Focus is a very strong Tool

Focus creates speed, focus makes you productive, focus keeps you away from troubles like troubles in staying late at night, hanging out with the wrong people, failing grades etc etc. With focus you will go farther, with a laser focus you will become greater. Focus is a very simple process yet people are not buying into it, it's because there is too much going on with their heads, they don't want a simple life, they want everything. 

WHY IT'S HARD TO FOCUS?

Because you're not mindful, because you want a lot of things in your life, you want a lot of people, you want a lot of materialistic flashy things, you want to become popular, you want to know everything, you want the news, you want to become cool. It's hard to focus because you're not prioritizing your goals. You are more interested with other people's lives and that's making you slow, uncommitted, unproductive and unhappy. If you're focused on the things and people that really matters then life will become much much easier. You don't have to deal with other people's problems, you don't have to share dramas with toxic people. It's hard to focus because you're not teaching yourself how to love everything that you're doing, it's hard to focus because you're not following your own journey, instead you are following the journey of other people. 

DEFINE THE STEPS YOU NEED TO TAKE

What are the steps you need to take in order to get to the next level? look at yourself watch your behavior, is that behavior helpful? is that giving you an edge? are your steps really helpful or are they making your situation worse. You know who you are, you know what are you doing. In order to become better you need to get rid of the steps that are addictive but a total waste. You can always do better. Define the steps that you're going to everyday, list it if you can. Once you know what are these steps... fully trust, this is how to build a strong habit... define the steps that you are going to repeat everyday. You need to believe these steps and never doubt it for a second, use these steps even if it's not giving you anything. 

DEFINE THE PEOPLE THAT YOU NEED TO GIVE AN ATTENTION

Trim your circle, know the people that are healthy in your life. Know the people that you need to give some energy. Make a list of people that are motivating you, inspiring you and helping you to grow. Cross out the people that are making you feel bad, don't talk to them, don't like their posts, stop getting interested with their activities. Stop simping, stop following sexy girls on instagram. If you really want to become productive then just define the circle that you are trying to create. Define your own company or group and stop giving any attention to people that's not nice to you. It's ok to have a life that is a little bit boring, it's ok to have few friends, once you get use to it you will know the benefits of it. You will have more time for yourself, you will feel much better, toxicity will be lessen in your life. 

Because someone is toxic and you're not being strict about it, you are letting someone invade your space, you are letting them control your mind and emotions. If someone is toxic and not healthy... let him go, have no feelings over that person. 

CHOOSE THE THOUGHTS THAT YOU NEED TO THINK

This is the most important thing... choose the thoughts that will enter your mind. You have the power to believe so why not use it? why not believe in yourself instead of doubting yourself? why not bet on yourself instead of betting on other people? why not believe that you can make it instead of counting yourself out right before you even begin. This is how to program your mind for success. If you want money then choose thinking about money, choose to think about solutions, choose to think about winning and never think about losing just for a second. IT is what it is, you really have to battle against your mind. Your mind is full of negativity and that's why it's hard to win. But if you will force yourself to think about the positive thoughts then you will make progress faster. 

CHOOSE THE REACTIONS TO EVERYTHING

If there is someone who slightly disrespect you how are you going to react? if you got rejected by a girl or by a company how would you react? if someone criticized you how would you react? you reactions can destroy your day completely. You have to stop reacting to small things that doesn't even matter at all. The best reaction is no reaction. If something bad happen... just move forward. Never care about something that doesn't resonate with your goal. Keep in mind that you're chasing something, any distraction will make you slower, it will destroy your focus. What do you really want? trying to change what you can't control or focusing on winning? you can never win if you will always react to small things that is not even helping at all. Keep a tunnel vision, never react to things that will not help you. 

THE ONLY GAME PLAN

The only gameplan is to work hard and stop procrastinating, if you're not wasting any time then you will be alright, as simple as that. Stop simping, stop stalking girls on instagram, stop checking the girl that crushes your heart, stop thinking about dating Palmela Anderson and just work hard. Yeah, it's fun to check those semi nude pictures but how can it help you? you're not moving forward every time you practice instant gratification, the key to success is to delay gratification. Stop looking for entertainment and always look forward to grind, as simple as that. So stop being lazy and just work, what the hell are you waiting for? keep grinding.