter how handsome you are, how cute you are or how kind you seem to be... people will still reject you, it's the sad part of life. But you shouldn't be faze with any kind of rejection because it can make you stronger if you take it positively, your perception about rejection is what will give you growth.

But sometimes you don't know that you're the one who is rejecting yourself, you are depriving yourself of success. For example, you didn't ask your crush to go out on a date with you... you already rejected yourself, you already lost the opportunity of your life. You're the one who bestowed the failure upon you. Another example is you have a job interview today but you choose not to go because you have a slight headache because of oversleeping, you are the one who rejected yourself because you didn't grab the opportunity. That's also another form rejection, the only difference is... you did it to yourself. You don't see it that way, you don't know it but the truth is you rejected yourself by being lazy and excuse maker. You are always rejecting yourself that you don't know, you don't mean it but you are depriving yourself of the opportunities that could have been yours if you only push yourself to move.

You are rejecting yourself, people are rejecting you that's why you are losing a chunk of confidence in your life, you need to make things right, act now before it's too late. You have to make a declaration for yourself that you will move no matter what.

If you don't want to be immune to rejection.... don't feel it, if you're not too attached with something, you will never even know that it's a rejection. Just keep trying, keep asking, if someone rejects you... move to another place, look for another chance somewhere, it's all about moving and ignoring the negative feelings that the rejection gives you. There will always be someone who will accept you, someone will give you a chance, all you have to do is keep trying and never feel bad once you got rejected.

The reality is... the world will never stop even if you got rejected, your life will still move one even if you got hurt. That's just a little pain, if your crush rejects you... move on so fast, look for another girl, play with your life, don't be afraid to love again, don't be afraid to get hurt again. If you're willing o face the pain then you will have a bigger chance to become happier. It's all about who is willing to try to have what he wants. Successful people are never afraid to face rejection time and time again.

TALK ABOUT REALITY

Talk about reality,talk about true numbers, talk about what you really have and not what you're planning to have. Reality is better than fantasy, if you have less then talk about it, never be afraid or shy about it... at least it is real and not a make believe story. If you can only do 10 push ups then talk about it, don't add 5 don't make it 20, don't tell them that you can do 30 if you can only do ten, talk about reality. People always think that there is something wrong in telling the truth, telling the truth is the funnest thing in the world, you are conquering your fears and destroying your insecurity. Getting addicted with reality will make you a better person, you will push harder because you don't want to talk less, you don't want to talk about your weakness so you will work super hard to make your life better, you will work hard to make your numbers go higher. Being real with big numbers is better than being real with lesser one. You will do whatever it takes to have a real but better story next time.

Don't talk about fantasy, don't talk about your goal, keep it secretly and just talk about it when it's already in real life. A lot of people who talks about their dreams can't make their dreams come true because they were already happy being arrogant. They were already satisfied of talking about it. Real things are the best things in life, people will even believe in you if you're talking about what they can see. Never talk about plans and ambitions, talk about your accomplishments, even if it is only small... talk about it and be proud about it.

Most people now are talking about their plans, they're planning to buy this or buy that but all of their plans were all screwed. They are not even starting it or doing something about it, they were just good in talking and very poor in executing. A bad reality is better than good fantasy, talk about how bad your life is but don't make dramas, admit that you're failing, people will admire you even more for being honest. But don't do it for the sake of getting sympathy, do it to display honesty. It will make you motivated even more because next time you want to talk about the improvement of your life.

Reality is the finest thing you can offer to people around you, being true, being hones and sincere and not talking just to impress people... if you're real then you will become successful faster because you can admit to yourself that you're not doing anything good in life, you can confidently tell them that you need improvements and adjustments to have a better journey, you will not feel ashamed of your flaws and weaknesses, you can walk proud with people knowing that you're struggling. You will become happier if you talk about reality and not fantasy.

HOW TO CHANGE WITHOUT CHANGING ANYTHING

You can change by not changing anything in your life, attitude or personality. But there is only one thing that you should do... take massive actions that are related to your goals. You don't need to change something in your life, don't need to change right away... just do something for your goal everyday, it can be anything, just make sure it's positive. Your life will change naturally. You will do things that you are not usually doing everyday, your actions will become automatic, you don't need to think anymore about what you're going to do... you will just do it, you will be attracted by the actions that you needed to do to make you dreams come true. That is how to change your life without thinking too much.. pursue something and stay focus on it, think about it every second of the day, become obsessed with it, always one step closer towards it, always do the next step and that's it... your life has been changed already. It's always about taking the right actions that will make you successful. If you're chasing your goal you will take your life to another level, you don't need to think about what is the next step, you don't need to worry if what you're doing is right.. just do it.

Stop thinking about what you need to do to change your life, just pursue your goal, be relentless about it and your personality will change, your life will change... as simple as that. Just make sure that you will be serious about your goal, just make sure that you will give your time and energy for it and your life will change automatically. You don't need an ebook, you don't need an expensive life coach, you don't need cds and dvds, just take your goal seriously and that's it... end of the discussion. You don't need to complicate your life to change your life, all you need to do is be serious about your dreams and take actions, some of your bad habits will go away naturally without forcing them.

That's why some soon to be fathers change their lives right away without thinking about it, without doing something about it. They just want their children to have a good future that's why they are working hard, it comes naturally, they didn't force it. They set a goal to give their children a good life and that goal is pushing them to become a better person. Nobody forced them to do it, they do it because their goal is controlling them and they are not resisting.

