If you will treat something as nothing then it will become unstoppable, meaning you will not take it seriously, you will not attached yourself too much with it, you will not feel bad if people don't like it, you will not get frustrated or depressed if it didn't work, in other words you will treat it as nothing. You will just enjoy the process win or lose, you will just have fun doing it everyday. You will not take it seriously but you will work hard for the process, it's like a game, you will not take it personally, there is no ego attached with it. If you will have this kind of mindset then the pressure will go away, you will become more productive, faster and creative. This only means you're unstoppable, you have nothing to lose, there's no chip on your shoulder to win and that will make you dangerous and unpredictable, you can do everything, you are free, nothing is holding you back.
THINKING TOO MUCH ABOUT SUCCESS MAKES YO STUCK
It's making you slow, it's making you worried, you are becoming stagnant because of thinking about it too much. You are worried about your position, you are scared of what people might say because you create an illusion that they are expecting too much from you, you are trying to become perfect, you are so conservative with your actions, you just wanted to win, you are not open to the idea that there is a possibility that you might lose. You are calculating your actions too much, you are so attached to the idea that you must do well. Treat success like an ordinary thing, treat it like another day in your life, don't feel proud about it, don't feel so pressured about it, treat it like just a piece of candy that you can get and lose.
NEVER THINK THAT YOU ARE SPECIAL
Thinking that you're too good so you need attention, thinking that you're great so you need to win right away... this mindset is blocking your progress. You think you're special that's why you're not working hard, you think that you need a special treatment, you think shits must be handed to you. Stop feeling like a celebrity, stop feeling like a king because that will stop you from taking risks and working so hard. Think yourself like nothing, this mentality will help you lessen the pressure, it will make you feel lighter and weightless, you will become more creative and open to ideas, you will never take anything personally. Because every time you take something personally... it's derailing your progress, it's destroying your focus, you're feeling bad about the critics, disrespectful treatment from other people, cold treatment from other people, these things will affect you so badly.
DON'T BE AFRAID OF A DEFEAT
Once you lost... swallow it like a real man and go back trying again. Never waste your time crying and whining and posting your hard work that didn't materialize on social media. Once you tasted defeat... start again, try again and never look back. A defeat is just a defeat, it becomes more bitter because you're attaching something to it, you think that winning is the most important thing in your life. It's becoming a bitter pill to swallow because you care too much about it. You care about people who were calling you a loser, you care too much about your legacy. You think that your identity was based on winning and this is destroying your mentality, this is stopping you from improving. Nobody was undefeated, everybody tasted some defeat, it's part of life. Life is ups and downs, twists and turns, it's a journey, be ok with losing because it will make you grow. You should feel happy when you lose because it's taking your mentality to another level, you will never be afraid of losing next time because you already knew how it feels. Keep losing again and again until it doesn't make you feel bad anymore, if you will become numb after losing then you will become a dangerous man, success will fall into your hands in just a matter of time, you will no longer be scared of losing and that makes success attracted to you.
A person who is not afraid to lose is so attractive and dangerous, a person who doesn't make success a big deal will get success easier than someone who is so pressured to get it, why? because he will just do whatever he want to do, he will become more creative, he will be able to move faster and better unlike someone who is so attached with success, this guy will move stiffer and slower, he is so conscious about making mistakes and that's why he will never win.
In other words, take risks, don't be afraid of losing because it's part of your life, it's nothing new, there's nothing special about losing so why make it a big deal? why give so much attention about it?
STILL GO ALL IN EVEN IF YOU DON'T CARE
You don't mind losing but still go all in, still give your very best. It's like you have nothing to lose but you are open to winning, you are also open to becoming great but just like I said...you don't make it a big deal, you are not needy of succeeding too much, it's like an ordinary day to you, you want it but you don't want it so bad, you are still relaxed and enjoying the process. And this makes you so dangerous and attractive, your energy is so positive and free flowing, you are becoming a threat, you are creating an impact.
NEVER CHECK YOUR STATUS ALL THE TIME
Never check your position, never check how many subscribers you've got, never check if you're behind or having a great lead over other people, never check if you're winning or not. Just do what you need to do, don't check your status all the time because it will again lead to frustration.
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