We are talking about people who were so arrogant, who are preachers and thinks they know what to do in any kind of situation. These are fake gurus, advisers, wannabes, they think they are perfect but in reality they are not even doing what they are preaching, they were fake mambas, they were fake leaders. If you will give advises to other people make sure you're going to do it too because you're just fooling yourself and the people you are giving advises to. Make sure you are for real, make sure you're reliable and you already experienced the same problem as they have right now. The funny thing is a lot of people can make comments about the problems that they haven't encountered yet. If haven't experienced something yet stop giving suggestions even if the problem looks easy. You never know how it feels to be on that situation so who are you to talk like you know everything?
TELLING PEOPLE TO WORK HARD AND MAKE SACRIFICES
Are you really working hard? are you really doing what you say you're going to do? you can fool the public and act like great but you can never fool yourself, you know if you're just clowning around and simply trying to sell some crap for your own advantage. Stop taking advantage of people and manipulating them, you know if you're for real or not. Talk is cheap, talking is for the losers. Even if you're good in talking you will still lose in the end if you're poor in executing. So shut up now and if you really want to give some good advise then you need to make yourself better first, make sure you already experienced the same situation as the people that you're giving an advise, make sure you have the right records and wisdom to give them the right information.
So if you're telling them to work hard then you need to prove that you're a hard working person too, take massive actions and prove them that you're all about working with the process. Stop giving advises about hard work if you're too slow and lazy, stop acting like you really work hard if all you do is kill your time and watch TV. If you can't make sacrifices on your own, if you can't practice delayed gratification then you don't have the right to make advises about hard work.
ONLY GIVE ADVISES IF THEY ASK FOR IT
If you seen someone who need your advise... don't give it unless they ask for it. People know if they need information from other people, you don't need to feed them your knowledge if they are not read for it because they will not accept it and they will only get annoyed at you. Open your mouth only if you need to, and even if you really know something... it's much better if you will wait for them to come to you instead of forcing them to believe you. Because sometimes you are talking too much and not respecting their space, you're giving inputs even if they're not yet ready for it. You're looking like arrogant and a person who feels he knows everything, shut your mouth first and wait for them to come to you. If they come then good, if they not then just shut your mouth. Because if you're really good, if you really know how to react with a specific problem then you don't need to shout to the world the right action to be take, you will just stay humble and will just speak when the right time comes.
Always stay humble, just because you know something doesn't mean they need it. If they don't need your advise then don't give it, just keep it and just use it in the future. Maybe some other people maybe needing it in the future so keep it and just be ready if someone ask for your advise.
PROVE TO THEM THAT YOU'RE THE REAL DEAL
You can't be giving advises to someone who has a love problem if you're still a virgin and hasn't been a relationship yet. You can't be giving an advise to a struggling athlete if you're being benched in your whole career, you can't be giving an advise to a president if you're just a garbage collector. Know your place, just because you know something doesn't mean your knowledge is right. If you really wan to become an adviser then make yourself better first, achieve greatness first, make sure you have the proper resume and history to give advise to someone.
That's why it's hard to believe in a coach who has been a failure in his career, that coach is a fraud, that coach cannot be trusted. Only trust someone who's really good and has the experience that you didn't experience in your life yet. Trust someone who has the right knowledge and wisdom to give you ideas.
So make your resume strong so you can give advise to other people, make yourself better, be someone who is trustworthy and reliable. Stop being fake, be a doer and not just a talker. Because everyone can talk, even a beggar can pretend to be something and give people advise. Anyone can pretend to be something great but people will discover your fake show in the end.
NEVER BELIEVE AN ADVISE THAT YOU DIDN'T FEEL
If you don't feel it don't follow it, trust me your instincts were much better than other people's advise. What you feel and what you want to believe is the best basis to follow. Even if an advise comes from your beloved idol... if it doesn't feel right then never follow it. You know if something is good or not, you will feel it in your heart. It's better to make a wrong decision but you follow your heart because at the end of the day... their advises might be wrong too and it will hurt more if you follow wrong advises instead of following your heart. Own your mind, it's your life, never be influence by an information that weakens you, if you feel that it is wrong then don't hesitate to reject that advise. Your heart knows what is best for you, your instincts knows the right path.