So if you want to change your life without changing anything... pick a positive goal, do everything to you can to attain it and your life will change without having a hard time. It will happen by itself. You will wake up early, become more disciplined, change your habits, work harder and believe in your life stronger, it will all happen by itself, sometimes you will not even notice it.

BE A THOUGHT KILLER

You're so in love with the thoughts that are not serving you or not making you a better person. Always remember that your thoughts are the ones controlling your life and nothing else. If you have polluted thoughts then you will have a polluted life. If there is a dirty thought inside of your head and you keep on enjoying it because it is really fun and amusing you... it's your duty to train yourself to kill those thoughts right away, it will not serve you so why entertain them. If you keep on entertaining the thoughts about the people you dislike... you should be discipline enough to kill those thoughts again because it will only create deep anger, you will get madder and madder and you will not be able to control yourself anymore, one day you will just burst into anger and might hurt your enemy which is not a good sign if you're trying to live a peaceful life. You're enemy is just another person, he is just an ordinary person, he cannot hurt you nor kill you, his words might affect you but if you have the ability to ignore those hurtful words then you will live a better life, you will be able to move forwards as much as you can. Kill those garbage thoughts right away and you will become more successful in life, it's your thoughts that molds your life, it's your thoughts that defines your destiny.

If you find out that you're thinking about jealousy, hatred, poverty or any other negative thought... kill that thought right away, you can kill it by ignoring it or thinking about any other things that is connected to your values and goals. People who are successful also have dirty minds, they also have crowded minds but they were able to shift their focus right away to thoughts that will make their lives better that's why they were so successful. They were good in choosing the thoughts that are making them productive and motivated.

Kill all the thoughts that you know will make  give you regrets if you keep on harboring it, kill all the thoughts that will start a stupid action. Be a killer of garbage thoughts that doesn't even matter. All the hatred, jealousy, negativity, gossips... you need to kill all of them. You don't necessarily need to have pure thoughts everyday or have a 100 percent positive mind, that will never happen. Just try your best to make your mind free from negativity that will cause you trouble. Be aware of the thoughts that is making you move forward or making you slow. I know you're so addicted with thoughts that will kill your confidence, make you procrastinate or make you do stupid things that will push you backward. It's time to filter the thoughts that is making you feel bad or weak, you have the power to do it, it's just practice and practice and you will be able to master your mind for sure.

FEAR CAN'T STOP YOU IF YOU KNOW THAT IT'S JUST FEAR

It's just fear, it will never immobilized you if you are aware of it. If you know that you're scared at the moment and you're not afraid to admit it then you will be able to neutralize fear. Just relax when you're scared, just breathe when you're angry, never try to escape the situation that you need to face. Just deal with it, embrace the feeling and fear will become scared of you, it will go away. The moment they you deal with something that is scary is the moment that it goes away. It's just a feeling, if you know that it can't kill you then you will be able to conquer it.

Fear is just an emotion that can control you if you keep on focusing on it, it's a feeling that will destroy you. If you will not neutralize it then you will fail for sure, you will become a loser in life. You should always be aware that it's just a fear, it's just a feeling running in your system and if you know that it's the root of your inability to make decisions and take actions then you will forget it easily. There is no such thing as a fearless person, they just know that they are scared, they were always aware if they fear is starting to dominate them and they embrace it right away so that it will be gone. If you're scared then your mind will not operate the right way, but if you know that you're scared and you know how to neutralize it then you will be able to make the right actions and decisions. Fear cannot stop you if you will face it, it will only immobilize your body if you are running away from it. Face it eye to eye, feel it and let it scare you even more. Once you embrace the fear... it will become weaker and weaker until it go away.

Fear of something that will happen. You are not afraid of what will happen, you are not afraid of rejections, humiliations, defeats, fatigue, embarrassments, mistakes, stress... you are not afraid to all of these, you are just afraid of the emotion that you will feel when these things happen. If it happens it happens, what's the big deal. Even if people laughs at you or disrespects you... it's all just an emotion, you are afraid that it might happen, you are afraid of the feeling... not the subject of fear itself. You have to know that it's just a fear so that you will no longer feel bad if it really happened.

You are afraid that you will not get it. It's ok if you will not be able to get it, if you can just be aware that it's just a negative emotion then you will never be afraid even if it didn't come into your life. Your fear of not being happy is what makes you worry, that's why you're afraid to try, that's why you are afraid to embrace every moment.

Fear is manipulating your mind, it is tricking you that the reactions from other people, the failures, the rejections, the pain is what are causing you to become scared. No, even if all of those things happen, you will not feel so bad if you know that they are all emotions. It's your emotions that is causing you to become scared of something, the emotions that are coming... they are the ones that are making you overthink.

Keep in mind that fear is just a feeling, if something happens then it happens, if something doesn't happen then it doesn't happen... as simple as that. But never let fear stop you from taking action, never let feel avoid you from being happy.

If you know that your mother will get mad at you you are scared right? it's not because that she will get mad, it's not because that she will raise her voice at you or spank you, it's because you're so afraid of the feeling that you will get when she gets mad. You are afraid of the emotions in the end. You are afraid in the beginning and you're also afraid in the end.

The real root of fear is the emotion that you will get if something happens or if it didn't happen. The technique here is to always live in the moment, always be present. Embrace all the negative emotions and just live your life, always stay relax. If you feel fear so be it but always remind yourself that it's nothing but a feeling. Everything is just an emotion, emotions is what makes the world go round.

