If it's hard for you to make results, if you're really working hard but only getting less, if you feel you deserve more but you're getting few... ignore the prize. Develop a character instead, develop yourself, develop your mindset. Just become great in what you do and never stop push forward when it feels like hell, sooner or later it will feel like heaven. You have to stop having self pity, stop focusing on the prize because you never know when it will come to you. Just develop a strong character, develop a strong mind to not give up. Develop the habits to become more productive, develop the reactions you will use whenever you fail. Of course the reaction every time you fail should be "I will try again harder this time". Never feel sorry for yourself for trying hard but didn't get anything. The mindset should be... you're hungrier and angrier this time, you're in it to win it, you will never stop until you get what you want, and that's the main goal.
YOUR CHARACTER IS THE KEY
Do you think these millionaires didn't cry a lot of time sin their lives because of failing a lot? do you think these successful people didn't suffer for how many times before making it? These people evolved through failure, they didn't shy away from the pressure, they didn't skip the hard process, their strong characters were molded by fire. If you're down and you have a strong character then you will still survive. If you're up but you have a weak character then you will fall down easily, as simple as that. Build a strong character by facing all the challenges, face all your problems and never fold during pressure times. Pressure creates diamonds so be happy if you're dealing with pressure because it will make you stronger and better.
THE ONLY CHRACTER YOU NEED
The only character you need is not giving up. That's it, because life is simply full of challenges, it's not about happiness and cake walk all the time. Life is all about facing your fears and conquering your inner demons. The only character you need is a man who will persevere until the end. There's no need to become a super human here, you just need to condition your mind to never give up... ever. Giving up is not an option anymore, it's for the weak. Do you want to be called weak? you're already strong if you don't give up, too simple right? just don't give up when times are hard. Just don't give up and you will win. Because quitters were losers. Quitting is for the weak, why quit if all you need to do is try again for one more time? if you have to quit something it's the idea of looking for comfort and easy life, quit that mindset because it's not helpful at all.
Your ability to keep pushing when it's hard says it all. Anybody can act confident and great when they're winning but can they still manage to feel confident when they're losing or going down? your true character will be revealed when your life is falling apart. That's why it's necessary to build a strong mind and you can do it by constant visualization and facing challenges everyday. Don't shy away from challenges, face it like a real man, with all you've got... make your life better each day. Put yourself on the best position to succeed.
Sometimes it doesn't matter anymore if you're winning or losing, what matters is you have the character to survive each day and keep fighting until your life gets better again. Just don't be a quitter and that's it, whatever you are feeling right now... always show up, always do what you need to do and never stop until you're done. Put yourself on a mission to get better each day, stay consistent, stay hungry all the time.
LEARN HOW TO DEAL WITH PRESSURE AND FEAR
Just stay calm, stay still, sometimes you don't need to do anything. All you need to do is slow things down and feel the pressure and fear. This is the best way how to deal with these emotions... don't move if you don't need to move, feel it, you will see that it is nothing. Detach from expectations, forget the future, forget what may happen and just focus on the now. You will grow if you're focused on the now, you will feel more powerful if you will stay present. Just breathe and let life happen, let your emotions come and go. Not all fear will stay in your body forever, feel it and it will become weaker and weaker. Look it in it's eyes and say to yourself that you're not afraid of the moment, you are ok to lose, you are ok to fall down but you will face fear in its eyes and never do stupid things. It's very simple to deal with pressure and fear, just breathe and let go, never force anything, never think about anything, live life, keep your system running, feel everything around you, be aware and in just a few seconds fear and pressure will turn into courage and strength. Always remember that this is life, this is just a game, all you nee to do is play it and give your best. Detach from your own expectations, detach from other people's expectations, stop thinking that you need to do perfect and simple do what you can do.
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