If you don't sacrifice for it then you don't believe it, as simple as that. Because it's not going to be easy. You will really have to face difficulty for a very long time. Sometimes it is really tiring but it is what it is... you have to be challenged or else you will never grow and learn anything that will make you successful. So go hard each day, some people say they get it easy if it is true then why in the heaven were there some people who can't make it? why are there some people who are still not successful?
Some people think that sacrifice is so hard but the reality is if they will just think about what they want then sacrifice will become easier. Sacrifice is hard because they don't have the right habits and right thoughts that will enable them to take actions when needed. Sacrifice is stopping doing what you are doing at the moment to do what is necessary.
But the reality is... if you will enjoy it then it's not a sacrifice anymore. If you will enjoy pain and boredom then it's not a sacrifice anymore, it's already a habit. The reason why you think that it's a sacrifice is because you think that it's hard just even before you begin. It's your attitude towards your work that will determine if you can sacrifice longer. If you can have the right attitude towards your work and you will find how to enjoy it even more then life will become easier.
If you don't sacrifice for it then you don't believe it. Do you really want it? do you really believe in it? If you really believe it then you will give all of your time for it, you will never regret that you push so hard and still fail, you will try again, you will never give up. You will sacrifice your money, energy, relationship, extra time and happiness for it.
THINGS TO SACRIFICE TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL:
1. TELEVISION. How many times did you watch the same show even if you don't like it anymore? you keep on watching it even if it's just wasting your time, if you're so addicted to television then smash your TV with a baseball bat, yeah you need to do it, at least for a change. And don't ever think of buying a new television because that is stupidity at its finest, why will you buy another one if you already made a decision to stop using it because it's just a waste of time?
2. GOSSIPS. You're so addicted to gossips, you want to know who is the latest pregnant in town, who has the biggest problem, who is has the newest cellphone. It gives your mind something to think about but that information is useless, it's just a waste of time. Sometimes you will even think about other people's problems even if it is not your business, you better stop that crap now because it's only polluting your mind.
3. TOXIC FRIENDS. Sometimes you think that you have no choice to pick some higher quality friends, you associate yourself with people that are not worth it. You know what... you are who you associate yourself with, if someone is not pushing you to the top and just pulling you down then dump him, throw him to the garbage can, ignore him.
4. BAD SPENDING HABITS. if you are using your money the wrong way and you are always in debts then you will never become successful. It's because you're always on a grid of surviving, you will have a habit of just living at the bottom, you will be contended of not being successful because in your mind you're already surviving so what is the use of sacrificing? You can never go to another level if you're always in debts because you will worry and that will destroy your focus to become successful.
5. ADDICTIVE THOUGHTS. Some thoughts were so addictive like thinking about your celebrity crush, thinking about the problems of your country, the latest gadget, the latest most embarrassing story etc. You think you're not wasting time but you are, sometimes you don't even know that you already used a lot of hours catering those thoughts inside of your head. You better get rid of those addictive thoughts so that you will become more productive in your everyday living.
6. UNHEALTHY FOODS. Not all because sometimes you need to reward yourself for achieving something great by eating junk foods. But if you can eliminate some of it then it's much better. Unhealthy foods will give you weird emotions that is making it hard for you to think or take some actions. Maybe it's because unhealthy foods were destroying your system little by little. If you can diminish eating healthy foods then your mind will operate faster and your body will function better.
7. COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS. It's so fun comparing yourself to others, it gives you a little bit of a nemesis or something but it's not good if you're pursuing success because you will feel bad every time you see that you are left behind. You need to stop comparing yourself because your timing is different than their timing. It can be their time now and your time may come a little late so if you don't want to feel bad... stop comparing yourself to others.
8. LOVE LIFE. Sometimes you really have to choose... is it your career or your love life, if your partner is already a big burden then you need to get rid of him, you have to make a choice, you cannot choose both. Some people can balance love life and career... yeah it is possible but if you already feel that your relationship with your partner is hurting your dreams then it's time to make a choice. It's time to move on and face a new chapter of your life, always remember that you should love yourself first more than anybody else. How can you love someone if you don't love yourself?
9. MOBILE GAMES. If you're like others who is so addicted to mobile games then you better stop it now. Face it... it's just a waste of time, it has no benefits and you will never get something from it. You're not a kid anymore, you are here to make yourself successful. Every second is an opportunity to make some money, there is no money on mobile games unless you're a game developer.
10. PROCRASTINATION. Everybody loves to procrastinate, who doesn't? it gives you comfort for the meantime but that comfort will not last too long. It will become a disaster later, you will lose your mind, you will lose your momentum and you feel so heavy and dead tired. Procrastination is sickness, it will never contribute anything to make your life better so why do it? You know better, you're too old for fooling yourself and making yourself believe that everything is alright even if you're procrastinating heavily.
11. USELESS INFORMATION. Just because you look like studying doesn't mean you are doing the right thing, just because you look busy doesn't mean you are picking the right information to make you successful. Even if the word or subject sounds advance or technological doesn't mean you have to consume it, some information is only making you confused, it's occupying a space in your brain but it is useless, beware if the information is making you closer to your dreams or not. Some information is misleading and deceiving.
HAVE A CLEAR VISION OF YOUR DREAMS.
Ask yourself if you really want it or not, if yes then you will do everything to make your dreams come true. You will shut down all the the distractions and focus mainly on what you are trying to achieve in life.
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