Jan 12, 2020

EVERYTHING SHOULD BE PERSONAL

Everything should be personal, what I mean is everything that you do... it should be personal, everything that you are dreaming of and everything you achieve... it all should be personal. You don't nee to compare yourself to others because you're only producing a scarcity and needy mindset every time you do that. You should have your own journey, nothing outside of you should make you feel jealous, threatened or do something outside of your character. Because good things will only happen if you will always start on the inside and not on the outside.

THE POWER IS ALWAYS INSIDE OF YOU

Most people don't know that real power is within because it's the only thing that you have control the most. For example, if you are competing let's say your're a basketball player... once you look outside of yourself and become intimidated with your opponents then you're in big trouble, you will never be able to express yourself and do your usual routine. Your movements will change, the way you dribble and shoot will look awkward, sometimes you will even not move because you will always think that you're wrong, you will never be able to show your real game. But if you will treat the game as something personal, meaning you are playing for yourself and you don't need to convince people to like you or opponents to be afraid of you then you will be able to show your true colors, your game will come out, you will be able to utilize all of your skills. Sometimes you get even intimidated by your own teammates because you're too insecure that they might steal the limelight for you or you are thinking that they were not good teammates and not complimenting your game. But if you will just enjoy yourself and focus on what you can do and stop thinking about anything else then your true power will come out, you will have a good time and you will feel so much free. Always remember that the power is always inside of you, create your own feelings and state, never let other things create it for you. You should feel powerful regardless of what is happening outside of you.

Whenever you feel weak, disrespected, being treated unfairly or not winning at all... it means you're outside of your vicinity, you're not focusing on what you can control. Go back to the inside and focus on your own power. You will only feel a loser if you're always looking at other people's lives, nobody should affect your own space. You have your own skills, ideas, resources, talents, ambitions and willpower... focus on what you have and you will never feel weak anymore.

COMPARING YOUR MONEY

Another good example is comparing your money with the money of others. This is weak, doing this will build a scarcity mindset, you will always feel the lack inside of you, you will always see what is missing in your life. Most people do this and that's why they always see themselves as poor, they always feel that someone is better than them. Being rich is just a state of mind, if you will always feel poor then you will become poor even if you're earning pretty decently. You can even feel rich even if you have less, it's only a state of mind, you should feel good with your money and get comfortable spending it, but also make sure you will not spend more than you can earn because the will be the start of your downfall. Money should have a direction, you should know where it is going and you should prioritize the main things.

Money should be personal, be happy with what you have and never get jealous with people who are earning more. Sometimes you get jealous with a person who is driving a new car, you don't even know that that person is in huge debt and he is only using his new car to cover his broke image.

You will only become rich if you will focus on your earnings, feel good about it, feel comfortable about spending and also prioritize saving more. There should be balance and confidence, there should be a state of abundance no matter how much you earn. You can have only a few hundreds of dollars but really feel good about it, once you feel good about your money and you are using it wisely... then your money will multiply easily. Focus on trying to make it more and never get jealous with other people who's making millions, once you're looking at other people's money then it will be over for you.

YOUR GOALS SHOULD BE PERSONAL

It should be secret, it should be kept safely, your goals should be sacred. Look at those people who always talk about their goals... they fail epicly. It's because they were satisfied of being arrogant, they were happy with people believing in them and the result is they feel successful that way and they don't take actions anymore. Some people will even feel the pressure once they are failing because they knew a lot of people were expecting them to reach their goals. Don't talk about your goals, keep it secret and work hard on it, you are only allowed to talk once you become successful. Focus on moving and not on talking... that's the secret to success. Never tell anybody what you are doing because they will only serve as a disturbance, they will ask you, they will criticize you, they will get jealous of your journey and that will affect you mentally if you will give them attention. 

Just work on your goal everyday, the more you focus on it... the more you become closer from it. You don't need to convince everyone that you're doing good or becoming successful, just stay humble and work hard... that's the key ingredient to success. It should be personal, because even your family and closest friends will sometimes disagree with you, you're the only one who understands your goal, you're the only one who feels it. 

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