Jan 9, 2020

FAIL 100 TIMES OR EVEN MORE, WHAT'S THE BIG DEAL?

It's ok to fail again and again, there is nothing wrong with that, it's ok, it's too normal. Don't be afraid of what people say, all the failing does is make you powerful, it's making you mentally tough. Look at those people who never failed and never got spanked by their parents... they were depressed, they don't know what to do with their lives, it's because they haven't felt the pain necessary to make them though. All they experienced is getting pampered, appreciated, they were winning easily and look where they are now... they were stunned once the real life touches them. Because that's what will happen if you haven't faced any type of pain yet... you will freak out, you will lose your mind. You have to experience the difficulties of life so that you will be hardened. Failing will only make you grow, there is nothing bad about it, yet why people doesn't want to fail? it's because they can't see the bigger picture behind it, they cannot see the benefits of failing.

ONCE YOU FAIL YOU WILL BECOME TOUGHER

Don't be afraid to fail because all it does is make you a better person. The most successful person in this world also has the most number of failures. If you're not willing to fail then you're not going to evolve. Failing will teach you important lessons, it will harden you, it will increase the level of your mental toughness, you have nothing to lose when you fail so fall in love with it and make it a process to turn you into something special. If you fail a lot of times then you will no longer be afraid of it, it will never make you feel bad anymore, your mind will become faster and stronger... you will try again once you fail, the level of your hunger will go to a different level, you will become unstoppable. So fail now and fail again later, just make sure your intention never change, just make sure you're still going for the kill... fail a lot of times and you will become invincible, you will learn a lot... your emotional intelligence will become one of a kind.

WHAT IS REALLY THE BIG DEAL ABOUT FAILING?

Forget your name, forget that you're special and you will no longer be afraid of failing. What is the big deal about it? you didn't become lesser of a person every time you fail. Actually your become much better because you face the pain and you didn't shy away from pressure. Failing is nothing, it is not even real, if you keep on trying then you're not a failure... you're a tryer. People were so afraid not because they didn't win, it's because other people will judge them, they were more concern of the opinions of others than taking care of their own growth. The truth is... you will never evolve if you don't fail, make sure you are failing everyday so that you will learn a lot of lessons and your mind goes tougher.

Even the smartest person fail, even the most successful person was rejected a lot of times. Don't be afraid to get denied or embarrassed, don't be afraid to embarrass yourself... it will only make your skin thicker, you will become a better person even more.

TAKE MATTERS INTO YOUR OWN HANDS

Don't fail because of the effort of others, fail because of your effort, be the one who's responsible for your own failure. Never let other people decide what is winning or losing for you, you have to take charge of your own future and be the captain of your own ship. Never let other people do the job for you, you have to be responsible of your own life and destiny. Because you can decide too, you can take actions too, never let them decide what is going to be the outcome of your life. So use your power, use everything you've got to take matters into your own hands. Just do it on your own, do it our way. Because you will only have regrets if you let other people decide your fate. You will only become happy if you take full control of your life and let yourself decide, whether you win or lose doesn't matter, what matters is you decide and you win or lose your way.

GOOD THINGS HAPPEN WHEN YOU FAIL

Good things will only happen to you once you fail, it's because there is a new experience waiting for you. If you lose in a game that's a good thing because you will try harder next time, you will work harder and make yourself stronger and better, you will become more hungry... it's a good thing right. If you lose your house because you failed to pay the mortgage... it's a good thing right, you will move to a different place, you will meet new people, you will learn how to adapt again, and maybe you learned your lessons this time... it's a good thing right. So don't be afraid to fail, take risks, give yourself a chance to become happy by pushing yourself to the limits and going further all the time. So if you want a new experience... keep failing, if you want good things to happen to you... stretch yourself even more and expose yourself to failure.

YOU'RE A NEW PERSON NOW

After failing you immediately made you person into a different beast. You endured the pain, the face the embarrassment, you face your fears... your mental toughness is on a different level right now, you're much braver and matured, you already knew what to do next time. Keep this in mind that you must be happy after failing because you're a new person after it, you learn some lessons, you learn some tricks, you're already accustomed to pressure and you will no longer crumble during difficult times. You begin to understand that failing will never kill you, it can only make you wiser if you accept that it's not  big deal. 

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