Jan 9, 2019

YOU ARE NOT FOLLOWING THE PLAN IF YOU ACT ON FRUSTRATION


If you will always decide based on your emotions then you are not following the plan or maybe you don't have a plan at all. If you don't have a plan then it will become harder for you to become successful, you will get lost somewhere in the middle of your journey, you will do something else, you will pick an easier route that you think is right but in the end you will learn that you made a wrong decision.

If you act on frustration then it means you didn't follow the plan, it means your emotions got the best of you and you made a decision based on anger or lack of faith. Just like in the stock market, if your stocks are going down you will sell it because you become frustrated of the continuous falling down of the price of your stocks, you will never think twice anymore, you became mad that's why you sell it. You don't want to wait for tomorrow anymore before you sell it. And when tomorrow comes, you will be surprised that the price of your stocks goes up again.

You're already wrong if you act while getting frustrated, your mind is not right, your emotions were too high. Remember the saying that don't get too high, don't get too low. You are making a wrong decision if your emotions were too high.

WHY ARE PEOPLE GETTING FRUSTRATED?

1. Because of high expectations. They have high hopes, they were hopeful before the unexpected event happened, they were too positive and when they found out that things didn't turned out as they expected... they became angry and wild, they begin to blame something or someone. Dream big but don't expect too much, if it is yours it is yours. If it is not it is not even if you work really hard, if it is not for you then it will not be given to you.

2. They wanted to become successful fast. They were rushing things, they are giving a timeline for their goals. Sometimes giving a deadline for your goal is bad because you will become really frustrated once the deadline is coming and you can't see the silver lining yet. If you don't want to become frustrated a lot then practice patience, learn to accept that there is a timing for everything. You can set a deadline for your goals but don't ever think that once you did it then you will already get it. Life is full of surprised, unexpected events may happen that will stop you from getting your goals before the deadline that you set.

3. Because they don't want to work. They become frustrated of themselves because they want to get something but they are not willing to work hard for it. There is no such thing as something for nothing, if you really want it then work for it, don't let somebody get it for you and then you will get mad if your request was not granted. If you don't want to get frustrated all the time then stop checking for results every now and then and just enjoy the process.

4. They think they were entitled of something. They think they are suppose to win, they think they are special. And when things didn't turn out their way... they became mad, they were looking for someone to blame. If you don't want to get frustrated then stop thinking that you are special because you are not.

ALWAYS FOLLOW THE PLAN NO MATTER WHAT. Following the plan will make you avoid losing fast, it will make you stay in the game for a very long time. You will have a plan B once the plan A didn't work. Having a plan and strictly following it will make you a winner, you will have a direction. And even if things didn't turn out well.. you will still feel confident because you have a blueprint to follow, you will never rattle nor get pressured because you know what to do.

NEVER LET UNEXPECTED THINGS RUIN THE PLAN. Being unfamiliar of the situation will make you wanted to unfollow the plan, that is the dumbest thing that you can ever do. Never destroy the plan... follow it even if there is no reason to follow it. A plan is a plan, it should be followed no matter what so you won't ask your question what ifs if you didn't succeed. You will ask yourself: "What if I follow the plan?", "What if I didn't change my mind?"

So if you will do something, if you are entering a war, if you are pursuing a goal.. make sure to have a plan and follow it even if the going gets tough. Sometimes your plan is just being tested, your character is being tested if you will make a stand for your plan or not.

"A boxer who follows the game plan very well usually wins the fight"

It doesn't matter if your opponent is big, it doesn't matter if your situation is not right, if you will follow the plan then you will win. Your plan is your protection, it is your weapon against problems or challenges. 

MAKE THE PLAN SIMPLE AND BOLD. You don't need to have a well ironed or detailed plan, once you make a plan on something... execute right away. Speed is the name of the game, you need to become smart to become successful. If you can just execute the plan right away then you will become successful. Make the plan simple and bold and then follow it, sometimes a complicated plan ruins everything because you will get confused. A simple plan will always work because it is very easy to follow it.

TRY AGAIN IF YOUR PLAN FAILED. Sometimes the plan will not work on the first try, sometimes you need to try again and again until it works. You need a lot of patience here, don't every feel frustrated if your plan fails, try it again and never quit until you become successful.

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