Jan 9, 2019

5 WAYS ON HOW TO IMITATE WITHOUT PEOPLE NOTICING IT


Sometimes you have to imitate people so you an duplicate their success, you have to do it because you want a blue print to success, it's ok doing that, if it is not against your feelings then why not do it? All people have idols, some successful people imitates too in the past. One good example is Kobe Bryant... he imitate his idol Michael Jordan. He copied the moves, work ethic, style, defense etc. That's why Kobe became successful too. No matter how much he denies it... he follow the footprint of Michael Jordan, but the good thing is he also add some elements of his personality into his game, he mix it up, he didn't just copy MJ's game, he also follow his own true style. He mix his own style with MJ's style and the result is massive success. Just like what Bruce Lee said... copy someone style and add your style into it. It's like picking a powerful thing and making it even more powerful, it's like combining powers and ideas that will make it unbeatable.

Everybody needs an inspiration, even the greatest artists imitates, even the most successful person has an idol and he also copy some movements and actions of his idol, it's not so bad to do that. If it is the only thing that will make you successful then why not do it?

Here are some ways to imitate someone without people noticing it. 

1. Deny it. Deny it but don't look obvious that you are guilty of copying someone's style. Just be quiet, don't be too defensive. Never admit that you copied someone's style. Some people will believe you and some people won't but so what? remember that your goal is to not get notice, so what if they are talking behind you? so what if you don't look original? big companies are copying the other big company who is making it in the market. This is a game of what works and what doesn't. It's ok to copy something, for as long as it is working.... keep doing it.

Deny it an walk away, don't make the conversation long, don't defend yourself too much, stop giving facts that you didn't copy it because you will look guilty even more. Play it cool, relax every time they ask you about that topic and simply let the conversation end without talking too much.

2. Tweak some movements, words etc. Don't copy the whole style, don't copy all the details. Once you see what is working and what you like... it's time to also incorporate some of your style into the style that you copied. If you see some weakness in his style improve it, always remember that you can also do your own, just trust yourself that your style is working too. Not all the time you need to copy someone, sometimes you don't know that your style is more effective and beautiful, you just need to believe in yourself more, be confident... everyone can become special, you too can become special.

You will look original if you tweak something that you copied. Adjust it, modify it, amend it, put something to it that will make it a newly invented product, make it look original as possible.

3. Never reveal your inspiration. Never reveal your inspiration because once you did it people will have allegations that you get your technique or style from someone. Just pretend that you are your own idol and you are not looking at other people's work. Tell them that you are focused on yourself and you don't mind other people's success. Most people were suspicious, if you reveal your inspiration then they will stitch stories about you, the worse thing is the story is manipulated and most of the details were wrong.

4. Always stay quiet. Avoid talking about your success, avoid talking about your work. If it is not the subject of the conversation then simply shut your mouth and stay humble. Let them open about your success first, never talk about it because that is more safer than being loud and arrogant.

Just stay quiet, you don't need to be too loud here. If you're the loudest man in the room then you will be the target. A humble man is always more successful than a loud man. Being arrogant is useless, only fools do that. If they like you they like you, if you are good you are good, you don't need to talk about your 
                                    success and give all the exact details on how did you do it.

5. Do something that is totally yours. If you're already successful then it's time to do something that was made by your own style. Don't be afraid to try something new, avoid looking at other people's work and do something by just following your heart and gut feeling. It is fun, you will struggle but you will feel good because you knew in your heart that it is 100 percent yours, you own it, you invented it, you will feel more proud of it.

Because not all the time you need to imitate, time will come and you will feel that you need to do it on your own. Don't be afraid to try something new, don't be afraid to fail because you follow your own intuition. Always remember that you will only fail if you didn't try. For as long as you keep trying... you're never a failure.

The moral lesson is whatever works do it. If you need to imitate then do it, if you feel that you can do it on your own then do it. Don't be afraid of what people say, don't be afraid of what people might say. Keep in mind that your goal is to become successful so do whatever it takes to get that success. You can get it by copying or you can get it by being original, if it is working and making you feel good then it is right. At the end of the day, whether you copy or not.. you will find out what makes you feel happy.

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