Confidence is what you need to become successful, if you pair hard work with confidence then you will become super unstoppable, you will be able to conquer the impossible and you can reach the highest mountain. Because at the end of the day... it doesn't matter if you're confident or not, what matters is you try and you didn't take anything for granted. Because if your'e confident you can ignore anything, you can block the ideas and information that is not helping you at all. You will simply think that you're going to win no matter what, you will become single minded, all you think is how to become victorious, nothing negativity is playing inside of your head, you just have this gut feeling that you deserve it and you're going to have what you want. Being confident is only in the mind, if you can feed your mind the right thoughts then you will become confident, rehearse everyday what it feels like to become confident, see yourself thriving in difficult situation, imagine that you already have that confident and act like it.
HERE ARE THE 3 BEST MENTAL TRICKS TO BOOST YOUR CONFIDENCE:
1. ALWAYS THINK THAT YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE.
If you can just let go of all the pressure and stop thinking that you have something to lose then you will feel free, you will become more expressive, you will never think that there is a criticism waiting for you, you will never care about the eyes of the people waiting for you to fail, you will never become insecure anymore, you will have fun doing the process and you will become a risk taker. Keep trying, keep doing what you need to do and forget what the outcome may be. You have nothing to lose here, you have the power to express yourself and take actions they way you want to do it. It's your life, you are always free to do anything. Allow yourself to move and become confident all the time, the more you take actions the more you will become confident. So be happy if you are moving because it means your confidence keeps soaring high, it keeps on going to a different level.
People were afraid of someone who has nothing to lose, it's because he is so free, he is unpredictable and he can do anything. So if you have a nothing to lose mindset then you will be able to move faster, decide better and you will never waste your time thinking and procrastinating, you will just do it, you will never care about the outcome, you will detach from any idea that is not helping you at all.
2. FORGET ABOUT YOURSELF. You care too much about yourself and that is why you can't move anymore, you care too much about your identity, you are not willing to destroy what you have in the present moment in order to create something bigger. Forget yourself, always think that you are nothing, let go of your ego so that you won't be afraid to get rejected, humiliated or laugh at. Once you forget yourself and forget your feelings then confidence will start to kick in, you will feel invincible, you will feel unstoppable and you will always be yourself. You don't have to try hard anymore if you forget yourself, you don't need to pretend anymore. Never care if you will look bad, you just have to do what you need to to. In order to become confident you must forget how you look and feel, you will feel good later once you're on the process of becoming successful.
Sometimes the only thin that stopping you is yourself, you think too much about yourself, you are pampering yourself and that is why you don't take risks, you don't look for an opportunity to become successful and get what you want, you're so scared to feel something negative.
Never feel bad if you got rejected, never feel sad if you lose or you get embarrassed, forget about your emotions, forget yourself... this is the key to destroy all the resistance that is stopping you from taking actions, this is they key to feel loose and experience real freedom.
3. THE MINDSET OF NOT LETTING ANY OPPORTUNITY SLIP AWAY. If you want to become really confident then never let any opportunity slip away, you have to devour every opportunity even if there is no guarantee that you're going to win. Do it, get it, give yourself a chance to win. Devour any chances that you have because it might not come again, be mindful of the blessings, always be present and active... never let any opportunity slip from your hands. Because the more you take chances, the more you experience you have and the more experience you have... the more wiser you will be, your confidence will go to another level.
So if you want to date a girl ask her, if you see a good job opening apply for it, if you have an idea for earning more... execute it. Never let any idea die, never let fear take over, embrace your fear, welcome the idea that you might fail if you try and once you fail... look for another opportunity, it's all about the numbers, it's all about trying over and over again until you become successful. Remember that the more you try... the better you become, you will master yourself, you will gain a lot of confidence. Speed is the name of the game, fast mind and fast body creates confidence. Forget about making mistakes and just execute, take risks, never mind if you are scared and just do it. That fear will turn into courage, just move and do what you want to do, allow yourself to shine, you will feel much much better if you're taking actions. Giving yourself a chance should be your number one priority.