TELLING PEOPLE TO WORK HARD AND MAKE SACRIFICES
Are you really working hard? are you really doing what you say you're going to do? you can fool the public and act like great but you can never fool yourself, you know if you're just clowning around and simply trying to sell some crap for your own advantage. Stop taking advantage of people and manipulating them, you know if you're for real or not. Talk is cheap, talking is for the losers. Even if you're good in talking you will still lose in the end if you're poor in executing. So shut up now and if you really want to give some good advise then you need to make yourself better first, make sure you already experienced the same situation as the people that you're giving an advise, make sure you have the right records and wisdom to give them the right information.
So if you're telling them to work hard then you need to prove that you're a hard working person too, take massive actions and prove them that you're all about working with the process. Stop giving advises about hard work if you're too slow and lazy, stop acting like you really work hard if all you do is kill your time and watch TV. If you can't make sacrifices on your own, if you can't practice delayed gratification then you don't have the right to make advises about hard work.
ONLY GIVE ADVISES IF THEY ASK FOR IT
If you seen someone who need your advise... don't give it unless they ask for it. People know if they need information from other people, you don't need to feed them your knowledge if they are not read for it because they will not accept it and they will only get annoyed at you. Open your mouth only if you need to, and even if you really know something... it's much better if you will wait for them to come to you instead of forcing them to believe you. Because sometimes you are talking too much and not respecting their space, you're giving inputs even if they're not yet ready for it. You're looking like arrogant and a person who feels he knows everything, shut your mouth first and wait for them to come to you. If they come then good, if they not then just shut your mouth. Because if you're really good, if you really know how to react with a specific problem then you don't need to shout to the world the right action to be take, you will just stay humble and will just speak when the right time comes.
Always stay humble, just because you know something doesn't mean they need it. If they don't need your advise then don't give it, just keep it and just use it in the future. Maybe some other people maybe needing it in the future so keep it and just be ready if someone ask for your advise.
PROVE TO THEM THAT YOU'RE THE REAL DEAL
You can't be giving advises to someone who has a love problem if you're still a virgin and hasn't been a relationship yet. You can't be giving an advise to a struggling athlete if you're being benched in your whole career, you can't be giving an advise to a president if you're just a garbage collector. Know your place, just because you know something doesn't mean your knowledge is right. If you really wan to become an adviser then make yourself better first, achieve greatness first, make sure you have the proper resume and history to give advise to someone.
That's why it's hard to believe in a coach who has been a failure in his career, that coach is a fraud, that coach cannot be trusted. Only trust someone who's really good and has the experience that you didn't experience in your life yet. Trust someone who has the right knowledge and wisdom to give you ideas.
So make your resume strong so you can give advise to other people, make yourself better, be someone who is trustworthy and reliable. Stop being fake, be a doer and not just a talker. Because everyone can talk, even a beggar can pretend to be something and give people advise. Anyone can pretend to be something great but people will discover your fake show in the end.
NEVER BELIEVE AN ADVISE THAT YOU DIDN'T FEEL
If you don't feel it don't follow it, trust me your instincts were much better than other people's advise. What you feel and what you want to believe is the best basis to follow. Even if an advise comes from your beloved idol... if it doesn't feel right then never follow it. You know if something is good or not, you will feel it in your heart. It's better to make a wrong decision but you follow your heart because at the end of the day... their advises might be wrong too and it will hurt more if you follow wrong advises instead of following your heart. Own your mind, it's your life, never be influence by an information that weakens you, if you feel that it is wrong then don't hesitate to reject that advise. Your heart knows what is best for you, your instincts knows the right path.
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