NOT KNOWING WHEN TO STOP

Not knowing when to stop is a great skill, it will bring you further, it will make you win. You will produce results, you will win in life and succeed. If you don't know when to stop then the world will notice you, they will be impressed with your work ethic. It means you really want it and you're giving yourself a chance to go to the top. Just keep doing it and never know when to stop. How bad do you want it? that's the only question you should ask for yourself. Because if you really want it then you will never stop, you will find a way how to execute the next step even if you're running out of breathe. You will find a way how to make yourself alive and keep taking actions until you're done. Just do something, even if you're so tired... just do something. Keep the little fire alive, keep taking actions and your fire will soon become big again, you will be able to move fast again... as simple as that. Because if you will stop then it's game over for you, you will never win, you will become a loser with full of regrets.

Keep your motor running, never race with them, run your own pace, be yourself and simply give your best. Never stop even if it's raining, never stop even if there is no sunshine. You need to do whatever it takes, you need to keep moving so you will be able to see a different side of you. A version of yourself that you thought wast not possible before, you will witness greatness if you will never stop. It's all about pushing and breathing. Push and breathe, push and breathe... relax if you need to but don't ever stop. Never let your dreams get away, never let it escape from your hands. If you will keep the momentum running then eventually you will get there no matter how far it is.

Just like an ant who doesn't know when to stop, it keeps moving forward. It will only stop when it already have enough food that it can use for a long period of time. Life is not all about stopping, it's all about living it until it's over. You don't need to stop every time a storm or thunder strikes you. You don't need to feel good to become successful, success will make you feel bad, it will make you quit, that's why it's hard to get it, if you're willing to feel bad and embrace all of those negative emotions... you will become successful, as simple as that.

The key here to to lose your mind, just commit to moving forward and never think if you're feeling bad, or feeling stuck, you need to be moving, you need to be making a little progress every now and then. Forget if you're doing it right or wrong, just move and push yourself to the limits. You can do it if you don't know when to stop.

DON'T WAIT FOR THE GOVERNMENT TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE

Nothing is going to change your life, nobody is going to change your life... that's a fact. Even your wife can't change your life, even santa claus can't change your life, you're the only one who can change it. You have the legs and the hands, you have the brain, you are the one who is thinking about it. Your life will only change if you really want to change. The decision is yours, you can't give the decision to other people, you can't make other people to help you. The government will never change your life, even if they open a lot of jobs... are you going to pass an application? of course not, because all you want is free things be handed to you. That's a weak mindset, that will never get you anywhere. You're getting in your own way by doing that. Stop believing in the government, they maybe good or has perfect intentions but you are still the one who will change your life. The government has nothing to do with you, you're not even paying taxes. You must act now and do everything you can to change your bum life. You've been living like that for how many years, this yea is the best year to make something great. Make something happen... just try and give your very best and see what will happen with your life, try with all your might, try with your very best. The government is nothing, it will create programs but not for all, what if you're not fit for their programs? what if there is no more job left for you? what are you going to do? You can only rely on your perseverance and your willingness to succeed. If you want it so badly... you can get it, even if the government is just ignoring you... you can still make it, you will be able to find a way.

Look at those people who always participate in rally.... they can't achieve anything, no matter who the president is.. they are still complaining, they still keep on barking like dogs. Some of them just died fighting for what they believe. They don't know that if all you do is complain... nothing will happen to you. There is nothing wrong in complaining just make sure that you're also doing something for your life, some people were just relying on changes, they don't know that the change starts from within. It all starts in your brain not from someone's brain.

Change your life now, die for the change. If you're willing to die for something then you will get it. Don't like be others who just died waiting for someone to spoon fed them. They died waiting with their eyes wide open. They died in hunger and pain, if you're going to die... die trying and not just shouting or crying like a bitch. You have to act now and make something happen, no one is going to help you, keep that in mind. It is either you do it yourself or nobody will do it for you. It's either you force the change or you keep living the life that you hate.

HOW TO HAVE THE POWER TO BELIEVE

Sometimes you don't need to believe in yourself, sometimes you only need to stop believing in what other people say. People will ask you how are you going to do it and if you can't provide a brief answer... you will start doubting yourself which is bad, that will be the starting point where your confidence will go down. Stop believing other people so that the only choice you have is believing in yourself, stop believing what they say and start strengthening your beliefs. They will say that you can't do it, they will say that you're not good enough, too inexperience, too young, too old, too weak, too unskilled. They will say everything to discourage you and put you down. If you will believe them a little but then you're belief has been already wrecked. If you want the power to believe then stop believing them instead believe in yourself only. It's not about being arrogant, it's just using the benefit of harboring your beliefs and turning them into a reality.

The truth is... you really believe in yourself from the very beginning but it dissipates when you start believing other people telling you that don't even try. It's better to be alone than to be in a company of people who doesn't believe in you, some people are there in your life but not there in your heart, they pretend to give you advises that will only make you weak and doubtful. If you want to have the power to believe then take actions now, if you can't believe yourself then stop believing other people. Sometimes it's really hard to believe in yourself but if you will pair your cowardice with the discouraging advises from other people then you will breakdown, as simple as that, you will never be able to go further, you will quit in the middle or even in the beginning of your journey.

They are telling you not to take risks, they are telling you that you're crazy, that's a crazy idea if you believe them. You are only making life harder for you if you believe them. The best thin to do is to close your ears and keep working on your dream, keep believing in your dreams and one day you're going to make it, one day you will shine and people will start kissing your ass, they will start to believe you too. Believe in yourself and they will believe in you, you don't need to tell them what you believe... just believe yourself.

