Let's accept the truth... you can never succeed without tasting the bitterness of a defeat first. You will fail no matter what, even if you're the smartest or strongest man in the world... you will still fail, you will fail a lot of times that is why you need to try a lot of times. Failure is a prerequisite for success, you will never succeed if you will never fail. You have to accept that failing is inevitable and there is no way you can refuse to experience it. You have to deal with a lot of failures, you have to endure the bitterness of trying over and over again until you succeed, it is what it is, you are dreaming big right? so stop being delusional that there is a shortcut to success and just do what is needed now. Failing is nothing, it's just another experience, you have to experience it now because the more you refuse to fail... the bigger your regrets will be. It's true that you have to fail over and over in order to succeed, so if you just failed once or twice and you don't want to repeat anymore then you will never get anywhere. Feel nothing after failing, your motivation must increase stronger. Your hunger must become worse when you fail, you must take actions right away and never stop until you finally succeed.
WHY ARE PEOPLE SO AFRAID OF FAILING?
Because they think that failing is bad, they never think that there is a lesson behind failing. They were so afraid of being labeled as a failure, they prioritize the expectations of others even more rather than enjoying the journey and trying to grow from it. They were so afraid of what people say and that is why they don't give themselves a chance to at least even try. People were so afraid to fail because they don't want to try again, they were so afraid to feel bad, they were so afraid of being sad after failing and that is why they will not even try. But if you're not afraid of any kind of emotion then you will try, you will give your very best to succeed.
GET ADDICTED TO TRYING AND SUCCESS WILL GIVE UP
Once you get addicted to trying and you are showing the world that you have no plan of giving up... success will give up on you, it will submit itself on you, success will give way and it will stop resisting, the goal that you are trying to get so hard will fall into your hands. Try a million times if you have to, fail until you don't know what failing is, work hard until you feel that hard work was already easy. Break your heart, get frustrated, embarrass yourself, fail big time until you're no longer afraid of feeling those emotions again. The only thing that is stopping you is yourself, you already felt that you're not going to win so you are thinking that you're just wasting your precious time. The truth is you are wasting your time even more if you're just thinking and not even forcing yourself to take actions. Hard work will always prevail in the end. The idea of working smart and not working hard is not true, you have to work hard first before you learn how to work smart, you have to fail numerous times first before you learn how to succeed.
IF YOU'RE NO LONGER AFRAID OF FAILING THEN YOU ARE FREE
You will be free to do anything you want, you will become loose and creative, you will give yourself the authority to try what you haven't done before, you will never be scared of what people say anymore and you will jut laugh at their comments and criticisms. You will do it your way, you will no longer be afraid of getting tired, you will push yourself to the limits. Because the only thing that is jailing you is your fear about failure. Why fear it? it is nothing, people will not even remember you if you failed, nobody remembers a failure so stop being scared of it, detach from the idea that you are a lesser of a man or a woman if you failed. Because at the end of the day... you will only feel regretful if you didn't try, you will still feel like a winner if you give your all even if you fail. So give your very best now, go all in and never overthink, just take actions no matter what.
YOU REALLY HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE HERE
You will never lose anything after failing because you really don't have anything from the start, you were born with no money, no success, no name, no nothing, why are you so afraid to lose or fail? your life is a blank canvass in the beginning so never be afraid to try because you have everything to gain. So take away the pressure you are putting into yourself by realizing that you have nothing to lose, and that is the reality, nothing is permanent here, you must enjoy the process of trying while you are still alive. Enjoy life, enjoy failing and standing up again. The beauty of life is not about winning everyday, it is about standing up whenever you fail, you have unlimited tries, don't waste your time whining and making excuses why you can't win, you have to take matters into your own hands now and try to change your life by giving your very best.
YOU'RE NOT CONSIDERED AS A FAILURE IF...
If your'e still trying, if your'e still giving your best then you're not considered as a failure. You will only fail if you quit, it won't be over until it is over. So while your'e still alive... keep failing, keep trying, one day is going to be your day. So if you don't want to be labeled as a failure... keep trying while you still have a chance, everyday is an opportunity to try, you can give your very best every single day, it all depends on your willingness to push forward and do whatever it takes to succeed.
WHY ARE PEOPLE SO AFRAID OF FAILING?
Because they think that failing is bad, they never think that there is a lesson behind failing. They were so afraid of being labeled as a failure, they prioritize the expectations of others even more rather than enjoying the journey and trying to grow from it. They were so afraid of what people say and that is why they don't give themselves a chance to at least even try. People were so afraid to fail because they don't want to try again, they were so afraid to feel bad, they were so afraid of being sad after failing and that is why they will not even try. But if you're not afraid of any kind of emotion then you will try, you will give your very best to succeed.
GET ADDICTED TO TRYING AND SUCCESS WILL GIVE UP
Once you get addicted to trying and you are showing the world that you have no plan of giving up... success will give up on you, it will submit itself on you, success will give way and it will stop resisting, the goal that you are trying to get so hard will fall into your hands. Try a million times if you have to, fail until you don't know what failing is, work hard until you feel that hard work was already easy. Break your heart, get frustrated, embarrass yourself, fail big time until you're no longer afraid of feeling those emotions again. The only thing that is stopping you is yourself, you already felt that you're not going to win so you are thinking that you're just wasting your precious time. The truth is you are wasting your time even more if you're just thinking and not even forcing yourself to take actions. Hard work will always prevail in the end. The idea of working smart and not working hard is not true, you have to work hard first before you learn how to work smart, you have to fail numerous times first before you learn how to succeed.
IF YOU'RE NO LONGER AFRAID OF FAILING THEN YOU ARE FREE
You will be free to do anything you want, you will become loose and creative, you will give yourself the authority to try what you haven't done before, you will never be scared of what people say anymore and you will jut laugh at their comments and criticisms. You will do it your way, you will no longer be afraid of getting tired, you will push yourself to the limits. Because the only thing that is jailing you is your fear about failure. Why fear it? it is nothing, people will not even remember you if you failed, nobody remembers a failure so stop being scared of it, detach from the idea that you are a lesser of a man or a woman if you failed. Because at the end of the day... you will only feel regretful if you didn't try, you will still feel like a winner if you give your all even if you fail. So give your very best now, go all in and never overthink, just take actions no matter what.
YOU REALLY HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE HERE
You will never lose anything after failing because you really don't have anything from the start, you were born with no money, no success, no name, no nothing, why are you so afraid to lose or fail? your life is a blank canvass in the beginning so never be afraid to try because you have everything to gain. So take away the pressure you are putting into yourself by realizing that you have nothing to lose, and that is the reality, nothing is permanent here, you must enjoy the process of trying while you are still alive. Enjoy life, enjoy failing and standing up again. The beauty of life is not about winning everyday, it is about standing up whenever you fail, you have unlimited tries, don't waste your time whining and making excuses why you can't win, you have to take matters into your own hands now and try to change your life by giving your very best.
YOU'RE NOT CONSIDERED AS A FAILURE IF...
If your'e still trying, if your'e still giving your best then you're not considered as a failure. You will only fail if you quit, it won't be over until it is over. So while your'e still alive... keep failing, keep trying, one day is going to be your day. So if you don't want to be labeled as a failure... keep trying while you still have a chance, everyday is an opportunity to try, you can give your very best every single day, it all depends on your willingness to push forward and do whatever it takes to succeed.
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