If you want to change your life then you need to focus on a different problem. The reason why you can't succeed is because you're focused on a problem that is not worth it, you're focused on a cheap and useless problem instead of focusing on a problem that can make you better.
Rich and most successful people were focused on making money and winning, they were not focused on something lesser than it. Poor people were focused on cheap and useless problems. They were focused on their neighbor's dog shit, corrupt government, complaints about traffics, small salary, budgeting, surviving the day, enemies, gossips, their celebrity idol's controversy, noisy neighbors and any other things that will not even make them grow.
But if you're focused on trying to make yourself better and valuable then you will become successful. If you're focused on how to build your muscles, how to make your business grow, how to buy that dream car, how to purchase that real estate property, how to pay for the tuition of your kids the you will have a better life. Focus on a big time problem, you are the one creating a problem for yourself, you are the one choosing which problem are you going to place your energy. You create your life by creating problems and focusing on them.
Look at the middle class people, they were focused on traffic, they were complaining a lot but rich people were simply focused on building buildings, real estate, inventing new products. Successful people were simply good in choosing what problem to focus on.
If you want to change now then focus on paying a new house instead of focusing on renting an apartment. Focus on creating more money instead of worrying about how will you be able to pay your bills, focus on building muscles and making your body stronger instead of worrying what food to eat. Focus on moving on and enduring the pain of losing someone instead of focusing on how will you become happy again.
Change your problem, focus on solving math problems instead of worrying whom will you copy some answers. It's all about the perspectives, problem is only inside of your head. If you will focus on problems that has rewards then you will have a better life.
Instead of focusing on critics why not focus on training harder and preparing harder? it's also a problem, it's also difficult the only difference is training has a reward but thinking about critics will only make you crazy.
You can change your problem, what makes your life difficult? if helping other people is not making your life better then why not help yourself first? you can always change if you want to, it's only a matter of placing your attention to a more meaningful thing.
Ignore what is useless and focus on what is useful. Ignore something that has no rewards and focus on something that will give you something in the future. If you hate your environment, if you hate the people around you then simply focus on your goals, focus on earning some money, it's a problem too but it's a problem that will make you happier in the future. Why will you think about your stupid and disrespectful neighbor if you can think about making your own life better? think about losing weight, think about building your own empire, again it's a problem too but a much sweeter and meaningful problem.
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