You've been kissing a lot of other people's ass nowadays and that's the main reason why you're lost and not happy. You're idolizing people that doesn't even love you back, you're giving away your time for free which is the stupidest thing that you ever done because your time is so precious, you can change your life by using your time wisely. It's just a matter of thinking right and enjoying every moment of your life, enjoy every process that you can do and try to reach your own goal, not a goal that people set for you, something that you really want from the bottom of your heart.
STOP PLEASING OTHER PEOPLE
Stop pleasing other people because you think they're the solution for your problem, stop being nice to them because you think they're they key to your own happiness. The key for your happiness is yourself and the things that you do, you can simple become happy by chasing your own goal and living your life to the fullest by trying to become better each day and spending your time with the people who really loves you. Because if you keep pleasing people then you will lose confidence in yourself, and in the end you will never become happy because if that person you are trying to please didn't show you any form of respect or kindness in return then you will only get disappointed, you will even get mad without knowing that you did that hurt to yourself. If that person hurts you it's your fault because you rely on them for you to become happy. The only person who can give you true happiness is yourself by loving yourself and enjoying something that you can do.
Other people will only disappoint you every time you trust that your success and happiness were coming from them. You should believe in yourself by loving yourself and trying to improve each day, you will find real happiness by trusting your guts and instincts.
NEVER LOOK FOR AN APPROVAL
Stop looking for an approval, if you need to do something and you think it is right then stop asking someone if you're right or wrong. Believe in yourself and don't be afraid to make mistakes. Just do it, start it and finish it, never get cautious of what you're doing, release your creativity and enjoy doing it your way. Always remember that you are free to do anything you want anyway you want it. Always being conscious of what people say will destroy your creativity. Because you don't need a permission just to do something. Feel free all the time, never think about what people think of you. You don't need to beg from them, you can do something or create something great by simply trusting yourself. Your success and happiness doesn't depend from anything so shut down the idea that you need everyone's approval because the truth is you don't. You can live your way, you can become successful your own way by working hard and believing in yourself. If you want to become fast and get success fast... don't look for approval, so what if you're wrong? you can still correct your mistakes anyway.
IDOLIZE YOURSELF
The best person to idolize and praise is yourself. Why will you idolize other people? are they going to feed you? are they going to help you where you at? you're the only one who can feed yourself, you're the only one who can help yourself and change your life. It's better to idolize yourself because by doing that you will gain more confidence, you will enjoy your life even more. It's not being narcisist or something. You only have one life why waste it for other people, you don't know that other people were benefiting with your life and you don't benefit with your own life, they are using you and you don't know it because you're too entertained with their journey that you already forgotten to take care of your own life and make it prosperous and successful. There is nothing wrong if you're confident about yourself, at least you have some confidence, it's better than no confidence at all. Love yourself and be proud of what you can do, don't be arrogant but don't hesitate to express yourself whenever you have a chance, don't be afraid to chase your own dreams and create your own path.
WHY ARE PEOPLE PLEASING OTHERS?
1.They lack the confidence in themselves, they think that they were no good and they just want to rely on the strength of others to gain something. But in the end they will learned that they didn't gain anything because they were only used as an accessory for the success of other people. They have a hidden agenda why they are pleasing people but they can't get what they really want because they don't have the power to speak, all they can do is please people and that's it.
2. They don't want to work hard and do it their way that's why they think that some people will save them and do the work for them. But in the end they will find out that the person they are pleasing doesn't even care.
3. They don't want to risk, they don't want to get embarrassed, they think that they can't do something great too. They were satisfied of being a follower or a pleaser, they can't make decisions on their own, they don't want to make a stand for something.
4. They don't want confrontations, they were submissive, they want the person they are pleasing to become nice to them too. But this will not happen, because once you please a person that doesn't like you... you're in trouble, you will become a subject of abuse, you will be used, you will lose your power and you will become a follower forever.
LOSE OR WIN YOUR WAY
If you're going to lose, lose your way. If you're going to go down... do it because it's your fault. Accept that your fate is in your hands and nobody can take you to the higher ground other than you. If you will please other people because you think they can make you happy or successful then you're in big trouble. Stop kissing their asses because they will take over, you will become powerless and you will lose control. Their victory is not your victory, if you want some power then learn to kiss your own ass and be the follower of yourself. Follow your dreams and intuition, once you have an idea... execute it. Be a doer not just a watcher. Because your knees were not made to kneel for someone, your knees were made to make a stand and walk your way. Move forward and don't just take actions because something is making you do so. Move because you want, move because you need to.