If you really can't believe in yourself because part of your brain has been poisoned by the advises of other people... just take actions, take super massive actions so you will forget that you're scared. be relentless and keep moving forward until you're finally there. It's hard when you're just beginning but it will keep getting easier if you're taking actions. Once you start taking actions then your belief will start to rise again, you will have confidence again, you will even surprise yourself, you will be amazed at yourself because you can think what you thought was not possible in the beginning.

GAIN A LOT OF EXPERIENCES TO HAVE A LOT OF REFERENCES

To avoid being stunned, to avoid freaking out when something new happens... you need to have a lot of experiences in life, you need to experience the worst case scenario so the moment it hits you again... you will feel nothing, it's nothing, it will not even scare you at all, you will keep moving forward and change the situation according to your will. If you have a lot of experience about something then you will never be afraid of it anymore once you experience it again. The situation maybe a little bit different but if it is somehow similar to your previous experiences then you will never be scared of it, you will never be frightened, you will just laugh at it and swallow it like an animal hungry for another experience. What makes you scared about something is you didn't know anything about it, you haven't felt it before. Imagine if you're lost in a country that you just recently move in... what do you think will happen to you? how will you react? what will be the pattern of your thought? You will never get lost if you have a lot of references in life. But I'm not saying that if you don't have any references for a particular situation then you will never be able to get away from it, of course not, you can still find a way even if you're inexperience about something. The point here is you can adapt and improvise more with the situation if it's nothing new to you. Just like having a sprain ankle for the third time... you will not panic about it because you already experienced it before, it is nothing new to you and you already knew the solutions how to heal it. It is not a problem anymore, it's just another day that will go away.

If you have a lot of experience in losing then you will never become scared of losing gain, it will somehow make you feel invincible. You know how to handle it, you know how to cope up with it, it will never even make you feel bad. It's just another day that will go away, all you have to do is wait and that's it... the pain is gone just like that.

So if you wanted to be good at something... repeat it over and over again, have a lot of experience from it. Have you seen a guy who keeps on applying for a job and keeps getting it? He is not afraid to resign when he doesn't want the job anymore and he will apply for a new one and he keeps on getting it. It's not that he is charming or a genius, it's just that he has a lot of references about the interview, he knows a lot of technique and timing that's why he keeps on succeeding. Of course he got rejected a lot of times but he also learned a lot from those rejections that's why he's very confident that he can land another one after leaving the present one.

If you have a lot of traumatic experiences about different things then it's good. You will become tough you will not be afraid to face any challenges, you know you can thrive in any given time. Experience is the best teacher, it's like a lecture notes that you can go back and get something to use every time you face a difficult challenge. That is why champions are very hard to beat... they have a lot of experience before becoming the number one, they knew how to handle different angles of challenges. They can pull out something from their past experiences.

THE BAD ASS MENTALITY

Make it rain... that's how to do it, that's what is the bad ass mentality is all about. You do it even if you're scared, you make crazy numbers. You don't brag about it, you let the world know it naturally, it is better to let the world know it without telling it, they will be surprised at how good you are, they will be surprised with your power. The bad ass mentality is know that you're good, know that you can do it and can make it work even though that happens. Being confident and not cocky, is what the bad ass mentality is. You can become cocky and try to look that you can win but if you lose then you will look like a loser even more, it's not what you know, it's what you can prove. Only few people can declare something and can prove it. It's better if you will stay humble in the beginning and just become cocky when you already won. Because you only have the right to brag if you're really winning in life. Real bad ass people doesn't need to brag or become arrogant, their fans are the ones who will talk about their stories. If you're really good then you don't need to tell the world that you're really good, people will know it, people will see it, they will believe it. Bragging about something means you need other people to know it before you become happy, it is a very weak mentality.

The mentality of a bad ass doesn't need thinking at all, he will just do it, he will just prove it, he doesn't need to declare it... he will just do it. Bad ass is being scared but still doing it despite of the negative emotions running in his system. Any discomfort feels nothing, it feels a little bad but it can never affect you.

Being happy with chaos. Traffic is not making you feel bad, the stress is not making you go crazy, the defeats are not making you depressed, the rejection is only making you take more action. Having a bad ass mentality means you're not scared of any discomfort, you're not soft to dwell on things that doesn't even matter at all. You're so happy with every moment of your life, and even if you're not happy at all... you know you will become happy one day, you will just wait for it. No matter what storm passes your life... you are ok with it and you will never make it as an excuse not to become successful.

Having a bad ass mentality means mental toughness, you never fold during disasters or failure, you're simply hard as metal and you will never change your mindset to win. You're simply enduring, you stick with the process even if you feel that it's not giving you any results at all. You find a way to succeed, you find a way how to take one more step.

HOW THEY THINK IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS

You always worry about how other people think that's why you can't move freely, that's why you can't be yourself and express yourself. Of course they will think about something, of course they will judge you in some ways but not all the time they are thinking bad about you. Some people will be impressed at you and some people will hate you, this is humanity, it is human nature, you will never control what everyone thinks of you because you're not a God, you're just human... you will be judged, you will be criticized, people will laugh at you, people will bring you down. It's all up to you if you will let them make you feel bad, always remember that you still control all of your emotions and thoughts. Don't be so sensitive if you want to thrive in life, don't get too emotional, life is about emotions, you need to deal with them like a man, like a real human being with heart. Face any kind of negativity with all your heart and try to make them positive, try to process them for your own good.