REMEMBER THAT IT'S ALL IN YOUR MIND
It's not about your past, it's not about how you look or what your skills are, it's not about how big your money is... it's about the content of your mind. Always take care of your mind and filter all the negative thoughts inside of it. Just believe in yourself even if it's hard to, believe in yourself even if you can't see a reason why you need to. practice taking risks all the time, practice humiliating yourself all the time... this kind of mindset will make you experience a lot of negative feelings, and sooner or later you will never feel it anymore because you already felt it a lot of times, this results to confidence taking over your system, you will realize that i's not really a big deal if people were laughing at you or doesn't believe in you, the big deal here is you giving yourself a freedom to take over of your life and overtake all of your fears that are stopping you to express your true self.
HERE ARE THE 3 BEST MENTAL TRICKS TO BOOST YOUR CONFIDENCE:
1. ALWAYS THINK THAT YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE.
If you can just let go of all the pressure and stop thinking that you have something to lose then you will feel free, you will become more expressive, you will never think that there is a criticism waiting for you, you will never care about the eyes of the people waiting for you to fail, you will never become insecure anymore, you will have fun doing the process and you will become a risk taker. Keep trying, keep doing what you need to do and forget what the outcome may be. You have nothing to lose here, you have the power to express yourself and take actions they way you want to do it. It's your life, you are always free to do anything. Allow yourself to move and become confident all the time, the more you take actions the more you will become confident. So be happy if you are moving because it means your confidence keeps soaring high, it keeps on going to a different level.
People were afraid of someone who has nothing to lose, it's because he is so free, he is unpredictable and he can do anything. So if you have a nothing to lose mindset then you will be able to move faster, decide better and you will never waste your time thinking and procrastinating, you will just do it, you will never care about the outcome, you will detach from any idea that is not helping you at all.
2. FORGET ABOUT YOURSELF. You care too much about yourself and that is why you can't move anymore, you care too much about your identity, you are not willing to destroy what you have in the present moment in order to create something bigger. Forget yourself, always think that you are nothing, let go of your ego so that you won't be afraid to get rejected, humiliated or laugh at. Once you forget yourself and forget your feelings then confidence will start to kick in, you will feel invincible, you will feel unstoppable and you will always be yourself. You don't have to try hard anymore if you forget yourself, you don't need to pretend anymore. Never care if you will look bad, you just have to do what you need to to. In order to become confident you must forget how you look and feel, you will feel good later once you're on the process of becoming successful.
Sometimes the only thin that stopping you is yourself, you think too much about yourself, you are pampering yourself and that is why you don't take risks, you don't look for an opportunity to become successful and get what you want, you're so scared to feel something negative.
Never feel bad if you got rejected, never feel sad if you lose or you get embarrassed, forget about your emotions, forget yourself... this is the key to destroy all the resistance that is stopping you from taking actions, this is they key to feel loose and experience real freedom.
3. THE MINDSET OF NOT LETTING ANY OPPORTUNITY SLIP AWAY. If you want to become really confident then never let any opportunity slip away, you have to devour every opportunity even if there is no guarantee that you're going to win. Do it, get it, give yourself a chance to win. Devour any chances that you have because it might not come again, be mindful of the blessings, always be present and active... never let any opportunity slip from your hands. Because the more you take chances, the more you experience you have and the more experience you have... the more wiser you will be, your confidence will go to another level.
So if you want to date a girl ask her, if you see a good job opening apply for it, if you have an idea for earning more... execute it. Never let any idea die, never let fear take over, embrace your fear, welcome the idea that you might fail if you try and once you fail... look for another opportunity, it's all about the numbers, it's all about trying over and over again until you become successful. Remember that the more you try... the better you become, you will master yourself, you will gain a lot of confidence. Speed is the name of the game, fast mind and fast body creates confidence. Forget about making mistakes and just execute, take risks, never mind if you are scared and just do it. That fear will turn into courage, just move and do what you want to do, allow yourself to shine, you will feel much much better if you're taking actions. Giving yourself a chance should be your number one priority.
REMEMBER THAT IT'S ALL IN YOUR MIND
It's not about your past, it's not about how you look or what your skills are, it's not about how big your money is... it's about the content of your mind. Always take care of your mind and filter all the negative thoughts inside of it. Just believe in yourself even if it's hard to, believe in yourself even if you can't see a reason why you need to. practice taking risks all the time, practice humiliating yourself all the time... this kind of mindset will make you experience a lot of negative feelings, and sooner or later you will never feel it anymore because you already felt it a lot of times, this results to confidence taking over your system, you will realize that i's not really a big deal if people were laughing at you or doesn't believe in you, the big deal here is you giving yourself a freedom to take over of your life and overtake all of your fears that are stopping you to express your true self.
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