STOP PLEASING OTHER PEOPLE
Stop pleasing other people because you think they're the solution for your problem, stop being nice to them because you think they're they key to your own happiness. The key for your happiness is yourself and the things that you do, you can simple become happy by chasing your own goal and living your life to the fullest by trying to become better each day and spending your time with the people who really loves you. Because if you keep pleasing people then you will lose confidence in yourself, and in the end you will never become happy because if that person you are trying to please didn't show you any form of respect or kindness in return then you will only get disappointed, you will even get mad without knowing that you did that hurt to yourself. If that person hurts you it's your fault because you rely on them for you to become happy. The only person who can give you true happiness is yourself by loving yourself and enjoying something that you can do.
Other people will only disappoint you every time you trust that your success and happiness were coming from them. You should believe in yourself by loving yourself and trying to improve each day, you will find real happiness by trusting your guts and instincts.
NEVER LOOK FOR AN APPROVAL
Stop looking for an approval, if you need to do something and you think it is right then stop asking someone if you're right or wrong. Believe in yourself and don't be afraid to make mistakes. Just do it, start it and finish it, never get cautious of what you're doing, release your creativity and enjoy doing it your way. Always remember that you are free to do anything you want anyway you want it. Always being conscious of what people say will destroy your creativity. Because you don't need a permission just to do something. Feel free all the time, never think about what people think of you. You don't need to beg from them, you can do something or create something great by simply trusting yourself. Your success and happiness doesn't depend from anything so shut down the idea that you need everyone's approval because the truth is you don't. You can live your way, you can become successful your own way by working hard and believing in yourself. If you want to become fast and get success fast... don't look for approval, so what if you're wrong? you can still correct your mistakes anyway.
IDOLIZE YOURSELF
The best person to idolize and praise is yourself. Why will you idolize other people? are they going to feed you? are they going to help you where you at? you're the only one who can feed yourself, you're the only one who can help yourself and change your life. It's better to idolize yourself because by doing that you will gain more confidence, you will enjoy your life even more. It's not being narcisist or something. You only have one life why waste it for other people, you don't know that other people were benefiting with your life and you don't benefit with your own life, they are using you and you don't know it because you're too entertained with their journey that you already forgotten to take care of your own life and make it prosperous and successful. There is nothing wrong if you're confident about yourself, at least you have some confidence, it's better than no confidence at all. Love yourself and be proud of what you can do, don't be arrogant but don't hesitate to express yourself whenever you have a chance, don't be afraid to chase your own dreams and create your own path.
WHY ARE PEOPLE PLEASING OTHERS?
1.They lack the confidence in themselves, they think that they were no good and they just want to rely on the strength of others to gain something. But in the end they will learned that they didn't gain anything because they were only used as an accessory for the success of other people. They have a hidden agenda why they are pleasing people but they can't get what they really want because they don't have the power to speak, all they can do is please people and that's it.
2. They don't want to work hard and do it their way that's why they think that some people will save them and do the work for them. But in the end they will find out that the person they are pleasing doesn't even care.
3. They don't want to risk, they don't want to get embarrassed, they think that they can't do something great too. They were satisfied of being a follower or a pleaser, they can't make decisions on their own, they don't want to make a stand for something.
4. They don't want confrontations, they were submissive, they want the person they are pleasing to become nice to them too. But this will not happen, because once you please a person that doesn't like you... you're in trouble, you will become a subject of abuse, you will be used, you will lose your power and you will become a follower forever.
LOSE OR WIN YOUR WAY
If you're going to lose, lose your way. If you're going to go down... do it because it's your fault. Accept that your fate is in your hands and nobody can take you to the higher ground other than you. If you will please other people because you think they can make you happy or successful then you're in big trouble. Stop kissing their asses because they will take over, you will become powerless and you will lose control. Their victory is not your victory, if you want some power then learn to kiss your own ass and be the follower of yourself. Follow your dreams and intuition, once you have an idea... execute it. Be a doer not just a watcher. Because your knees were not made to kneel for someone, your knees were made to make a stand and walk your way. Move forward and don't just take actions because something is making you do so. Move because you want, move because you need to.
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