Deal with it and still move like a lion, move like a hungry man working for your dreams. Just keep moving forward towards your dreams and you will be alright, you don't need anything else. All you need is your heart, vision and passion and you will thrive. Forget about what they think because it will only make you fail, it will only make you feel bad. It will destroy your creativity because every time you think about what they say... you're like a prisoner, you will become conservative, you will always take care of your words and actions which is bad if you want to succeed in life. Just do what you think is right, just do what makes you feel good and that's it. Forget about how they think, just focus on your own business because thinking about them will only make you slow. So what if they say is right? so what if you're really not that good? so what if you're really ugly and not successful? what matters is you work hard and you push your will to arrive at a different level. What matters is you keep on building your confidence thorough hard work and determination.

Forget about how they think, forget their reactions and comments. It's your duty to make your life better by focusing on your own strategy and visions. Always remember that to become happy and successful is what you want and nothing else, always remember that it's your duty to follow your heart and you can never do it if you will always think about what people say about you. Just feel free, just live your life and never look for approval, if you think that what you're doing is right then do it forever. Forget about their nasty comments, forget about their advises or reactions... just be yourself, end of discussion.

THE PLAIN CAKE

The truth is... you can win even if you're so basic, you can still thrive even if you're nothing special, you can win even if you're just a plain cake. Even if you don't have designs or something... you can still win in life. All you need to do is be yourself and do what you do best. Know your strengths and weaknesses. Know what you can learn, develop something that will grow forever. Just take something seriously, no fanciness, no gimmicks, no tricks no hidden agenda or whatsoever. You can be a plain cake that is so deep with a lot of yumminess inside. People will get bored at you, they will never think of you as something special but once they experience your quality and stability... they will discover that you're not a joke and you're serious in your business. Have you ever experience something, let's say a food or a brand that you think is not good because it's not attractive but once you experience what it can bring... you will be amazed at how good it was. You will even become very happy because you think it's cheap but the quality is so elegant.

Make sure you are passionate and you will really work hard... it doesn't matter if you look old school, cheap or ugly. What matters is you have a belief that nobody can change, they will be the one who will ask favor from you, you will not be the one who has to please them. They should be the one who needs something from you, stop being needy and trying to look like a dog that is so hungry for a small bone. Feel big, feel powerful even if you're not popular or full of hype. What can you bring to the table is what will create a natural hype that people can't stop talking about.

The plain cake is dangerous, people will underestimate it but if its content is expensive and full of hard work then people will admire it in the end, people will even talk about it for years. It's not how fancy or elegant you are, it's what you can do and what can give. It's how solid you are so stop thinking about looking great or beautiful, focus in the inside, focus on your philosophy and belief and try to live it each day of your life. If you love your own beliefs and methods then it is enough, you will thrive in life, you will survive any storm, you will have something to go to when everything seems bad.

It's all about understanding what you can do, understanding what you can express and knowing what will make you survive without any help from anyone. Once you know your real strengths and you try to improve them everyday... you don't need to beg for someone's attention or help anymore, you will become happy being a plain cake but full of sweetness inside. You don't need to attract them nor seduce them... just be yourself and use your own strength every time you need to show it.

WHO'S THE REAL MASTER?

Who is the real master? who is the real king? who is the one who's making it in life? of course the one who is working hard and doing everything to get his dream. A real boss or master is someone who is putting in some real work and not making any excuses why he can't go on anymore. The real master can get away with anything, he can solve any kind of problem because problem to his is nothing. The real master is someone who will stick until the end, until the job is done. A real master is not someone who is bossy and doing all the commands. He will do it by himself if he need to, he will not be scared of any responsibility for as long as it is related to his goal. The real master is not afraid to face the pain, he is not afraid to face the discomfort just to get things done. He is a master of his own craft, and even if he doesn't master something... he will still work hard just to become successful. The real master will face any disaster. He is willing to leave everything on the line, he is willing to sacrifice his all just to become successful.

He will not follow anyone's commands especially if it will do no good for him. He knows what are the things that will make him happy. He is very simple, he is not complicating things but he is in control of everything in his life. The real master is not complaining about the hardness of what is in front of him, he will just do it  even if it causes a lot of pain, he will do what is needed and he will never quit. A real master takes charge of what is happening in his life, he will never point fingers to anything why his life is not in good terms right now.

If you want to become a real master then you should follow your heart, give your beats and outwork everyone. You should know your strengths and capabilities, you should acknowledge your weaknesses but never focus on them. The real master is you if you can master your emotions, if you can master all the thoughts that are running inside of your head. You're the real master if you're focusing on your own growth and accomplishments, you don't care about other people, you don't care at them at all. You're just focus on your own journey and life.

The real master is someone who is taking of his family and life very well, he also takes care of his health and dreams. He trusts himself so much and he knows that he's going to become successful one day.

He is so appreciative of what he have, he doesn't compare himself to others, he knows that he too can become successful if he work hard and give his best. He is very patient and his is taking it slowly but surely.

THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WANTING IT AND WANTING IT SO BAD

If you want it so bad then you will do everything to get it... as simple as that. You will never make excuses, you will not see any obstacles on your way, you will just do it without conscience. You will never think about anything else, you will push yourself to move and sacrifice everything in your life. Because that's all you can do, you are not thinking about anything else, all you know is you want it and you will die for it. You don't care about what people say, you never care if the process is wrong. You love doing it wrong because you still feel that you're progressing in small ways. You sacrifice your time, energy, friends, love life, hobbies and any other things that you can become happy. You want ti so bad that you don't live a normal life anymore, you're becoming different, you're becoming weird, your focus is unbelievable. You want it so bad and you're going crazy if you can't get it. You will be able to endure unbelievable pain, you have an indomitable will and you're doing some magical things that not all normal people can do, you're starting to become one of a kind. 

