Life is not that hard if you will learn how to play with it and just go with it. Life is fast so you need to learn how to maximize your time and enjoy it to the fullest. All you have to do is do something, do what you want, do what you need to do without judging yourself and BOOM! Its' done, just like that. So start fast and stop feeling your feelings, I know you feel bad doing it, I know it's uncomfortable but if you can trick your mind that it's fun and you're doing amazing then the task is going to be a lot easier, ever work is an easy work. So whatever task or challenge you have now... start it and it's done. Don't rush, don't fast forward time... just start it and never stop. Time will become much faster if you will enjoy what you're doing. Live your life, do what you need to do and you will get it done, just like that. You are the only one who's making it difficult on yourself. If you will just move and do it then life will become so much easier.
ALWAYS ALLOW YOURSELF TO MOVE
See yourself if you are moving or not, if you're stuck in one place then move, moving is the only thing that will make you happy. Look at those bench players in the NBA who never played for a single minute... they were getting paid a lot but they were completely unhappy because they cannot use their talents. A talent that was buried for a long time will produce misery to the owner of it. If you cannot move, if you don't have the space to operate then you will become very sad. Just like a dog being caged for several months... you would love to bite your master for freezing you and not letting you walk. It feels so bad if you can't move and express yourself right? you feel like a slave, you feel like a useless person and your confidence is going down. So always allow yourself to move and move as much as you can... that's how to live a better life, that's how to feel free and powerful. If you can do something whenever you want and wherever you want regardless of the external things then you are powerful. Whenever you fee sad or feeling low... just move, actions is all that matters and nothing else, you have to be moving forward and facing the pain. It's painful, starting something and moving on is painful but what can you do, life works that way and you have to embrace it.
PROBLEMS WERE NOT REALLY PROBLEMS
You thought of it as a problem because you don't like it. But if you will condition your mind that it's not a problem then it will not bother you. You only think that it's a problem because it's making you uncomfortable but if you will forget the emotions that it brings to you then it's not a problem anymore. If you are in huge debt but you don't care about money then that debt is not a problem, if your wife leaves you but you don't love your wife anymore then that is not a problem. If your team lost but you're not competitive or let's say you don't care about winning or losing then it's not a problem. If you have a disease but you're focused on the positive things of life then your disease will not threaten you. If you think you have a problem and there is nothing you can do about it... ignore it and focus on the better things in your life, that problem will become weak, it will no longer affect you, it will evaporate anytime soon. It's your negative perception towards a problem that makes it a bad problem, there is a mild problem, there is a small problem, you can think any problem as nothing if you will just relax and face it and do what needs to be done.
DON'T BE TOO SOFT AND ACT LIKE A DIVA
Life is hard, success is about who's willing to go hard, there is no room for soft people nowadays. If you need to do something do it, if you need to say something say it, if you need to go then go, show up and never make excuses. Life and success is all about destroying your excuses and getting the job done. When you start and you commit on finishing something... it will be done, just like that. But your problem is you're thinking too much, you want to do a lot of things, you're focused on too may things. You're too worried about missing your favorite show or missing a post of your idol or missing your life. You though by not having fun you're missing your life. But the truth is facing the pain, facing the challenges is what life is all about. Your fear grows even more if you're lazy and always delaying something, you have to do it now, go hard and force yourself... do something, move and never let yourself be stuck on the same place forever.
JUST LIKE THAT!... IT'S REALLY FAST
Life is fast, 20 years ago you're still a toddler but look at you now... you're alive and kicking and rocking like a rockstar in different bars, you're lost but you will find your way.
A few weeks or months ago you have a problem that you think will never end, but look at you now... you already recovered, you're still in pain but you're figuring out what your pain is all about, just like that.. it's done, the pain is almost over.
Time is really fast, life is fast, believe in time... it will heal everything, it will heal your pain, it will solve your problems. Sometimes all you have to do is live and that's it, all you have to do is deal with you problems, pains, tasks and challenges and that's it. There is nothing to worry about, just like walking in front of the person that you don't even want to see... just walk, just pass him, just like that... it's done.
ALWAYS ALLOW YOURSELF TO MOVE
See yourself if you are moving or not, if you're stuck in one place then move, moving is the only thing that will make you happy. Look at those bench players in the NBA who never played for a single minute... they were getting paid a lot but they were completely unhappy because they cannot use their talents. A talent that was buried for a long time will produce misery to the owner of it. If you cannot move, if you don't have the space to operate then you will become very sad. Just like a dog being caged for several months... you would love to bite your master for freezing you and not letting you walk. It feels so bad if you can't move and express yourself right? you feel like a slave, you feel like a useless person and your confidence is going down. So always allow yourself to move and move as much as you can... that's how to live a better life, that's how to feel free and powerful. If you can do something whenever you want and wherever you want regardless of the external things then you are powerful. Whenever you fee sad or feeling low... just move, actions is all that matters and nothing else, you have to be moving forward and facing the pain. It's painful, starting something and moving on is painful but what can you do, life works that way and you have to embrace it.
PROBLEMS WERE NOT REALLY PROBLEMS
You thought of it as a problem because you don't like it. But if you will condition your mind that it's not a problem then it will not bother you. You only think that it's a problem because it's making you uncomfortable but if you will forget the emotions that it brings to you then it's not a problem anymore. If you are in huge debt but you don't care about money then that debt is not a problem, if your wife leaves you but you don't love your wife anymore then that is not a problem. If your team lost but you're not competitive or let's say you don't care about winning or losing then it's not a problem. If you have a disease but you're focused on the positive things of life then your disease will not threaten you. If you think you have a problem and there is nothing you can do about it... ignore it and focus on the better things in your life, that problem will become weak, it will no longer affect you, it will evaporate anytime soon. It's your negative perception towards a problem that makes it a bad problem, there is a mild problem, there is a small problem, you can think any problem as nothing if you will just relax and face it and do what needs to be done.
DON'T BE TOO SOFT AND ACT LIKE A DIVA
Life is hard, success is about who's willing to go hard, there is no room for soft people nowadays. If you need to do something do it, if you need to say something say it, if you need to go then go, show up and never make excuses. Life and success is all about destroying your excuses and getting the job done. When you start and you commit on finishing something... it will be done, just like that. But your problem is you're thinking too much, you want to do a lot of things, you're focused on too may things. You're too worried about missing your favorite show or missing a post of your idol or missing your life. You though by not having fun you're missing your life. But the truth is facing the pain, facing the challenges is what life is all about. Your fear grows even more if you're lazy and always delaying something, you have to do it now, go hard and force yourself... do something, move and never let yourself be stuck on the same place forever.
JUST LIKE THAT!... IT'S REALLY FAST
Life is fast, 20 years ago you're still a toddler but look at you now... you're alive and kicking and rocking like a rockstar in different bars, you're lost but you will find your way.
A few weeks or months ago you have a problem that you think will never end, but look at you now... you already recovered, you're still in pain but you're figuring out what your pain is all about, just like that.. it's done, the pain is almost over.
Time is really fast, life is fast, believe in time... it will heal everything, it will heal your pain, it will solve your problems. Sometimes all you have to do is live and that's it, all you have to do is deal with you problems, pains, tasks and challenges and that's it. There is nothing to worry about, just like walking in front of the person that you don't even want to see... just walk, just pass him, just like that... it's done.
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