If there is a toxic person in your life, if someone is making you feel heavy and bad... block that person right away. Block him in social media, block him in your mind, block him in your life, leave that bum right away and never think about him for a second. It is what it is, you need to be fast, you need your mind to become healthy and strong, if someone is not making you feel confident then have no regrets in blocking him. Never feel guilty about it, it's time to leave the losers in your life, it's time to create a space in your life for another person that is much better and will make you feel good.
YOU DON'T NEED TO BLOCK HIM OBVIUSLY IF YOU DON'T WANT HIM TO DISCOVER THAT YOU'RE SECRETLY DISLKING HIM
If you're not this person who can block a person right away, if you're not this person who can hurt the feelings of others then don't block him obviously, still give that bum some attention but treat him cold, talk to him sometimes but never give him any favor. Say no to him without remorse, reject his ideas, reject his wants and needs, say no to him all the time in a nice way. Remember, that shit is not giving you anything good in life, he's making you worse, he doesn't appreciate you so why even give some time and energy for him. Successful people were not really talented nor skilled, they were just good on avoiding craps that doesn't matter, they were good in just doing what they need to do and they really mean it, they don't have time for useless individuals that makes them feel less valuable. Have not time for nonsense garbage, know who you are, stop pleasing people, stop trying to look kind all the time, you don't need to protect your identity.
DON'T GET EXCITED TO HELP SOMEBODY
Be helpful but never look so excited to help somebody, don\'t give your all while helping, just give your 25 percent effort. At least you help, at least you give some time. Because trying to look so excited helping someone is making you weak, you are giving them power, you are making yourself weaker, you will become a target of abuse if you do that. Stop being needy for somebody's attention, you don't need to impress someone that you're helpful and kind, stop being too nice because people will think of it as a weakness.
Because they will never do the same for you, you're giving them a favor but these toxic people will never do the same for you. They were only nice to you if they need you but if you can't give something for them anymore... they will treat you like a garbage, you will become nobody again. You should help yourself instead, you're not succeeding right? you're not great right? so why not help yourself? make your life a little bit better, create some power that cannot be killed.
YOU DON'T NEED A LOT OF PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE
You need at least 5-10 real people in your life, people who really love you for who you are, and the truth is... even if nobody likes you, even if your own family cannot stomach you... it's ok, you're good, you're still alive. DO something that will make you likeable, earn a lot of money, become big time and let's see if those users still doesn't want to kiss your ass, of course they will pretend that they were close to you and they love you but you're a smart person now, you will never let a snake enter your gate. Work hard for yourself and the right people will come, the right company will reveal itself. If you love yourself, if you're investing on yourself then good Karma will come to your life.
Stop being too kind, stop being too nice because they will use you and abuse you, they will left you with nothing.
PRIORITIZE YOURSELF FIRST
You're not putting yourself on the driver's seat and that's why you can't become happy. You care too much about other people, you care about their feelings, thoughts and emotions. You don't want to offend somebody but you hate getting offended. You will never become happy if you're always worried about what people say. You are getting hurt so easily with their opinions and that's why you feel weak all the time, you're too worried about what's going on inside of their heads and that's why you can't feel free, you can't become creative and free flowing. Focus on yourself, never mind other people's business and you will feel happier more than ever.
IGNORE ALL THE DRAMAS
Too much dramas going on around the world, look at your life, is your life filled with a lot of dramas and complains? if yes then you better change it. Stay away from dramatic people, they were soft and will never contribute to your journey, they will drag you down, they will make you suffer. Remove all the toxicity, cry baby antics and dramas in your life, it's for people who are always having a self pity, you know you're better than that. It's time to man up and do something.
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