If you just want it then you will never do everything for it, you will not give your life for it. You will not even bother if you're losing, you will not waste your time if it's getting hard. You're just dreaming about it, you want it but you're not willing to make any sacrifices for it. You talk about it but you're not working hard for it... as simple as that. If you don't want it bad enough then you will be ok with losing, you will give up that easily. Just wanting it will never get the job done, you will never win because you will never push yourself to the limits, you will be satisfied of the results being handed to you with out forcing anything. If you want it bad enough then you will never get satisfied of the results that isn't according to your standards. 

Do you want it so bad? or do you just want it because you love dreaming about things? ask yourself what is the level of your hunger, ask yourself if you will really sacrifice everything to have it. Because being soft and passive will not work, believing in the word tomorrow will never give you results, you have to do it now, do your best, do what you can do and never stop until you have it. 

If you really want it so bad then 90 percent of your time and energy will go into it, you will never get attracted with ease and comfort, you will get it even if it hurts so bad, you will face the pain and discomfort you just to be one step closer to it. You will try everything in your power and you will not care about failing, you will only see the winning path, you will never think that you're going to lose. 

POWERPOINT PRESENTATION

THE 7 QUALITIES OF A REAL MENTALLY TOUGH PERSON

Are you mentally tough? really? how can you prove that you're mentally tough? sometimes you know that you're tough until a tragic moment happens in your life, you think you're good enough until a big problem is slowly making your mind crazy.

1. He has no regrets. Once he did something... it is really done, he will not feel anything about it anymore. Past is past for him and he will no longer focus on what he can't control. A mentally tough person has no regrets and will never have any regrets. He may feel bad about something but he can forget it easily. If he made a mistake... he can forgive himself so fast and move on to the next stage of his life. He knows that having regrets will only make him slow and unproductive, he keeps on moving forward and his traumatic experiences from the past cannot bother him at all. He stays positive and hopeful, he has no regrets or whatsoever. He is focused on the bright future ahead of him and he is willing to forget any past if needed.

2. He can go solo flight.  He is not afraid to do it solo, he doesn't need any companion at all. He knows that he alone is enough and he can get the job done. He knows what he wants and he doesn't even bother if no one is there to join him. He is always ready for anything, he can go solo flight, he is not afraid to get lost he is not afraid to fight alone. He is a doer and not a help seeker. He knows that he can thrive even without any connections at all.

3. He will not stop until it's over. He always wanted to see what is possible for his life, even if it's so obvious that he already lost... he will still fight, he won't stop until it's over. He will keep on trying and trying again... that's his identity. Not any single adversity can make him stop, nothing can make him discouraged. He always have high hopes in himself and he is willing to do whatever it takes just to win,

4. He remain calm during pressure situations. No pressure can make him crumble, he is relaxed and clam when everything else is falling apart. You will not even see him panicking. He always know what to do even if he don't know it exactly. He is not afraid even if he doesn't know all the details. He loves pressure situations because he knows that it will make him a better person.

5. Not afraid of getting rejected at all. He loves getting rejected because he knows that it will make him tough, he knows that the moment endured it... he's already a better person. He knows that rejection is just part of the game and it can never make his confidence go down. rejection is nothing to him because he knows that he can always make a come back.

6. Not afraid to reject something, not afraid to make someone feel bad. He is also not afraid to reject a bad idea, if he doesn't like what is being presented... he will reject it. He will make sure that everything is playing out according to his advantage, he can always walk away from a bad deal or person without having any remorse from it.

7. He can accept that he already lost. He is a gentleman, if he lost he lost. He will not make excuses, he will not point finger to anyone. He loses with pride and sportsmanship.

CUT A LITTLE BIT SLEEP

If you really want to become successful then cut your sleep a little bit. You're sleeping too much that's why your rewards are too small. Sleeping is for suckers, it's for people who love small pleasures than big rewards. Sleeping will make you weak, if you're sleeping too much then you will feel powerless, you will feel heavy and lazy. Sleeping for 8 hours or less is enough, some people are even sleeping for just 3-4 hours. The thing is this... if you really want it then you will do it, you will do it for a very long time, you will not mind sleeping, you will think of it as a sin. If you're sleeping for 12 hours a day I think it's time for you to cut it to just 8 then cut it to 7 if you feel comfortable with 8 hours. If you want to make huge results then you better step up your game, you better do something scary, do something that not too many people can do. Separate yourself from the pack, all of them were sleeping 10-12 hours a day, they were too lazy, you need to be different if you want a different result.

Sleeping will make you miss the opportunity presented, you will miss a lot of information. It's like letting a big chance get away from your hands, you're acting like you're already rich, successful and happy but the truth is you want something more and the only way to get it is by working more. Ask yourself what do you really want? success or sleep? it's all up to you, nobody's going to get it for you. You need to keep your power alive and don't be scared to get fatigued. It is what it is, laziness is not making an impact so I guess hard work will give you what you need. Just hang on and do what you got to do. You have so much power but you're not using it because you always think about rest and getting tired, you're not pushing yourself anymore.

