THE REAL GOAL IS YOU

It's not the big house, it's not the millions, it's not pleasing your friends, it's not being the number one. The real goal is you. It's you making yourself better, it's you clearing your mind and decluttering the unwanted and useless thoughts. Invest on yourself, make yourself the best version of you, do everything in your power to make yourself great. It's about your story not their story, you are directing your own movie with the actions and decisions that you are doing. 

ENJOY YOURSELF

Make yourself, enjoy yourself, the reason why you're not succeeding is because you hate yourself, you should learn how to teat yourself right. Love yourself because you're the only one who can give yourself true and undying love, you cannot get it from the hottest girl in your batch. Groom yourself everyday, make yourself presentable, gain confidence by working hard and doing what other people can't do, make yourself your own role model, don't look up to anybody, don't idolize somebody, idolize yourself. The only way to impress yourself is to take yourself seriously, put something useful in your mind, take the right information. Feed your body the right food, make yourself as an experiment, an experiment that was perfect and useful. Learn something, learn how to play a musical instrument, learn how to speak better, learn how to be mindful to any kind of situation, learn a skill, have fun with yourself because once you are impressed with your own works... you will become successful. So work on yourself everyday, become what you wanted to become, visualize becoming successful, visualize yourself killing it. 

IF YOU GET BETTER YOUR LIFE WILL BECOME BETTER

If you're faster, if you're more disciplined, if you're more persevering, if you're more experienced then your life will become better, as simple as it sounds. That's why you need to focus on making yourself great instead of minding other people's lives. Knowing the perfume of Kardashian will never make you smarter, getting the new shoes of your idol will never make you better. Don't get interested with other people, get more interested in what you're doing, get addicted with your goals an ambitions. Just try to become better than yesterday. You can improve on the intangibles, you can improve on being more patient, being mentally tougher, being a hard worker, being a fast finisher, being more focused. These basic characteristics will take you further, you can go very far if you mastered these skills. Get better everyday, force yourself to grow, sometimes you need to use all of your willpower to produce something positive, use your energy, try to improve as much as you can. 

IGNORE SOMETHING THAT WILL NOT MAKE YOU BETTER

If an action, a person, a meeting will never help you to upgrade... ignore it, just ignore it. Remember that you don't need to be liked, you don't need to become cool or popular. You don't need to do things just because it is fun, what you need to do is focus on trying to become a better person than yesterday. Ignore gossips, ignore toxic people, ignore useless entertainment. Be aware of the things that are slowing you down because if you will not discipline yourself then your dreams will melt down, it will become a dream forever, it will fly away and you will never be able to catch it. Ignore clickbaits, ignore something that is catchy but nonsense, ignore all the noise that is destroying your focus. 

BUDGET YOUR TIME

Use your time wisely, set limits for everything, there should be a limit for rest, there should be a limit for giving time to important people, you should stop extending even if you are enjoying too much. This is what great people do... they were very strict with their schedule, they don't let something slid, they don't give their time for free. Give more time for yourself, give more time for what you're doing, stop squandering your time because you will never get it back. Make most of your time only for you, remember that the goal is you, the goal is to make yourself better because once you're better and you already have the right habits... success will come so fast you will never even notice that it's already yours. Time is very precious, actually it has no price because you can never buy it, you can never add more hours to your daily life, you can never buy some time to extend the day. Value your time, always feel guilty if you're wasting some of it for something that's not contributing to your evolution. 

BELIEVE THAT YOU CAN BECOME GREAT

Visualize yourself to greatness, see yourself winning and making it, see yourself having everything you want. Believe that you have the power to make your dreams come true, believe that it's only just a matter of time before you finally get it. Always think that the gap is getting shorter and shorter, you are on your way to the top. You just need to work hard and keep pushing yourself to the limits. You can rise, you can soar, it's all up to you if you're going to make it or not. Throw away all of your excuses, make your life all about actions, move every single day, use the power of momentum, be faster and work harder. Quit playing games that are making you weak and slow, stop clowning around like most people did. Embody greatness, feel success falling into your hands. 

STOP BELIEVING WHAT CONTRADICTS YOUR OWN BELIEF EVEN IF IT COMES FROM A WELL KNOW PERSONALITY

YOUR BELIEF IS WHO YOU ARE, if you really believe in something and your heart can't doubt it for a second... never change it, never believe someone who is greater than you if his belief is against your belief. Your belief is pure, it is real, it will happen, it will materialize if you make a stand for it. Disrespecting your own belief is such a blasphemy, you should feel ashamed of yourself if you follow other people's belief rather than believing what your heart says.