7 BEST REASONS WHY ARE PEOPLE SO AFRAID OF MAKING A DECISION?

MOTIVATION - 7 BEST REASONS WHY ARE PEOPLE SO AFRAID OF MAKING A DECISION?

Make a small decision now! life is all about making decisions and following through. Are you going to run now? if yes then do it, are you going to look for a job? are you going to take a bath? are you going to brush your teeth? are you going to do something for your dream? if yes then do it right away, make small decisions and pair it with actions so that you will feel better and have a momentum. Lead your own life, be an example to yourself. Don't just talk, walk the talk. People were so addicted to procrastination that's why they can't have a good life. Stop being soft because that will lead to being unproductive. Just do what you told them you are going to do, stop being a chicken.

Life is very basic, it is very easy, what are you doing will be your life. If you drink now, I mean drink heavily now... that is your life, you will have a hangover tomorrow, you will feel bad, you will feel sick, your headache badly hurts... it's because what is happening to you is related to drinking. If you are lazy now, success will become lazy to come to your life too... as simple as that. What you are doing now will be connected to what will happen later. It's either a good connection or a bad connection, so always be aware of what you're doing and thinking because it will attract something. If you do good things, good things will also be attracted to you.

Make a small decision now and make sure that decision will lead to a better connection in the future. Make sure that decision and action will never lead to bad situation. You are the one who is building your life and nobody else. It's either you do it or you don't do it, it's either you do good or do bad. The choice is yours and will always be yours. Life is very basic, it is very easy if you will think smart and work hard. The play is very simple... just don't be stupid and always avoid instant gratification.

And once you make a decision... never regret it, never feel bad if you feel that it is wrong, not all decisions were perfect, if it is a positive decision and the intention is good then it's alright, you don't have to worry about anything else.

Life is all about movement, deciding right away and living with it is the best thing to do, it will give you a momentum to put yourself on a better position. That's how success was built... putting yourself on a better position every now and then. If you're doing something good and productive then that's putting yourself on a better position already. The results may not show fast but it will come on the right time. Just like trying to cut your weight and be fit, all you have to do is put yourself on a better position and how are you going to do that? just go to the gym or put your shoes on and run outside, it's very simple yet people are complicating it because they were thinking too much, they were thinking about being beautiful fast and getting a sexy body fast, that complicates the whole thing. If you will just do something for your goal then that's putting yourself on a better position already.

WHY ARE PEOPLE SO AFRAID OF MAKING A DECISION?

1. It's very simple... they don't believe in themselves. They never give themselves a chance to become the authority. You don't need confidence at all, you just need to have that mindset of never giving up and embracing all the humiliations that will be thrown at you every time you made a bad decision. It's ok to have no confidence at all for as long as you keep moving forward and embracing the pain of failing then you will have confidence in the end, that feeling of invincibility will be ingrained to your system. Just keep trying, keep going to the top, show up, keep climbing the mountain, focus on your destination and you will feel that every decision is right.

2. They think that other people will get mad. They let other people make a decision for them because they don't want to offend anybody, they were so trying to become nice a lot. Being nice and pleasing other people will only make you feel weak, it will only make you unable to express yourself. If you want to feel free then forget that other people will get mad, if you really want to do something great and make a decision for yourself then stop thinking that other people will get mad.

3. They were so afraid to look stupid. They were so afraid of getting judged, they think that what will they do is wrong before they even execute it. They were more concerned of the feelings of other people. It's ok to look stupid, their perspective at you will change if you keep working hard and make yourself stand out by dying for what you want, you must show them that you really want it. Don't be afraid to look stupid, it's ok, their comments doesn't matter anymore, what matters is how are you living your life and how are you making your life better each day. If your intention is right and if your action is related to your goal then that is right.

4. They were so dumb lazy, they were so afraid of the pain they are about to get by working hard. If you're too lazy and you think that you will get tired every time you move then you will never make decisions, you will just take things for granted and let things happen to you naturally, even if you have a control on something... you will still not make a decision because you're so afraid of the pain, you don't want to move at all, laziness is controlling your life, as simple as that.

5. They were always looking for somebody to save them. They were always waiting for somebody to help them, they believe in a savior, they believe that one day life is going to get better because a help is on the way. The truth is nobody will save you, you are the only one who can save your life.

6. They're waiting for the perfect time.The perfect time will never come, it is not real, there is no such thing as a perfect timing or great time to start. Life is happening right now, you have to do something now and stay productive no matter what. Because if you will not do something then life will leave you behind. People will improve, the economy will move one, a new product will be born, a new knowledge will be discovered, opportunities may knock on your door but you can't see it because you're always thinking about the perfect timing. Start now even if it feels so scary, start now even if it's too dangerous.

7. They hate the word sacrifice.  They can't sacrifice for their family, they can't sacrifice for a better cause, they were so selfish, all they want is to feel good, they think like a king but work like a slave. Learn to think that sacrifice has an equivalent reward and everything in your life will go easy. Sacrifice is nothing, you will just endure something, you will just do something... it's so easy. 

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