Sleeping is not giving you the energy, it is cutting your energy. You were not able to do more things because of it, you are wasting a lot of time, you think you have a lot of it but the truth is your time is running out. So you better make a decision now if you're going to pursue something great, decide now if you will take it seriously because sleeping too much is slowing you down, it's not doing any good for your journey. Replace your sleeping hours with working hours and see how your life will change. All you need to have is discipline and commitment, force yourself to wake up, force yourself to open your eyes and do what is needed. There is no benefit in sleeping, there are lot of rewards in working. You have to choose now, do you want pleasure that will destroy your life? or do you want sacrifice that will make your life better?

MAKE A STORY OUT OF IT

You need to make a story out of something bad that happens to you. Because the truth is there is another story behind it, but you have to create that story. Everything happens for a reason but you need to create that reason.

If you fail in an exam that you really prepared for... just think that you're some kind of a movie character that needs to repeat it again and again to become very strong in the end. Just think that that is your story... you will fail first then become triumphant in the end. Think that you're the main character of a story about a kid who is trying to pass his exam but he needs to embrace the challenges, he needs to endure the hard of emotions that failing can give.

So if your coach is benching you and not using you, make a story out of it again. Just think that you need to work hard and become very good so that your coach can't ignore you. Make a story out of it, think that it is just part of the process. Think that you will have a hard time in the beginning but if you work hard then you will succeed in the end.

Make a story out of your pain, if you're in big suffering and experiencing heavy challenges... make a story out of it, this will make you enjoy the struggle, this will make you entertained. Make a story and try to produce a very strong and happy ending.

You can make a strong and powerful ending or you can just live with it and take it for granted, the choice is always yours. You can always make a beautiful ending even if the beginning is tragic. You can write your own story, it's up to you... you the director and creator of your life, those people around you were just instruments, they can only harm you or put you down if you allow them to.

Everything that is happening in your life now is already a story but you can make it better if you want to, you can create something special out of it if you will think positively and never lose your hope to have a happy ending.

So if there is a bad thing happening in your life now... make a story out of it, rise from the occasion, make it positive and inspiring, if it is a really ugly story then make it beautiful, revive it, give it a color.

Never think that what happening right now is your ending, it's only the beginning. You can make something out of nothing, you can turn things around, all you need to do is persist and never accept an ugly ending.

Never let them dictate the outcome, never let them direct your own story, always remember that you have the power to create, you have the power to create miracles. You only have one life, are you going to let someone live it for you?

BEING GOOD WITH THE UNKNOWNS

Be good with the unknowns, trust the unknowns... have faith that you will become successful and everything will be alright. Unknowns will give you the results you are looking for, you have to have the courage to face it and be cool with making mistakes, it's ok to make mistakes in life, it's ok to get lost and go back, you will find your way back if you will never quit. You don't know what's going o happen next but that's alright. You don't know what's inside of the complaints box but that's alright. You don't know your disease but that's alright. Embrace the unknown, if you don't want to know it then don't even bother, just make sure you will face the consequences of not facing it. But if you will face it then also have the courage to accept the reality.

You don't know if you're going to succeed or not but that's alright, just keep giving your best, keep pushing yourself to the limits because you will only know the unknowns if you will go farther as you can.

You don't know if your crush will go out on a date with you but you still have to ask her. If you will act like a pussy then how will you get her heart? even if she show signs that she didn't like you... still go for the kill, execute that unknown move to conquer her heart. You don't know what might happen next time but just embrace the fear, embrace that you might get rejected. If you will not ask her out on a date then all you will get is regrets, failing is better than regrets because it has closure.

You don't know what to say next in an interview, you don't know the next question, you don't know how are you going to convince the big boss that you're the man. It's alright, just be yourself and say the nastiest lies that you can say, say the words even if you don't know what you're talking about. You don't even know if the boss is really good, some bosses are stupid, they don't know what they're doing so calm down and simply give your best.

You don't know if you're right or wrong, you don't know if the love your work or now but it's ok, have peace with the unknowns, all you can do is embrace it and accept what might happen next.

You do not know if you're going to have a bad day or not, you do not know what might happen in your work but that's ok, everything is fine, if you will have the courage to embrace everything then you're living the real life. It's all about having the courage to open the box that is not yet opened, don't be scared if there is a bomb in it.

Unknowns makes the life so much fun, some popular celebrities doesn't have any idea that they're going to become so big. They just embrace life then one day success surprises them. It's so much fun.

All you can do is stay positive, being positive is better than being negative... 100 times better.

You don't know where will the money come from, you don't know where will the help come from, you don't know if you can eat tomorrow. Don't worry about anything else because you will not die, for as long as you're still alive... you have the chance to enjoy life even more, it's such a blessing.

BE ON A ZOMBIE MODE

If you want to finish something and you're so freaking tired because of hours and hours of working... be in on a zombie mode. You're slow, you're tired but you're never stopping. You're sloppy and you feel heavy but you still keep moving forward, you will never stop until you get it done. It's possible not to stop, it's impossible to have the same pace like in the beginning if you're working for many hours but you can still move even if the movement is so slow, you can still reach the finish line, so don't be afraid to keep working, don't be afraid to get tired even more, don't stop because every time you stop... you are only making things difficult, you are only cutting the momentum, you will think about quitting every time you pause and take a rest. Never let your mind think... just keep pushing even if you're on a zombie mode. You're slow but you're moving forward, you're weak but your hope is still alive. Take it one step at a time, one inch at a time... all you need to do is persevere and you will be alright, you will be good. Be on a zombie mode rather than be on a dead mode. Always keep moving forward because you have no other choice if you want to become successful, going backwards is stupid, quitting is for the losers, moving is for the winners... just like that.

Fill the stats sheet, wash the dishes, dig the gold, finish the poem, read the whole page, paint the wall, clean your bath room.... be a finisher not just a starter, once you start something... finish it fast and never wait for an inspiration before you start. Some people are waiting to get inspired before they take actions, they are waiting to get motivated but the truth is you don't need to get motivated before you move, you can still take actions even if you feel bad, lazy or fatigued. Be proud if you're so tired but still moving, not all people can do that, some people can't even move at all once they feel a little bit tired, they were too soft and lazy, they were too dramatic and full of excuses. Stop thinking about excuses and focus on the next execution.

Speed is not an issue if you're trying to finish something, consistency and will are the most important things, never mind if you're so slow, never mind if you're not progressing at all because all you need to focus about is moving, you need to be forcing your system to perform. Be on a zombie mode and force yourself to take the next step and the next one and the next one. Forget about finishing it fast, just do it and do it and do it, never stop until you're done.

It's ok to be on a slow motion, it's fun, it's entertaining. Finding that energy to push, finding that energy to take one more step... it's fun and you will feel proud of yourself.

IT'S GOING TO GET EASIER SOMEHOW

No matter how hard it is... don't ever quit, just keep moving forward because it will become easier somehow. Just wait for the time, the tension will go down, the pressure will become lesser, the difficulty will become lesser. You will be able to breathe in just a matter of time, just wait for it, it will become easier if you will never quit. Not all the time it is hard, not all the time you are suffering, there will be times when you will have an easy time. Just keep trusting yourself, just keep doing the process, it will work for sure. It's hard no because you're running out of patience, you want to become successful fast, you want to heal fast, you want to finish all of your problems. Let me remind you again... the more you rush it, the more it will not happen. So just relax and enjoy doing the process. Be happy if it is hard because it means bigger things are waiting for you, it means you will achieve greatness one day. Hard is only a state of mind, if you want everything to be easy then for sure you will get mediocre results. Easy process equals weak results. The hard process will give you bigger rewards. Be happy if it is hard because greatness will follow.

Keep pushing, keep moving forward... its' going to get easier somehow. Because if you really want it then you will endure the pain, you will sacrifice a little bit more and work a little bit more. If the process is not working then make it work, as simple as that. There is no excuse for not making it work... it's really hard, why are you complaining? dreaming about big things is really hard and you have to work like an animal, never rely on luck because that kind of mindset will never take you anywhere. Just have fun if it is hard, learn how to enjoy it, fake your happiness while doing it, just treat it like a game but still take it seriously, it will get easier and easier as you keep on moving. Don't worry about the other obstacles that will come on your way, of course they will come.

Just be patient and never get tired of believing, it's hard now, you wanted to quit but it's going to get harder if you quit. Face it and keep moving forward, inch by inch, brick by brick... do it. Storm will come into your life but all you have to do is weather the storm and that's it. Just like pursuing an impossible goal... it's hard in the beginning but it gets easier and easier because you are pushing through everyday, you are doing to be at least one step closer to your goal. You keep on leveling up, you keep on getting better and that's it... you made it. And once you have that momentum... everything will be an easy, everything will become like a breeze.

YOU DON'T NEED TO DO ANYTHING TO BECOME HAPPY

You don't need to change anything, you don't need to have anything. If you really want to become happy then just smile, just laugh, entertain happy thoughts, fake happiness and you will become really happy. It's not about the things, cards, houses, money... it's about making yourself mentally tough and accepting the things that you can't change, focus on what you can control. If something can't happen and you really did everything to make it happen... it's time to let it go, try again next time but you have to rest now and let the steam go away. Let the pressure go away, push hard and let go.  Your happiness can be created on your mind, you don't need to look far away, you don't need to have this or that just to become happy. Happiness a choice, you can wake up early in the morning with a smile on your face or you can wake up thinking about your problems. Happiness is just a state of mind, control your mind and you will become happy forever.

You don't need to get rid of your neighbor to become happy, you don't need to become the number one, you don't need to have the most expensive car. All you need to do is be yourself and do what you want, all you need to do is pursue your passion and dream and that's it. Forget about failing, forget about winning, just fall in love with the process and never quit. Just be simple and you will be happy, be simple and think that everything will come is just a reward. For example... just be happy if you're earning 2 thousand dollars every month, be contended with it but still be open for possibilities that you may earn bigger than that money. Still work hard and if you earn more than that then be thankful but if not... don't make it a big deal. Treat everything as a bonus, treat everything as a blessing. Don't be a dramatic person who is so needy and looking for so many things. Let your happiness be inside of you and not outside of you. Happiness is so easy to achieve if you will not complicate it.

You can be happy anytime you want, in any situation you are in. You can become happy even if you're losing or failing, just fall in love with the process, enjoy the movement, enjoy the beating, enjoy being in hell. You can become really happy, it's all in your mind. If you don't mind about winning then you're already happy, you're just happy being alive.... that's it. Being happy is the easiest thing to do, don't get too attached with something and you will become very happy.

And even if you're sad what's the big deal? you will become happy later, situations will change and you can just wait for your emotions to go and that's it. Don't be too picky when it comes to happiness. Appreciate what is there and you will achieve it so fast, happiness is not a complicated thing if you will become appreciative of what you have. The only thing that makes life difficult for you is you want to get happiness so fast, you think that by getting that then you will become truly happy but when it's already yours you will find out that it's not real happiness.